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A few days ago, I got an anon request asking me
To share tips on how to be elegant as a black woman, so here’s my take on being elegant as a black woman.
Have and maintain your boundaries. Over extending yourself isn’t self satisfying, and rarely if ever, you’re able to actually be there for others. Saying no isn’t a bad thing and it is t rude. Don’t feel bad or guilty to where you add a bunch of excuses after respectfully declining.
Become more self aware. Know what your likes and dislikes are, what your boundaries are, what you’re passionate about, your style, all the things that make you who you are. Nobody should be able to know you better than you know yourself. Self awareness comes with a confidence and ease that makes moving through life easier, and love the person you are to the fullest.
Be kind. Being firm and self aware is a necessity, but it should always be coupled with kindness. Be a listening ear or a helping hand to those who need it, but remember your boundaries. Be warm towards all. Elegance ≠ being a snob, being catty, being mean, or being rude.
Identify your own personal style. Clothes should never look like they’re wearing you, you should always look like you’re wearing the clothes. Not only should you be concerned about your clothes, but accessorizing in a way that’s almost natural. Once you find your style, you’ll find that any outfit you put on will feel right on you, and you’ll be able to move with much ease.
Find your signature scent. I think nothing is more beautiful than a well dressed woman with a beautifully paired fragrance. Go to Sephora, Macy’s , or Saks and have an associate help you. Think about what scents you like, such as like edible scents, florals, fruity, woody, etc. Once you discover it, wear it all the time. This scent is what people will remember of you whenever they smell it. It’s powerful!
Keep in my mind your body language. The way you walk, talk, smile, and move are all indicative of an elegant woman. When you walk, keep your chest up, shoulders back, and chin slightly lifted. Smile genuinely. There’s nothing more beautiful than an authentic, warm smile. When you speak, speak clearly so you can be understood. Listen actively.
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