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If the Kennedy Center doesnât prove anything else, it proves that at the end of the day, they do to court orders.
The judicial system is still working and now we have visual representation of that.
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Me, before I saw this: old timey dancing in cartoons has to be over-exaggerated for effect
Me, now: old timey dancing in cartoons had to be toned down to promote a sense of realism because they were too good at it
For anybody wondering, by the way, this particular dance is called the Hellzapoppin and it's a variation of the Jitterbug.
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hi, filipino here. just want to say that our independence day is june 12, not july 4. july 4 is when the united states government decided that they would recognize our freedom, specifically because it is your independence day and they wanted to cement their cultural hegemony over our country. and because of their influence on our country this was recognized for a time as our independence day. we still commemorate it, but i hope you can understand why we donât want our independence day to be associated so closely with our former colonizer. it wasnât even a work holiday for us.
june 12 is the day that we filipinos declared our own independence for ourselves, and that is what we celebrate as independence day
happy june 12 to you
I ate seven pancakes this morning.
Yes, short stack is the small one.
Remember: in most societies, including Japan and most of Europe, you have different diets, at least in terms of portions, between rural and urban, and rural people adopt urban eating habits when they move to the city.
In America, everyone eats like a fieldhand.
And many US restaurants are based on American hospitality traditions, specifically:
No one leaves hungry.
Grandma sends you home with leftovers.

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being late getting into a piece of media or joining a âdeadâ fandom is not that bad actually cause even if it seems like the party is over there will always be people still celebrating and the decoration is still up and thereâs a piece of cake reserved especially for you in the fridge you just have to come and enjoy it.
Guys please come join The Expanse fandom there's at least 5 of us
Friendly reminder that Antisemitism is a term coined SPECIFICALLY to mean Jew hatred. Every Arab and Middle Eastern person calling themselves a semite as a deflection when someone calls them Antisemitic has a fundamental misunderstanding of the term, and a deeply rooted hatred of Jews that they won't care if they're wrong, only that they hurt Jews in the process. Semitic is used to refer to a group of languages. A semite is someone who belongs to those who speak said languages, Antisemitism, AGAIN, IS SPECIFICALLY TO MEAN JEW HATRED! THAT IS ALL IT IS! Stop trying to take away our ability to identify hatred and then attempting to turn it back on us saying that WE'RE Antisemitic bc you're "semitic"
Seriously.
I'm also old enough to remember when Gay Marriage was a hot button issue, and gay haters would deflect by saying, "Homophobia technically means an 'irrational fear' of something, but I don't fear gay people, so I can't be homophobic."
Similarly with J.K. Rowling and her TERF Brigade. A lot of Rowling's supporters claim, "Transphobia means an 'irrational fear' of trans people, but my fear of 'men pretending to be women to access women's spaces' isn't an irrational fear, so we can't be transphobic."
And both drive leftists up the wall, because it's like, "It doesn't matter what the technical dictionary definition is, you know the term is really used to mean hatred/bigotry of something, so stop pretending the word 'really' means something else to deflect or mask your bigotry."
But now Leftists are playing the exact same game with antisemitism.
"Wellll, anti-Semitism technically means being against Semetic people, and Arabs and Middle Eastern people are Semetic people too, sooo..."
"Jews are just white colonizers pretending to be Semetic to steal land from the TRUE Semetic people, so Jews/Zionists are the real anti-Semites..."
And, my favorite:
"Since when has antisemitism been used to mean Jew-hatred--?"
Since it was fucking invented, you dumb bunny.
It's so fucking deceitful, disingenuous, and dishonest to pretend otherwise.
Iâm not Christian, I donât go to church anymore, and my pastor died, but when he was alive Iâd sometimes go to his sermons and I remember one time he said âit feels good to hate, but we know that it isnât allowed, so when weâre told that weâre allowed to hate someone we get so excited that we forget weâre supposed to loveâ, and if my humble atheist ass might borrow some church talk Iâd like to perhaps submit that
Anyhow sometimes on the day to day I feel disgust or revulsion and I have to ask myself âis this a danger to anyone at all or am I just looking for something Iâm allowed to hateâ and a solid 98/100 times itâs the latter so once again thank you pastor D
This is literally pro-life rhetoric. You are anti-choice.
