something thats fun to ponder for me is that jay has potential to be possessive too but there's never any worry or risk of matt having anyone else in his life so its not even a consideration for jay really. I think a lot about webseries jay losing his shit because he can't join matt and eric with magic cards. like matt has one hobby that jay doesn't share and he loses his mind over it. like he can't stand not being able to do that one thing with him.
like jay can be jealous, I think, but matts limerant obsession with him is like security like he has nothing to worry about for sure. hypothetically though i think if there was ever any risk of matt spending his time any other way it would absolutely destroy him because he never even thought that was possible, in comparison to matt, who is constantly worried about being left behind. and that all makes me kick my feet. someone give him 7 or 8 beers