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I think deffo on my top 10 things I want to teach women as a feminist is that men are OPPORTUNISTIC. all this run around about evil and nature and whatever and at the end of the day it's OPPORTUNITY. their privilege presents OPPORTUNITY and they take it. takes just one rape to become a rapist

being a girl and hitting puberty is so traumatic. you go from being a genderless little free thing to being hit with shaving and makeup and growing breasts and skincare and menstruation and suddenly being sexualised when like a few years ago you could take your shirt off to play in the stream and trade yugioh cards with the boys and come home covered in mud and not even think about it. and then you spend years hating being a girl and hating everything puberty did to you and wishing you could be a boy or be completely genderless again and it takes you Many years to come to terms with yourself Or you simply try to Lean In to everything and do makeup tutorials on YouTube and claim it’s for fun. like how can this be treated as normal

SHES THE ONE WHO SAID THAT?????? queen i never knew it was her

Freaks tend to reason “sex is not inherently traumatizing, ergo molestation is not that bad. Just a perception thing.” I take the opposite perspective. I think sex is an inherently fraught, vulnerable, loaded experience. And it makes sense you need adult cognition and confidence to navigate it without repercussion. Even so, adults are fucked up by (ostensibly consensual!) sexual experiences all the time. Sex can be totally “consensual,” and still traumatizing. This doesn’t speak to the immature and undeveloped perspective of the victim. It speaks to the highly personal, vulnerable, fraught nature of sex itself in any capacity

i understand why radfems are seen as miserable because it’s pretty miserable to notice misogyny in everything. being intolerant of it makes you unable to participate in many things. no i haven’t seen that popular movie. or the new crime show. i need two fingers to count how many of my favorite artists as a young girl turned out to be abusers or enablers. i won’t separate the art from the artist. i don’t want to hear my friend talk about her anime. it’s gross. i don’t want to go to a party or club where i can get in free because im the product. or where i get rejected because im not “pretty enough” to be a product. i dont want to go to a frat party or be friendly with the males in them. even if they seem to be “woke” because the institution is rooted in patriarchal white supremacy. no, i actually think your dark romance is disgusting and indulges in the same violent sexuality you claim to hate about porn and men. and no i dont want to support your onlyfans or hear about the men you claim to have power over because they give you money due to your beauty and willingness to please them. i will tell you every red flag i hear about your boyfriend when you speak of him. and his friends. i WILL tell you that the horror films you love so much sexualize violence against women. i will tell you your favorite artist is an abuser. or that they pander to the male gaze while claiming to do so as satire. and i don’t want to have to bite my tongue either. i don’t want to not share the truth because it makes you uncomfortable. i will call your favorite things misogynistic if they are. and honestly, the misery doesn’t come from noticing these things for what they are. it comes from the fact that others don’t seem to, and if they do, they look past it. that’s what’s miserable about it.

Drag queen's mock actual female figures all the damn time. Its one thing to create a drag persona and play that but to bastardise a female character and play up exaggerated traits for "comedy" is just pure misogyny

Don't forget about putting women against each other for male attention

You may think that all of this is an exaggeration but I literally was standing in the kitchen while my uncle gave this "advice" to my brother.