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The Queer Library is a LBGTQ+/MOGAI/LIOM Discord server dedicated mainly to archiving various terms within these umbrellas, as well as those outside of it.
Our mission is to preserve these identities and their histories while providing a constructive environment that encourages self-expression and open-minded discussion.
πͺ· One of the Most Inclusive Servers Around! - We are radically inclusive, pro endogenic, and welcome, everyone! (Even anti-contact paraphiliacs and things of that nature!)
πͺ· Variety of Channels! - We have channels dedicated to creating terms, assisting users with accessibility, and more
πͺ· Stress-Free Zone! - Very relaxed rules, for those who just want to joke around and chill
πͺ· Positivity Everywhere! - We encourage positivity and educational discussion, as well as providing various resources (And can be used as a safe place to fill your morbid curiosity about various topics!)
πͺ· Show Yourself Off! - We have pluralkit support, as well as many roles to tell others what type of person you are.
πͺ· Many New Perspectives! - Mixed yet peaceful and respectful userbase (Radinclus, critinclus, radqueers, and others :3; There are seperate spaces donβt worry)
πͺ· Level 2 Boosted! - Our server is currently at booster level 2, and boosters get a custom role, emoji, and access to an exclusive channel~
Also, I just want to clarify: Despite us allowing radqueers, we are not a radqueer server. We are a radinclus server.
Allowed =/ Supportive/Encouraged (If this is still an issue block the people you donβt like or leave if you're not mature enough to "suck it up" and enjoy the server with people you don't like in it)
(We allow them mainly as they tend to be inclusive by default and a different viewpoint; We also despite being a radinclus server allow inclusionists in general as long as they are pro endo, pro MOGAI-LIOM/Mspec Lesbian/etc, and are at least neutral on paraphilias)
Deleting our anti-para, anti-radqueer, and anti-transid posts
Disclaimer: we are not radqueer, this is being done as they were all made by a previous host and are being spread around more again, possibly causing harassment
I previously mentioned leaving these posts up to hold accountability as they weren't being spread anymore, but over the recent weeks we've been getting more notifications of people reblogging and liking them, so they're being deleted
If you want to use archive links as a way of expressing YOUR personal opinion on the matter, we can't stop you, but we will be deleting the posts
hey um pro-transid person here and i just wanna thank you for apologizing and stuff,, im very glad that you realized what you did was wrong and apologized for it bc yeah your posts did incite a lot of harassment but more importantly they were one of the causes of a *lot* of people realizing what transids were and then faking being pro-transid to get into our communities just to later harass, hate on, and threaten us,, which like, not saying u did that at all, just saying that your posts ended up causing a lot of that to happen
but if you ever want to genuinely learn in good-faith what different transids and stuff are, the community is very accepting and supportive of people and is very open to helping out and not "cancelling" anyone who's done bad things in their past that they've apologized for
we're (me at least,, /lh) happy to explain things to you and tell you about our experiences if you genuinely want to better learn about our communities, im sorry that people hurt you in those communities in the past but from what i've read from other people a lot of well-known ppl in the community ended up being trolls (ex. transabled-dream is a very very well-known troll who made a lot of people anti-transid by making the community look terrible) so most likely the people who hurt you were trolls who only set out to hurt people and weren't actually genuine pro-transid ppl,, since that's happened to a lot of ppl
tldr;; if you wanna learn anything then ask the community abt our experiences and we're happy to tell you,, ty for apologizing though && i hope you're doing better now
It's cool to see people sending kind words over, and personally I'm interested in learning!
It's easiest to contact us via discord which is currently π²The Onisian Sectorγ½ο½γ#0156 but may change soon since the system has changed so much already, if it does I'll just update this post
Any discord servers or tumblr blogs are also appreciated - you're free to send them in as asks too if you prefer that over messages, I won't respond to them if you say not to
Also are you gonna delete the posts on staying safe or are you gonna keep em up? Cuz I like having them on my blog
right now I think I'm leaving them up purely because they're not really being spread around anymore, and I'd rather stay accountable for that crap than pretend it never happened
this might change in future, but personally I hate that previous hosts ever posted those things
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Important: Staying Safe in MOGAI and LIOM Communities is changing
Hi! I'm Fever/Qwerty (that thing/ποΈ/eye/π³οΈ/biz/it), new host of the Onisian Sector, and because I'm the new host I'm also bringing along a new perspective to the kind of stuff the previous hosts posted on here before our mental health break
Please stick around if you can :)
An apology to victims of harrassment:
I wanna get this out the way first, there's bound to have been people who took the posts we made on certain communities, and went and harrassed people in them (especially young people), and I apologise for fueling that regardless of my actual beliefs or thoughts on certain identities
Even if you think someone is doing a horrible thing when it comes to how they identify, they're one person on the internet, and sending threats and/or trying to deplatform them for literally no reason that breaks Tumblr ToS isn't cool
DNI Remake
You might notice that I reworded some of our DNI and took some things off, this is not permanent
The truth is that I don't know what to think and I don't know all the right terminology for things - I also kinda don't want to form opinions in much depth on this stuff
What are my opinions on radqueer identities then?
