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They have to write us angry at our bodies because they aren't comfortable writing us as angry with abled people and abled society. They aren't comfortable being the same as a disabled person. And that, truly, is one of the main reasons I'm sick of disabled characters that hate and blame their bodies for what happened but have absolutely 0 external rage for the unfair way they're now being treated by others. It's never abled people's fault, it's always the disabled body that must be blamed, and I fucking hate it.

Also, they're more comfortable writing disabled characters who channel all their rage inward and blame their bodies because they already deep down believe the only reason someone is disabled is because they did something wrong. They don't have to contend with the scary truth that disability can just happen to anyone and there's not really anything to be done to prevent it if we all blame our bodies for this and hold no rage at all for society, and especially never suggest that society could be to blame for not just our misery but our disabilities.

Peer reviewing these because for fucking real!! Something else I was thinking was like, the abled characters around the disabled character never do anything wrong. They're always supportive and trying to help and maybe being a little overbearing, but just because they care!! And the disabled person is always wrong to lash out at them.

I enjoyed Joan of Arcadia but from what I remember the subplot about her brother coming to terms with his new disability always involves him lashing out at his abled family for trying to help and then apologizing. I don't recall his abled family ever doing anything wrong or unfair to him, he's always wrong for being angry with them, because they've had no issue adjusting at all and are perfectly accommodating and understanding and just want him to trust them, which in my experience is essentially never how this actually goes.

And Me Before You, the abled girlfriend never does anything wrong. The disabled boyfriend lashes out at her and is cruel sometimes and he's always wrong and she's always innocent and he always eventually apologizes and he always blames himself for his disability and never has any rage for the people around him for how they treat him validated. He's always wrong to lash out, always blames himself, and him killing himself is presented as a good thing so his gf can go live her life without the burden of caring for him. The disabled character is the one presenting a deeply ableist view on disability and the abled person is presented as wrong for not agreeing with his horrifically ableist view on disability. She's the one mad at him for seeing himself as a burden, and she's presented as wrong for not agreeing with him that he's a burden. Which is ridiculous and not how this basically ever goes irl.

Abled people hate disabled people who blame others for their problems they straight up always write us as in the wrong, and even write us as full on eugenicists who "rightfully" blame ourselves, see our own existence as a burden, and untilmately do the right thing and either just decide to be happy with our loved ones regardless of how they treat us and keep blaming ourselves and our bodies and no one else, or just do the even more right thing and kill ourselves so our abled loved ones can be happy without us.

like he'll be gnawing on an idea for a couple days, and he'll go to sleep thinking about it, and then one day he'll wake up at 3am and it's finally done percolating and he has to Tell Someone About It Right Now and every time ilya is just like