This is one of those spots where I'm not sure you can say anything and win. Because:
On one hand, selecting for disability and disorder absolutely is eugenics and should not be encouraged.
On the other hand, we already select for some disabilities and disorders in order to protect the kids who would have them! Tay-Sachs is the obvious example; we do not want these children to die horribly so we try to make sure they're not conceived in the first place.
On the other hand, a potential parent selecting for disability is concerning because not all disabilities show up in the womb, and some are acquired. Do we want to encourage people to become parents if they're already wanting to walk away from any difficulty?
On the other hand, there are disabilities and there are disabilities. What if a potential parent is like "listen, ADHD I can handle, but the disability you're talking about is so severe I don't think I could handle it"? Is that eugenics, or recognizing one's own limits?
On the other hand, if we could ask the fetus "here's what you'll deal with; do you want to live?" would it say yes or no? Some quadriplegics love living. Some amputees who lost part of a leg will say they wish they'd died instead. Every disabled person will have a different answer, including two who have near-identical disabilities and life circumstances. Hell, I'm disabled and whether I'm saying "it doesn't bother me" or "I wish I was anyone else" comes down to the day.
On the other hand, does it make a difference if the answer to "why do you want an abortion" is "I don't want a baby" or "I don't want a baby I perceive as defective"? Do we judge one but not the other? Why?
I could go on like this for hours. I don't think OP is right and I also don't think they're wrong. I'm not sure there is a "right" answer. I definitely don't think there's a one-size-fits-all answer. Life is THE most annoying bitch on earth that way sometimes. And insofar as there is an answer, I actually think it lies with creating support, not restricting abortion. Would you still say "abort" if you had an extra $10k a year? What about someone to watch the kiddo on Saturdays so you could have some decompression time? Is there a load-bearing straw we can remove to spare the camel's back, or is the camel simply not capable of hauling this particular shipment of straw?
Sometimes there are no good answers.
For what it's worth, a lot of abortions related to fetal abnormalities are lethal ones. A lot of people who would be willing to raise a disabled child are not willing to endure several more months of pregnancy for a child who is expected to die soon after birth. They just want it to be over, and I can't see any wrong way to respond to that sort of tragedy.
Abortions for manageable problems or disabilities do, in fact, horrify me, but is it any less horrifying than sex selection abortion? Or someone who really wants to be a parent but can't afford to care for a child? And in all cases, the answer is not to make abortions harder to access but to make parenting easier to do.
It's funny you compare this to sex-selective abortion, because that's literally what I was thinking of.
also... even if the pregnant person is like "I do not want a 'defective' baby no matter what support I get, ew disabled people" - yes it's a bigoted attitude to have and I would much rather they changed it, but ultimately it's an individual choice (as opposed to systemic / legal), and so it is disingenous to use that hypothetical to attack another marginalised group (pregnant and capable of geeting pregnant) when it doesn't do anything to actually support the marginalised group (disabled people) that it invokes
saying "oh but if we deny pregnant people healhcare make abortion easy to get people will abort disabled babies and that's eugenics!" do we maybe not think that there are more effective ways to help disabled people. just maybe.
anger doesn't have to be praxis, people. I would be horrified to meet with my hypothetical pregnant eugenicist but that doesn't make them an effective target
...yeah, when you put it that way it does make a sucky kind of sense.
Some myths that need debunking because they're being pushed by bots and itâs making me angry:
1. "He's gonna declare martial law!" Okay, so what then? This isn't something you can enforce nationwide on a country of 350 million people with a military that has a combined force of less than 3 million people, including all support and logistics staff. That doesn't equal half the population of Los Angeles. Y'all need to fucking stop acting like we're approaching a mythical point where shit gets "serious." We're already there. People are already being disappeared.
Civilians are already being killed in the streets. We're there. And you know what? They're already getting near the limits of their ability to force compliance. ICE is dedicating a double digit percentage of their manpower to Minneapolis and they're not controlling shit. People are pushing back. Your default response when the administration says "We will force you to do this" shouldn't be "Oh no they're gonna make us do this!" It should be "Fuck you. Make me."