Honestly? I have no idea because I don't understand
Yes we've had horrific experiences in the community before, including encounters with offending MAPs that were trying to hide behind the idea of being radqueer. So yes I still have a huge issue with the idea of letting any MAPs interact whether they have a disorder or not
Continuing off of that, I don't understand 90% of trans- identities the radqueer community supports by any means - I can't get an unbias opinion anywhere either so yeah
I'm chronosian myself, so I can to an extent understand abstract dysphoria, but beyond that, not really
What will "staying safe in x communities" become?
It'll probably become something that doesn't touch on its main focus before I became host, meaning I probably won't be doing anything related to 'radqueer terms'
This is because I just don't think it's worth it making content about terms I'll never grasp the meaning of and that don't pose as much of a threat to the community as other things might
Final words:
We're busy with college stuff so I won't be posting super often I don't think, but I welcome any questions ya'll might have (some I may still ignore, I'm not comfortable answering everything)
Hi i was wondering what the acronym "LIOM" meant that you used in your post about safe queers meant, I've never seen it before and google isn't yielding any results
LIOM is a new community label, intended to parallel acronyms such as LGBT while covering a larger scope of marginalized identities/concepts
Labels and Identities, Orientations, and Other Minorities
Staying Safe in MOGAI and LIOM Communities - 'Safequeer'
The term safequeer is going around - it is a huge dogwhistle for exclusionists
These are the flags associated with the term ^ the waterlily is claimed to be their symbol
The movement claims to care about 'safety' and the protection of disabled people, queer people, and POC - it misuses the critinclus label and is an exclusionist movement
Safequeer advocates against:
Any use of transabled, trace, or transage
Endos/Tulpas - the movement is blatantly anti-endo and anti-tulpa
Paraph1lias and proshippers - the creator misdefines what being pro-para is as well as what being proship is, whilst we are not proship at all it's still important to fight back against blatant misinfo. They define pro-para/paraph1lia as such: "A term used to defend zphilia, pphilia, nphilia, etc". This is blatant misinfo as the term pro-para works to support those with these paras, not encourage acting upon them. Proship is defined in a fearmongering way - in reality it's just a term for those that are okay with or support the ability to ship any kind of relationship in fiction, the creator defines it as "someone who supports shipping pphilia, inc3st, or abus3 as well as drawn [bad child material]", which is just reaching and trying to make them look 'worse'
'Harmful identities', where it claims lesboys/turigirls and mspec lesbians/gays are harmfulΒ - simply put, it's exclusionism
Transandrophobia truthers - the movement actively disbelieves in any transphobia directly aimed at transmasculine individuals, and claims any understanding of that is transmisogyny
This movement considers itself to be anti-exclusionist and critical inclusionist based, it is not
@mogai-sunflowers We felt it was important you saw this term if you haven't already, as it actively misuses your label /g
It is a flag made purely to spread misinformation that critical inclusionists are exclusionists and are "hiding behind different labels". It's definition is below:
It's explicitly making critical inclusionism = exclusionism, as well as promotes the idea that 'real inclusionists' should always support trace, transage, transabled, transbody, transautistic, and the alike. It mocks the idea that critinclus people are critical and if you see this flag you are interacting with someone who is anti-critinclus and believes you must be radqueer to be inclusive
An introduction to the Selective Validation rant series:
We are not referring to everyone within a community when we say these things and our opinions expressed here aren't professional or going to be sourced, this is just a rant series - feel free to suggest communities to discuss and points to make
Some folks in the LGBTQ+ community are just way too selective in what they support and validate nowadays within their own community and it shows. It's like each community within it has its own internal discrimination and/or dislike for a certain identity or community related to it, and we just wanna rant really about how shitty some parts of these communities can be
Click 'keep reading' if you're interested in the exploration of selective validation within the trans community (part 1 as there may be more posts we make on this community):
The amount of an intercommunity mess the trans community is when it comes to some parts of it is actually sad. Just to name a few, the ableism, fatphobia, expectations to pass or transition, and also sexism and transphobia. Some of this is even more significant in the transmasc community for some reason
There's such a lack of representation of plus-size trans folks, especially transmascs
Fatphobia is definitely more rooted in the transmasc community so points here will use that as examples, this doesn't mean fatphobia isn't seen in other trans communities. The body standards put on trans folks especially trans youth by their own community are ridiculous
The amount of videos of trans folks, once again most often transmascs, of average weight calling themselves fat, using plus-size tags, or labelling themselves as being a fat transmasc is actually concerning - and it can't be all of their faults that they believe this
Yes it's bad to seep your way into plus-size tags and spaces but if you're genuinely believing that a fat transmasc is a transmasc of an average weight, maybe with some chubbiness or stretch marks, that's a problem with social expectations for trans folks
It's infuriatingly expected to be skinny, have no stretch marks or rolls, little to no boobs already, short hair, the desire to transition, to use he/him pronouns, identify as a binary man, all of that.
