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Especially with the phrase, “I just became a father.” That happens when your first child is born. You are already an established father when your second child is born.

International Swifties deserve better!!

This is Germany it is located in EUROPE!! Europe is on the other side of the Atlantic ocean 💛

Live your myth in Greece!! A tiny country but with extraordinary beauty and thrilling history.

taylor was seen exiting Waverly Inn with some of her friends on October 11th 2016, bodyguard with infamous “its all part of the f*cking story” paper tablecloth covering in hand

followed by Calamity Joe getting papped (video) for the first time on October 12th, along with the rumored “kings of leon” first meeting with taylor that night...

and then on the following night of October 13th taylor is papped also at the bowery ballroom with karlie kloss and serena williams (and the maker of her sweater is “Elizabeth & James”??)

and upon further inspection now we all see that taylor is wearing the golden neck tattoo that you can also peep her sporting in the “making of” delicate video...

meaning that

taylor got to the point in writing delicate that she deemed good to go ahead and film herself... quite possibly the day after the first documented date that she had with beau de jour...?

with lyrics like these..???

Dive bar on the East Side, where you at?

Third floor on the West Side, me and you

Sometimes I wonder when you sleep

I pretend you're mine, all the damn time

how much could be crammed in to this 24-48 hour period?!

this puts so much weight on the idea that they first met at the met 😂😂 and you all know what i have to say about that...

I really understand your frustrations, but I want us to lead with empathy and compassion here.  

You’ve already recognized that her wealth and privilege don’t exempt her from self-hate or insecurities, no? We all hurt the same. I mean, does anyone really give a shit about whether their home is a fancy box or a plain box when they’re truly hurting in their heart? No - they just want it to end.

This is a really complex thing to navigate, especially for someone in a unique position like hers. Taylor has to consider her partner, her family, her team, and the livelihood of all those she supports. It’s practically a small economy when you consider all that goes into the production of her albums and tours. It’s never as simple as you think it is.

Her fears are real and valid because she is guaranteed to face backlash no matter what she chooses.

At least we know Taylor’s cares deeply for people and doing the right thing. Right now she needs understanding and encouragement, not scorn. Let’s support her so she can feel safe to move forward when she’s ready, because it could really change things when she finally does.

More than anything, I wish she’d never said a word and let the music speak for itself.

This isn’t Taylor’s fault and I know she would never, ever want this. But in a way, she’s drawn a line in the sand, even if unintentionally. Look at the timing? Her most hateful fans, who were initially neutered by the ambiguity of her lyricism, are now emboldened by her clarification on betty. They've been waiting for the littlest thing to weaponize.

I want her to take a stand, but I also wonder what she could say to truly fix this now? The kind of evil that exists in someone who would doxx others is fully resistant to whatever politically correct PR statement her team would release. “Respect and acceptance and doing better” are not in their lexicon.

There’s no fixing things for someone who’s been forcefully outed; their life is changed forever and that’s tragic and devastating. 

I’m just plain horrified.

I hate that I even have to clarify in 2020, but just in case: This blog is a safe space for ALL.

I don’t at the moment but maybe I’ll go back and re-tag as appropriate (in which case, I will edit this post to include a link to that tag). In the meantime, however, here is a summary of some of the most egregious examples:

Breathe:  “a really sad break-up song”  ➔ “it’s really about losing a friend”

Love Story: “this is a song I wrote when I was dating a guy who wasn’t exactly the popular choice” ➔ “Love Story’ is actually about a guy that I almost dated” ➔ “I wrote it about two characters in a story that I had heard.” 

the entirety of her debut album, fearless and speak now: “I’d never been in a relationship when I wrote my first couple of albums, so these were all projections of what I thought they might be like”  ➔ “A lot of the time with my song writing...I would kind of either be watching a movie or I’d have an imaginary scenario that I’d just imagine what would it be like to just experience this or that, you know?”

I Wish You Would: “about an ex who bought a house two blocks from hers” ➔  a cinematic fantasy (implicitly) inspired by the films of John Hughes

Taylor 3 seconds later: I named all the characters in this story after my friends female kids

What Taylor looks like to me trying to explain this all... ok “James”

Welcome to kaylor, seems to me you are scared of kaylor being real and have put it apon yourself to come and 'gloat' to us about something you dont understand.

Either way this whole betty and james thing is a plus for us because kaylor is still being mentioned. Even though she backtracked its still out there in some way, maybe not the way we hoped but its still better than nothing.

Taylor can do however she pleases when shes trying to figure out her coming out proccess. Its got nothing to do with how we feel and how our feelings get hurt. This is her own personal journey.

Taylor might have backtracked for her own personal reasons and I mean would you blame her? Some of her own fans are homophobic to the point of attacking her.

Also I would like to mention something else, Its not healthy for her to have fans that keep discussions about whether or not shes pregnant. Have you watched the Miss Americana doc?

If you care for Taylors wellbeing maybe you should try being kind?

Kind regards