2. "Americans are doing nothing!" I did a post about this recently, but it bears revisiting: I don't know where the hell you're getting this, because everywhere that ICE or other arms of the federal enforcement apparatus go, they are being pushed back on, humiliated, driven out of neighborhoods, and shown the door. People are fighting back on a truly awe inspiring level. Stop assuming that "doing something" looks like an armed mass of civilians storming Washington and fighting the military in a pitched battle. This is movie bullshit. The world has not looked like that since the early 20th century. What you are seeing, right now, is what "doing something" looks like. Stop it stop it stop it. We ARE doing something, in vast numbers.
3. "He's gonna cancel elections!" This one has been pushed by bots for the last year, and big name people have been picking it up, and it frustrates the hell out of me so I'm going to hold your hand and tell you bluntly: He. Cannot. Do. This. There is no mechanism. Elections are controlled by the states, and they decide when they happen. There is no federal mechanism for control of elections. What's Trump gonna do? Post soldiers at every polling place in every swing state? Do you know how many polling places there are in every district? How much manpower this would require? He doesn't have the people to do it. He doesn't have the mechanical ability to do it. There are no tools to execute this plan. Is he gonna try to make elections unfair? You bet your ass, but our elections have never been fair. Voter suppression has always existed and will continue to exist until we fix it... but a blanket ban of elections or even some ability to make them not happen? Lol. He doesn't have the manpower or the means.
But what if he did? Let's game this out: Congress--or at least the House of Representatives--is not a perpetual body. At the end of 2026 the current congress ceases to exist, and the next one isn't convened until the following year. Mike Johnson will cease to be Speaker at the end of the year and wont be Speaker again in '27 unless his party wins a sufficient majority to elect him. Remember if there are no elections then republicans will not have their seats in 2027. There will be no congress, and without congress, Trump does not have a mechanism for governance. I dunno about you, but those Republican reps like having their jobs, their staff, their salaries, and all the perks that come with office. They do not get those if there is no Congress. That is not something they want.
But he said he was gonna! And? So fucking what? He says a lot of things. He issued an executive order at the start of his second term ordering all school districts in the country to immediately cease teaching "DEI" whatever the hell that means. Do you know what most districts that weren't actively kissing his ass said? "That's nice. Make me." And then he didn't, because the states control their own education systems, not Trump. His words don't have the force of law, and are limited by what he actually has levers of power to accomplish. We are **still having elections.** Several happened last week. The States decide this. Trump doesn't.
The Midterms are gonna happen. They're gonna matter and they're gonna have consequences. And you all need to stop acting like he has power over things he doesn't just because he says he does. That's propaganda and you're falling for it.
As with all things Authoritarian, when Trump says "I'm gonna force you to do this," your response should be as I articulated above:
"Fuck you. Make me."
I love you all. Be safe. Don't comply in advance. Don't give them power they don't have just because they say they do.
Don't comply in advance

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i really want to see genderqueer be an identity we talk about in great detail this pride month. genderqueer saw more usage in the 90s and 2000s, with the rise of the term non binary we've seen more people gravitate toward that label as it becomes the more socially accepted term to use given its notoriety. i would like to bring back alternative labels for this experience, since our diversity is what makes us so unique and strong as a community
genderqueer is an identity that has a long history, and a myriad of definitions and folks who express it in different ways. it really can mean whatever the hell you want. it can mean that you're cisgender but express your gender in a queer way. it can mean that you're trans, take hormones, have gotten top and bottom surgery and dress however you want. it can mean that you dress "normal" and pass as cishet but have a queer gender on the inside. it can mean that you combine masculine and feminine aesthetics. it can mean that you strive for gender neutrality. it can mean that you want to be so ambiguously gendered strangers can't tell who you are.
there's no guidelines or rules, genderqueer is an identity meant to embrace the freedom one can have with gender expression. it can mean as much or as little as the person using it wants it to. it's a beautiful term that is just as flexible as non binary, and i do not postulate to replace that term, but rather bring light to another identity that may suit folks slightly better. it's a beautiful identity. it's what I came out as first in 2011 and I'm happy to be back at all these years later.
2024 is a great year to be proud of being genderqueer and to proudly tell people about this part of yourself. let's celebrate ourselves louder and prouder than ever before. there are many ways to exist outside of the binary, and folks deserve to know about older terms that have been used by the community as well as newer ones
Much like the term queer, genderqueer is a beautiful umbrella that has room for all of us that want it.
This has been my word for years, and I love it.
Additionally, when you walk a friend to their car (or to the door where you can see their car), you don't go back in at least until you see them start their car.
