𝐅𝐈𝐒𝐇𝐍𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐆𝐀𝐍𝐒

I immediately think of ethnicities with their history, food, clothing, and so on. I think of lesbians with their "butch" and "femme" roles. But both are social constructs. No lesbian is born knowing she’ll uphold a stereotypical feminine role in heteronormative relationships (i.e., being femme). And no Russian is born loving the balalaika, folk dances, and songs.

What you're describing sounds a lot like a fandom??? And I don't really get how a "fandom" of people united solely by being attracted to one or two sexes should even look.

I don’t really get what "inside jokes" mean because I can’t recall any inside jokes among lesbians or gays or any of that stuff (If they really exist, I’d be curious to know 🙂‍↕️).

I immediately think of ethnicities with their history, food, clothing, and so on. I think of lesbians with their "butch" and "femme" roles. But both are social constructs. No lesbian is born knowing she’ll uphold a stereotypical feminine role in heteronormative relationships (i.e., being femme). And no Russian is born loving the balalaika, folk dances, and songs.

To summarise, a man that she connected with on Hinge, who she has never met in person, whose only knowledge of her comes from her dating profile, decided to send a long voice note to her that was essentially real life fanfiction about them going on a date.

This includes the man fantasising about what she would say on the date, her slipping off a shoe to rub her foot against his leg to "tease" him, and them going back to his place, where his fantasy of her asked him to turn on the light and in that fantasy, he still refused, before he talks about them kissing and crossing the line into foreplay.

Not only is that the most unhinged and entitled behaviour, not only is that a perfect representation of how men view women as objects to use as opposed to actual people, possibly the most shocking part of all of it can be found in the last part, where he finishes the fantasy, with his reasoning being that they haven't had a chance to talk about "respect" and "consent," as though he didn't decide to write and verbally act out his fantasy, including an obvious foot fetish moment, and only moments before didn't talk about kissing her hips and both smelling and tasting her out of nowhere, without any consent at all, or any respect to her. No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

right but on social media when a bi girl gets a bf

“We lost another one”

“Bi girls and their bf again😒”

“ugh! im so sad this celebrity or famous person likes men imma just say their lesbian”

“shes a lesbian in my head…”

You know that's what it means deep down, you're just not used to seeing anyone else say it aloud or validate your pain. It's not just social media or being online. It's a constant reminder that the world refuses to accept that bisexuality is real. It's the constant forced re-closeting. It's the constant "you don't matter as much as other people" that chips away at self-confidence and self-esteem that makes us more susceptible to being groomed into abuse. It's the dismissal of our experiences by monosexuals that feel entitled to define us and our experiences, like we're merely objects that they own.

Say it with me: bisexuals are oppressed for being bisexual, and we are forever bisexual whether we're single, dating or married. We're not objects. We're real people and real individuals who are oppressed as individual people like everyone else.

To summarise, a man that she connected with on Hinge, who she has never met in person, whose only knowledge of her comes from her dating profile, decided to send a long voice note to her that was essentially real life fanfiction about them going on a date.

This includes the man fantasising about what she would say on the date, her slipping off a shoe to rub her foot against his leg to "tease" him, and them going back to his place, where his fantasy of her asked him to turn on the light and in that fantasy, he still refused, before he talks about them kissing and crossing the line into foreplay.

Not only is that the most unhinged and entitled behaviour, not only is that a perfect representation of how men view women as objects to use as opposed to actual people, possibly the most shocking part of all of it can be found in the last part, where he finishes the fantasy, with his reasoning being that they haven't had a chance to talk about "respect" and "consent," as though he didn't decide to write and verbally act out his fantasy, including an obvious foot fetish moment, and only moments before didn't talk about kissing her hips and both smelling and tasting her out of nowhere, without any consent at all, or any respect to her. No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

So actually actually 2 Muslim nurses in 2 different countries have admitted on social media that they have killed Jews, and a 3rd Muslim nurse professed strong desire to do so:

"Btissame Chait-Said, who works as a home health nurse for the elderly ... posted on Instagram in mid-July that “all Zionists can die in healthcare and I’m happy to help.” She also wrote, “You know what I do to Zionists: As a nurse practitioner, I give them an extra injection so they go to heaven.”

and in Australia:

To summarise, a man that she connected with on Hinge, who she has never met in person, whose only knowledge of her comes from her dating profile, decided to send a long voice note to her that was essentially real life fanfiction about them going on a date.

This includes the man fantasising about what she would say on the date, her slipping off a shoe to rub her foot against his leg to "tease" him, and them going back to his place, where his fantasy of her asked him to turn on the light and in that fantasy, he still refused, before he talks about them kissing and crossing the line into foreplay.

Not only is that the most unhinged and entitled behaviour, not only is that a perfect representation of how men view women as objects to use as opposed to actual people, possibly the most shocking part of all of it can be found in the last part, where he finishes the fantasy, with his reasoning being that they haven't had a chance to talk about "respect" and "consent," as though he didn't decide to write and verbally act out his fantasy, including an obvious foot fetish moment, and only moments before didn't talk about kissing her hips and both smelling and tasting her out of nowhere, without any consent at all, or any respect to her. No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

"Feminism is about hating men" => "Radfem is man-hating movement"

"All feminists are ugly" => "TERFs are ugly,"

"Feminists just want a good dick 😂😂" => "TERFs just want my girlcock"

On top of that, there's a complete unwillingness to listen to what feminists/radfem have to say, an unwillingness to understand them, and no empathy for these women. Unwillingness to understand the very essence of ideology. Pure mockery.