MOGAI genders, xenogenders, neopronouns, and people with different experiences than just 'binary trans person using he/him or she/her pronouns that wants to transition'
Some areas of the trans community have just never been accepting of these things, and it's often rooted not only in ableism, but transmedicalism, internalised transphobia, and the desire to be liked by the outside.
You see it so often nowadays, 'I'm trans and I think [xyz invalidation]' or '[xyz invalidation] - trans person'. Literally trans folks invalidating members of their own community, even if they're members who they claim aren't 'real' members. The trans community contributes to so much use of terms like 'transtrender', and to so much of the invalidation towards trans folks who are just different, and everything they use as an argument, when put into a more common situation, comes off as really toxic and often ableist
"Nobody sees their gender as a star or a cloud, that's silly, just use normal terms like feminine, masculine, or neutral"
"Nobody describes their emotions like that, that's silly, just use normal words like happy or sad or angry"
"Why don't you just describe your gender normally?"
"Why don't you just think normally?"
"Stop using these terms, they make the trans community look like a joke"
"Stop doing what makes you happy and comfortable, it's embarrassing when you're hanging out with me"
"Nobody's going to use those for you"
"Nobody's going to want to make you feel comfortable or happy"
"You need dysphoria to be trans"
"You need all these symptoms to be [x thing that isn't even a disorder]"
"That was invented by trolls so it's a troll term"
"The words you use to describe yourself were invented by trolls so what you're describing isn't even real"
Extra points
Lack of transfeminine representation, especially ones that don't 'pass'
Lack of representation of non-binary AMABs and a lack of support for them
Non-binary being treated like a thing for AFAB folks only
Invalidating other folk's experiences
Invalidation towards minors who are trans, especially if they use MOGAI genders, xenogenders, neopronouns, etc
Dislike towards straight trans folks, sometimes getting kicked out of LGBTQ+ spaces even
Invalidation towards pronoun-non-conforming and gender-non-conforming trans folks, or just trans folks that don't 'pass' or don't want to 'pass'
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Kenokidic is a kenochoric xenogender relating to eerily empty children's play areas. It could also be related to kidcore, liminalcore, clowncore, or similar aesthetics, and may feel nostalgic or playful yet uncanny in nature
The term was coined by Tumblr user thenelsonsystem or Discord user thenelsonsystem#0156 on November 15th, 2021.
Its flag is inspired by the kenochoric flag and brighter colours resembling kidcore, and is made to look as if the kenochoric flag is 'merging' or 'combining' with the bright, more wholesome colours.
DISCLAIMER: This term is safe for work, and is not to be used for any not safe for work content
Object or item regression is similar to the concept of age and pet regression! It is where someone enters the mental state of feeling like an object or item, usually to cope with trauma or life stress that may or may not be related, but it can just be for fun!
Object/item regression or objectre/itemre acts just like any other form of regression in its uses and functions. A headspace similar to that of an object or item, possibly a specific one, is entered and may in turn affect how the individual wants to act - this is called objectspace, itemspace, or <specific object>space.
Regressors may feel unable to move, unable to provide for themselves, or generally feel like an item or object - however, the way folks experience object regression varies and not all regressors will have the same experiences or act the same way.
Object/item regression is not in any way sexual, a kink, or a fetish.
The term and flag were coined by Tumblr user thenelsonsystem on November 12th, 2021. The coiners acknowledge that there may be a similar term to this and apologise for any inconvenience if there is!