I always think of the description I saw years ago: Self-imposed deadlines don't help me, because I know the person who set them, and they're full of shit.
Ok hold up because I heard a thing that makes the reward work for me.
The framing isnt " I did something good so I get a treat well I can just have the treat anyway". The treat isnt the goal. Its not about the treat.
The way executive dysfunction works, at least to my understanding, is that the brain doesnt make enough dopamine. Reward/motivation chemical. So doing stuff is hard bc the brain chemical that does stuff is lacking. Like if you dont have strong enough muscle you cant lift heavy weights. Dont have enough dopamine, cant work or shower etc.
So what you do, when you dont have enough dopamine naturally, is buy it from the store.
Meaning, other things are sources of dopamine. Treats. Praise. Listening to music. Affection.
Its not about the treat itself. The treat is a vehicle for making your brain cough up the dopamine. And to begin associating Doing Things with dopamine which helps you want to do things bc you kmow it will feel good. You just to have to remember your body isnt gonna produce enough feel good on its own so you have to keep helping it. Good brain you did the task have some dopamine heres a treat. Its the feedback loop. Its fixing the ?broken feedback loop.
It doesnt have to be a treat. My partner and I make a point of praising each other for normal difficult tasks. "Woohoo you took out the garbage, and *before* it became a pile of doom on the kitchen floor? Fantastic! Youre brilliant!" No money needed to create a bit of dopamine!
I reblogged a post yesterday where OPs family calls it "bragging on". "Come brag on me about the kitchen, its sparkly clean", and everyone comes and says wow great job you really worked so hard and it shows!!
Theres no trick. Youre not tricking yourself. Theres no gotcha haha you did the dishes and didnt even notice! Youre saying ok brain, I know you dont have enough dopamine to do this. Here is some dopamine, and there'll be more when we're done. Im on your team. I dont hate you. We're gonna work together as best we can because we're in this together.
Yes. However, the problem is that for this to work you need to be capable of starting the cycle in the first place. Which is harder if you can just treat yourself and. Not do anything for it. Praise and external support ARE very helpful for this! But if you are the gatekeeper of the reward it doesnât do much.
If youre thinking of it as treating yourself for free, sure. You can treat yourself whenever. Its not about treating yourself though, its about supplementing for insufficient dopamine. Do also treat yourself! As much as I dont believe we can trick ourselves this way, I dont think the stick is particularly effective either, it just creates self hate and what way to live is that?
Youre not withholding treats until the thing is done. Youre adding extra treats to simulate reward chemical. Doesnt matter if youve had a billion treats today, or you start a task with treats, whatever you gotta do. When you finish the task add a treat because your brain is supposed to be doing that anyway its just struggling, so youre helping it out.
Does that make more sense?
No I do get that! And I agree! And it does help in the long term! But it requires repeated action of a sort which can be difficult to get if youâre already having trouble motivating to do the tasks in the first place. You can only do the treat to build a reward path if youâre actually getting it done at all. Which is what people of this perspective are usually talking abt ime. Like you are correct it is an effective tool when applied correctly! But when applied correctly it is solving a separate problem than it is being used for here
One thing it does is build the reward pathways over time, for sure. For me it also very much helps in the moment. I can feel the differrence in my mind, for me caffeine also helps to get started, or sometimes a strong taste, just some significant sensory input. Maybe im framing this a bit wonky bc it is very much a before task get going thing as well.
It might also be that we're experiencing slightly differrent executive dysfunctions. Im thinking, I have a little bit of experience with demand avoidance, and thats a differrent beast to lacking dopamine. And sometimes there just not knowing what the steps are or where to start, a dopamine boosts helps that feel like less of an impossibility but doesnt necessarily create the solution. And probably other stuff I dont know about.
Im sorry I couldnt be helpful for you. Its hard being a person sometimes.
