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Shoutout plural people who are trans we love you plural trans people happy pride month 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
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Hi! You responded to our questions just earlier really helpfully so I was hoping I could throw something else your way even if it's just to be pointed in another direction. Would you know of who or where to ask about did diagnosis and trans healthcare? UK centric so I don't believe you'd know exacts personally but I'd like to know from others if the diagnosis affected their transition, I got asked if I was diagnosed with DID in my first appointment for NHS transition care and now I'm wondering Why that would change how they'd treat me, a cursory Google just had me find a Reddit thread warning someone about it, so I'm a little concerned about that.
Yeah, I don't know anything about UK medical stuff, or even US stuff involving transitioning and our processes over here because Kit gets HUGE urges to transition when we do and as a group we have decided that ain't for us at this time. 😔
However, I can share some things I have seen other systems mention who are transitioning that may be of some help?
I have seen alters feeling a lot of dysphoria who once matched the body, but now because of transitioning no longer do.
I have also seen alters upset that they were not included when deciding if the body should transition. I do not know if any have attempted to sabotage the transitioning, but I would assume this is always a possibility for systems who have really strong dissociative barriers and conflicts of interest.
Because an inconsistent identity has the possibility of making transitioning more challenging, I would assume any change in care would surround supporting the parts that may end up having challenges with the changes. This could be helping with new dysphoria, or supporting the members who may want to detransition.
Hopefully someone else who is going through transitioning can better help and give solid advice. Going to add a few different tags hoping to reach the right people.
Any other trans plural folks out there with [an alter] who is literally using their deadname and/or just happens to be one of the ones that frequently fronted growing up and still uses the original name?
We've come to realize that growing up it's basically been me, Enem, and Andrew (aka Matti) sharing consciousness without really realizing it and idk if our experience is a unique one or not...
What I can say Is andrew does not Identity as Cis but rather Genderfluid (Any/All pronouns) but leans towards more masculine identities (Specifically an Ace/Aro Femboy)
Just wanna know how common or not our experience is....
- Mary
Hi! If you don't mind me asking, how has transitioning as a system gone? I'd like to go on T as I identify as primarily as male but I'm a system with a female alter whom I worry may be affected by it. Have you experienced anything similar to this?
tbh we started transitioning LONG before i knew i was a system. our outward gender identity has shifted over time from purely gender neutral to me (atlas) being heavily masculine leaning, and now that those neutral or feminine presenting members are wanting to express themselves it’s been hard.
we have always been slightly nonbinary with it though, which helps. a lot of people use they/them for us by default, and we also use it/its. and we are able to wear feminine clothes without being bothered by other people about it if someone chooses. on top of this, as of right now, none of our others use she/her or feminine pronouns externally so it just kind of works out for us
I forget sometimes that I used to be massively transphobic (and homophobic too) and to be fair to me that was about five years ago and I’m a better person now but then occasionally I’ll think something outrageously transphobic/homophobic and I’ll have to say to myself “Calm down, does this really affect you?” as like a gentle parenting type of thing
Alternatively, I sometimes point at myself after and say “ew queerphobe!”
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My lil sis' kindergarden made her believe Im a girl, even tho she knows Im a boy
Something we noticed as the guys in a female body is our lil sis' increasing obsession with seperating boys and girls. It wasnt noticable at all until she changed kindergarden. Suddenly she would say at every corner "boys against girls", "this is a girls room, you cant come in", "Its me (f) and S (f) against you and Papa" and so on. At first not an issue, but it got to the point of "are you really a boy with that high voice?", "boys cant wear nail polish" and "I like that 'cause im a girl".
And im not exegarating, she says this stuff every day suddenly. I don't know where she has that from, her fav show is Bluey and she knows from us and our Mom that there isn't stuff "only for girls" or "only for boys". Despite the abuse, our Mom is helpful with us being trans and feminists. So when she (lil sis) said earlier today that boys go to that wall and girls to the other wall, I asked her why. This sudden change is just so weird to me, especially since she used to say "girls and boys are both strong" and that "my brother said there is more then only boy and girl" (again: not exegarating, she got it right, we explained it to her and it went well).
She answered that in her kindergarden they always play girls against boys. We kept talking and they even have two seperate eating corners and a blue boy banner and a pink girls banner. A literal adult supervisor told her boys cant have long hair and that there is only boy and girl (while lil sis tried to tell her friend that im a boy in a girls body and that my bf is neither). The supervisor simply denied it? It's so odd to me, like, bro, this kid was getting it and now she even calls me a girl – my awesome lil sis started musgendering me bc some random woman taught her.
I'm a system, so I think I identify as everything
I wanna talk to my bf but I feel like if I start talking to them I’d get so exhausted cuz I’m so tired rn and no one else wants to front cuz we’re all tired…
-Ethan /he/it