The object/item regression flag's shape is inspired by part of the progress pride flag, it represents progression and healthy regression. The colours represent the following:
Blue: stress, trauma, and negative events
Purple: healthy coping mechanisms
Green/Mint: regression
Pink: self-love
Spirian is a sexual, romantic, and/or tertiary orientation with two definitions: ghostkin/spiritkin-loving-ghostkin/spiritkin, or ghost/spirit headmate-loving-ghost/spirit headmate
The first definition is a microlabel under the otherkinian and/or medusan umbrellas. It describes someone who is ghostkin/spiritkin and is, exclusively or not, attracted to other ghostkin/spiritkin individuals.
The second definition is a microlabel under the nonhumansexual and/or echidiaen umbrellas. It describes a ghost/spirit headmate in a system who is, exclusively or not, attracted to other ghost/spirit headmates.
This term can be used in a similar way as terms such as sapphic and achillean in that it could be used to describe exclusive attraction or to prioritise/highlight non-exclusive attraction.
Both definitions can be abbreviated to glg (ghost-loving-ghost) or sls (spirit-loving-spirit), and the term itself can be modified to specify the type of attraction experienced (spirisexual, spiriromantic, spirisensual, spiriplatonic, etc)
The term spirian was coined on July 28th, 2021, by Discord user thenelsonsystem#0156 (Tumblr user thenelsonsystem), specifically Ghostbur from their system.
The spirian flag was made by the same user on the same day. Light gray represents the connection to being a ghost/spirit, the dark blue represents the possible attraction to others, the dark purple represents the possible exclusivity of attraction, and the dark gray represents spirit-loving-spirit attraction as a whole.
Demilesboy is a term for individuals who identify as 'partially' or 'half' a lesboy. This most often means they identify partially as a boy and/or partially as a lesbian, whilst still identifying as both.
All demilesboys identify as both a boy/man in some way and a lesbian, but may have extra factors that cause them to feel as if they only partially identify this way. It is important to note that not all lesboys who experience these things will feel as if they are only partially a lesboy because of it, the term exists for those who do want the distinction.
A demilesboy may identify partially as a boy, reasons for this can include:
Being a demiboy, libramasculine, paraboy, or any similar genders
Being multigender / having multiple genders, some of which are masculine- or man-aligned
Being a rosboy or feminine/woman-aligned boy and in turn feeling as if one is not fully a boy
Having a weaker connection to boyhood, being a boy, or otherwise
Woman/woman-aligned [[butch]] lesbians who use the term boy, and who's identity as a woman/woman-aligned makes their masculine or male-aligned identity feel only partial
Being a futch lesbian who may use the term boy and girl, lesbian and lesboy, or identifies as partially masculine-aligned for that reason
Having an androgynous gender that causes one to identify as both a lesbian and lesboy, girl and boy, masculine and feminine, or male and female aligned
Other demilesboys may also or otherwise identify as partially a lesbian. Some reasons can include:
Being a split attraction m-spec lesboy and feeling more comfortable with the term
Being a straightbian, gaybian, or other identity that combines lesbian with other experiences, causing one to feel partially a lesbian
Being duosexual or abrosexual between lesbian and other orientations
The term demilesboy was coined by Tumblr user thenelsonsystem on November 9th, 2021. It was coined through this wiki and has no outside resources
The demilesboy flag was made by the same user on the same date. It was inspired by other demigender flags combined with the lesboy flag and has no set meaning, just that it represents the experiences of being partially a lesboy: partially a boy and/or partially a lesbian.
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Preview: This post includes systemfluid, pluralqueer, trans system, transmasculine/transfeminine/transneutral system, and pluralsexual userboxes - examples below
[ID: light blue horizontal rectangle with a green border. On the left of it is the systemfluid flag, to the right is black text saying 'This user is systemfluid!']
[ID: light purple horizontal rectangle with a purple border. On the left of it is the pluralqueer flag, to the right is text saying 'This user is pluralqueer!']
[ID: light yellow horizontal rectangle with a lime green border. On the left of it is the trans system flag, to the right is text saying 'This user is a trans system!']
[ID: light yellow horizontal rectangle with a lime green border. On the left of it is the transmasculine system flag, to the right is text saying 'This user is a transmasculine system!']
[ID: light purple horizontal rectangle with a light blue border. On the left of it is the transfeminine system flag, to the right is text saying 'This user is a transfeminine system!']
[ID: light purple horizontal rectangle with a light blue border. On the left of it is the transneutral system flag, to the right is text saying 'This user is a transneutral system!']
[ID: light green horizontal rectangle with a green border. On the left of it is the pluralsexual flag, to the right is text saying 'This system is pluralsexual!']