No itâs okay!! This actually IS very helpful for ME!!!!! My executive functioning has improved over the year making shit Less Painful in a way where this IS really good advice for me. Itâs more that I was saying this methodology requires a certain level of function as a sort of buy in and, OP and others I know, donât have that. I preciously didnât but Iâm at a place where this shift *is* helpful and I am gonna apply it :)
Not sure if this helps, but I decided to share this post with my spouse, whose academic field happens to be the neuroscience of individual differences in learning, motivation, and reward, because he's always complaining that dopamine signalling is being misrepresented in popular discourse. This was his reply:
"So, itâs unlikely that there is simply ânot enough dopamine,â and getting a treat or eating a special food is not going to magically fix that by just âadding dopamine.â Treats can trigger dopamine release, but the key issue isnât the absolute amountâitâs how and where dopamine is signalling in the brain. What matters is the timing, location, and whether that signal is effectively received. What dopamine does can also vary depending on where in the brain it is acting.
Itâs also important to note that dopamine is not a pleasure molecule. Other naturally occurring molecules in the brain (e.g., opioidsâwhich share structure with drugs like morphine or heroin) are more directly related to pleasure. In terms of reward, dopamine levels very quickly increase (especially in an area known as the nucleus accumbens) when a reward is unexpected or surprising. However, we eventually learn that certain things predict reward (we call these Pavlovian conditioned stimuli, or cues). Once these are learned, it is the cues that trigger dopamine release, and the reward itself no longer produces much dopamine. Therefore, dopamine is a reward-learning signal, at least in the nucleus accumbens.
Now, some cues are especially attention-grabbing or meaningful. These cues can increase dopamine even more. This can happen to an excessive degree, to the point where it becomes problematic, causing us to act in certain ways even when it is not beneficial. This happens in addiction, where cues can excessively increase dopamine and motivate someone to consume drugs. It can also happen in other disorders, where cues can become overly meaningful and even evoke fear (this sometimes happens in schizophrenia). We refer to how much the brain tags something as important or attention-grabbing as its level of salience.
Importantly, just because dopamine levels increase doesnât mean that it has any consequence. For dopamine to communicate something, the signal needs to be received. There are different types of dopamine receptors, and some of these can have opposing actions (some can be excitatory and others inhibitory). In some mental health conditions, people may not have enough of certain receptors, or the balance between these receptor types might be altered; this affects how well the dopamine message can be communicated.
In addition, the brain can be very effective at clearing away dopamine after it is released. In many mental health conditions, including ADHD, this clearance process may be altered. This doesnât necessarily mean it is always faster or slower, but it can affect how long and how strongly dopamine signals persist. If the signal is too brief or poorly timed, it may not have much impact. So even if dopamine is released, the message might not effectively get through. Medications for ADHD can help, in part, by strengthening or prolonging dopamine signalling, making it more likely that these signals are successfully communicated.
So what is this message? I previously mentioned reward learning, but dopamine is important for other behaviours and psychological states as well. For example, in an area of the brain called the prefrontal cortex, dopamine (alongside other messengers) helps us to be flexible, switch tasks, plan ahead, and inhibit unhelpful actions. In other brain regions, dopamine helps us develop habits, where behaviour can become more automated.
Bringing this back to the original point, the issue with executive dysfunction is unlikely to be simply ânot enough dopamine,â but rather that dopamine signalling isnât effectively tagging certain tasks as important, rewarding, or worth doing. This can feel like a lack of motivation, but it reflects how the system is functioning, not just the total amount of dopamine available.
Finally, it is important to note that many of the behaviours Iâve mentioned involve acting in a certain way. Dopamine is also critical for regulating movement; this is why movement is disrupted in disorders like Parkinsonâs disease, where dopamine production is lost. More broadly, dopamine plays an important role in helping us adjust our behaviourâbeing flexible, adapting to changing circumstances, and updating our actions when situations or goals change."
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i like being a lesbian and all, but holy shit, men are so cool. i hope all men reading this have a wonderful day.
i like being gay and all, but holy shit, women are so cool!!!! i hope all women reading this have a wonderful day as well!!!!!!!!!
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hey guys, quick reminder! this post is about uplifting other people!!! tags like 'ugh, but men are gross lol' or 'op has never met a man' are not welcome and will recieve an insta block! men are cool! women are cool! thank you for coming to my fucking ted talk! :-)

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MSNOW which goes off air at midnight eastern Every single night without fail, unless thereâs an election, is doing a special report after midnight because Trumpâs name is coming off of the Kennedy Center.
That is how big a deal this is.
Also tďżźhis happened because of Rep Joyce Beatty (OH-03) who fought tirelessly to make this a reality. Center her when talking about this win.
Which you can watch live!