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GIVE THAT MAN TIME! I cannot emphasize enough how important the time is for a man to reveal his true self. The avatar men present when they first meet you cannot be sustained for that long. It's an Oscar winning performance. As relationship gets deeper, you will see his true character, he will reveal himself.

ABSOLUTELY NO HOUSE DATES/ SLEEP OVERS. If he lives in another country (this is how I slipped) he books a hotel PERIOD. Do not let that man into your home unless you are prepared for the outcome. 

DO NOT BE FOOLED by the new spiritual wave of men. This one got me, just because he is a believer, does not mean his actions are that of a respectful man of God. A man that protects women, a man that does not fornicate with a woman who is not his wife. Most men claiming faith, do not lead with spiritual actions. Let his actions speak for themselves. Judge him by his fruits.

FIND OUT WHAT HE IS AVAILABLE FOR. A man will pursue like his life depends on it, but what is he pursuing you for exactly? Find out early that way, you can prevent essential wasting of time. Finding out he is not over his ex, is not ready for a relationship, or ready for the things you are is something you determine as early as possible, because believe me when I say, men will WASTE YOUR TIME, the big IF here is IF YOU LET THEM.  

DO NOT BE FOOLED INTO THINKING HE IS THE ONE. When you’ve been single for a hot minute, you’re locked in, praying, reading, gym, focused. And then you meet someone who seems like everything, I mean literally EVERYTHING you have been praying for. You connect like a jigsaw puzzle. He makes you laugh so hard. He prays with you. He looks at you like a lovesick dog. Girl, don’t trip. Don’t drop your standards. And absolutely do not drop your knickers. And back to the first point, you allow TIME to reveal his truth. 

yes, the hockey players are attractive.

but what actually makes them stand out is the emotional maturity.

the respect. the communication. the emotional safety.

maybe that's the real fantasy.

not perfection.

being chosen, respected and cared for.

because how someone treats you will always matter more than how they look.

love & positivity ✨ phi

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💍 “What a Faithful Man Looks Like”

(Because good men DO exist — they’re just rare and consistent.)

Let’s shift the energy.

Not every man is a liar, a cheater, or a walking bare minimum.

Faithful men still exist — but they don’t look like what society glamorizes.

A faithful man isn’t perfect.

He’s intentional.

Here’s how to spot one:

1. His consistency doesn’t fade after the first month.

Faithful men don’t “switch up.”

Their attention stays steady because their intentions are steady.

If he wanted you, he still wants you.

Period.

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2. He makes his relationship clear, not confusing.

A faithful man doesn’t give:

• mixed signals

• half-answers

• vague stories

• emotional distance

He gives clarity because loyalty thrives where confusion ends.

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3. He respects you behind your back.

A loyal man protects:

• your image

• your reputation

• your dignity

• your name

Even when you’re not in the room.

Especially then.

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4. He has boundaries with other women.

Not because you asked —

because he chose to.

No flirting.

No emotional cheating.

No secret messages.

No “work wife.”

No “she’s just a friend” but he hides the texts.

Faithful men don’t play in gray areas.

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5. He communicates instead of disappearing.

If something’s wrong, he talks.

If he’s stressed, he tells you.

If he needs space, he says it with respect.

Men who cheat avoid communication.

Men who are faithful prioritize it.

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6. He’s predictable in the best way.

Not boring — dependable.

You know his habits.

You know his routine.

You don’t have to play detective.

You don’t have to compete with random women online.

Loyalty feels calm, not chaotic.

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7. He doesn’t make you question your worth.

A faithful man values you, encourages you, reassures you.

He doesn’t:

• make you insecure

• ignore your needs

• dismiss your feelings

• make you feel replaceable

He CHOOSES you — every day.

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8. His actions mirror his words.

Promises mean nothing without proof.

A loyal man follows through because integrity is his personality, not a performance.

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9. He takes accountability.

When he messes up, he says it.

He corrects it.

He grows from it.

Cheaters lie, deflect, blame.

Faithful men own up and improve.

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10. He makes you feel safe — emotionally, mentally, and romantically.

Not anxious.

Not unsure.

Not confused.

Safe.

The right man won’t make you wonder if he’s faithful —

you’ll feel it.

Because loyalty isn’t loud.

It’s consistent.

It’s quiet.

It’s steady.

It’s intentional.