As I see it, there are three camps, before we even get into gender stuff:
One camp wants to reform science. They are still concerned about the replication crisis, and they focus on methods, open science, peer review, datasets, registered reports, generalisability of experiments, p-hacking, and so on. These people use the language of science and STEM-based epistemology. Let's call them the reformists.
The other camp is ā and there is no way around it ā anti-science. They do not like "STEM bros", they don't believe in maths/numbers/statistics/quantitative research. They are much more into me-search, as long as it is unabashedly subjective, literary, and qualitative. In general, these people are opposed to reductionism, empiricism, systematising, or objectivity. Their epistemology is very different from the first group, and they will tell you that the first group is missing the point. Materialism is false. The project of science will forever be mired by human subjectivity. Let's call them the radicals.
The third camp is the establishment. These are your presidents of professional organisations, your Faucis, your Susans Fiske or your Carolyns M. Rouse. They will in general pay lip service to sweeping structural critiques from the second camp, and vigorously push back against the first. Let's call them the institutionalists.
Now back to women in particular: If you run into somebody who introduces herself as a "feminist scientist" today, she may be in any of these three camps. She may be an establishment spokeswoman who sees the ivory tower of science beset by skeptic randos with blogs and access to papers through sci-hub. Just as women made it to the top, methodological terrorists are destroying the ivory tower. Institutionalists hate actionable, constructive criticism.
She may be a radical, an adherent of "feminist physics", or an anti-science humanities writer who explains that women have other ways of knowing, or that the problem with computer science is the focus on machines and numbers.
Or she may be a reformist who thinks certain hypotheses had been underexplored and we need to broaden our horizons while also tightening up our methodological standards, and to get more women into STEM.
It is important to understand that there is a deep distrust between "women in physics" and "feminist physics". One side thinks the others are nutjobs who make them look bad, and the other side thinks you cannot reform science from the inside. If you suggest to a feminist woman in physics that you took her for a subscriber to Luce Irigaray's idea of phallogocentrism, she might get very annoyed!
There's another way to look at this, though. One camp believes that women and/or feminists have shared goals, shared interests, and shared experiences, and for this reason, you can elide or ignore the contradictions, or at the very least argue for solidarity or a temporary truce. People who should be at odds about science because they argue for fundamentally incompatible epistemologies will put their differences aside and agree to disagree, or even downplay the extent of the disagreement in public in some attempt at message discipline.
The other camp believes that the real enemy is the (phallogocentrism/false political consciousness) of the reformers, or the (cravenness/kyriarchy) of the institutionalists, or the (naivetƩ/ideological insularity) of the radicals.