♱ Alex ♱

i know this is like because of my trauma but its still so wild to me that there are people who genuinely want to be my friend and talk to me and dont just want to make fun of me behind my back

Fandoms stopped being a fun escape from reality when people started spreading the belief that you should prioritize purity over pleasure and the art you create must be a reflection of your moral standards at all times.

Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.

Really though, what was that about? I don’t know is a valid answer. It communicates very clearly that the child cannot answer your question, and therefore maybe needs more help understanding the question/situation. Why do you try and push them to give an answer they don’t have? That stresses them out and it makes them feel like they’re being punished for not knowing something.

i thought i was the only one with an “i don’t know” problem because my parents made it seem it was the strangest and also most horrible thing in the world. i genuinely didn’t know and they got angry and that only blocked my thoughts more which meant i didn’t know the answer to anything else.

THIS ^^^

Also “I don’t know” is a commonly used sentence for children with ADHD/Autism. We DON’T know why we can’t do our homework. We DON’T know why we can’t eat certain foods sometimes. We DON’T know why we forgot to do a chore. It’s really distressing when you genuinely don’t know and people think you’re just lying or indifferent

Literally always take headphones with you. If you decide that you probably won't need them today, that's the devil talking. You will. You will

im getting increasingly distressed and i have nonclue why

can someone please be proud of me like fuck I’m trying

reblog to let prev know you’re proud of them

”time heals all wounds” WRONG. it merely allows for infection.. it is Too late for me