Your best is not the same as your 100%. It's okay to give as much as you CAN not as much as is humanly possible. Giving 100% all the time just leads to burn out.
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@helpfulpoppy
Your best is not the same as your 100%. It's okay to give as much as you CAN not as much as is humanly possible. Giving 100% all the time just leads to burn out.

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reasons people might be looking at you in public (that aren’t negative)
they like what you’re wearing.
you look like someone they know.
they recognize a piece of clothing or accessory you’re wearing.
they think you’re beautiful or attractive.
they’re not actually looking at you; they’re completely zoned out.
they're bored and people-watching.
they recognize you from somewhere.
they’re hesitating to ask you something or give you a compliment.
they’ve seen you in that same place before.
you caught their eye.
you look like how they imagined a fictional character to look.
you’re actively reminding them of something completely unrelated and they’re thinking about it.
they’re admiring one of your visual qualities (smile, stance, hairstyle).
It’s really irritating to me whenever I see videos of other severely disabled people saying it’s hard to wash their hair because of their illnesses and people suggest “just” cutting it off. As if hair isn’t a huge part of peoples’ identity a lot of times, if not self expression. And the misconception that shorter hair means it won’t be as bad for someone with severe myalgic encephalomyelitis is just incomprehensible to me.
If they’re not suggesting something, believing it’s a one size fits all solution (bed hair washing set ups, shampoo caps) their solution is to just… get rid of a part of our identity to suddenly “make it easier”. Long hair isn’t the issue when every movement and sensory input is punishing. Making it easier isn’t always the point. Sometimes the point is just sharing “this is what I go through because of my disability, something you might not think of if you’re not disabled/don’t have my disability”. It’s no different than any other person showing a day in their life or how they care for their hair. It’s just not conventional for you to see people still struggle with all the added help.
Why would your first suggestion be to remove another part of myself? Why would a positive resolve to you be for my friends and people like me to change more of who we are just because we are simply sharing something that will affect us regardless of the length of hair we have? We will always struggle with personal care tasks/ADLs but that doesn’t mean we’re looking to make it the easiest way if it means losing more and more of ourselves. Sometimes even with a struggle it is the easiest without giving up the final fight with something. Respect that.
AHAH found my post before my blog was nuked. I’m never shutting up. I was made to haunt to the internet.
I wanted to also say that even if it is more work, you’re allowed to want to keep that effort as long as possible. You’re allowed to want to be “extra” in your care. You’re allowed to want to feel dolled up and pretty. You don’t have to give in to people telling you to either thin or cut your hair if YOU don’t want to. You are allowed to have it as you are, even if you have rapunzel length hair and it technically “WOULD” be easier, you’re not wrong for wanting to keep that part of yourself.
MUAH.
15/05/2026 Jean-Luc Picard @SpaceDadSupport Incoming Transmission…
The things you imagine that you cannot do well enough are the same things that other people do poorly all the time without concern. Do things. Get things done. You need not be perfect at most things.

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A calming truth: Not everything you planted this month was meant to bloom this month. Keep going. Trust your process.
their brutality does not erase the good you do, even if you wish you could do so much more to help others. their violence doesn’t take away from your compassion, their unkindness doesn’t negate your gentleness and your efforts are not in vain. it is better to try and make things a little better than it is to never try at all. even if what you can do seems to be smaller in scale, it can still help others, it can still change a few things. and the fact that you have a heart that breaks every time you learn of something tragic happening in this world makes more humane than they’ll ever be.
you are still capable of doing good, even if you can’t change the whole world, and it’s a heavy burden to take on yourself to wish that you could do so on your own. just remember that it is enough to do whatever you can to help and that their cruelty cannot annul any good you put out into the world
if i let them make me feel defeated and bitter, they win. so i will keep myself soft, maybe even softer, and try and try and try to make things better for anyone i can help
don't be afraid to:
🦋 love on your friends
🌿 hydrate
🦋 take up space
🌿 rest
keep making bids for connection . It’s literally how to stay alive. We are here to be with each other and everything else is beside the point.

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⚠️ PSA! ⚠️
I know many people in our communities have alcohol/drug addictions or are around people who do, so I want to teach you all some first aid tips!
if someone is unconscious, for example if they've passed out drunk, first make sure the scene is safe, then check for breathing and a pulse!
make sure to check if the person's airway is blocked. placing your fingers under their chin and tilting the head back can help clear their airway.
to check for a person's pulse, place two fingers on their neck beside their windpipe and press firmly for 5-10 seconds.
if the person has no pulse, call emergency services, find an AED (or tell someone to find one if that's possible) and begin CPR if you know how. follow the instructions on the AED to defibrillate the person.
if the person is breathing and has a pulse, place them in the recovery position!
make sure they are on their side with the higher arm folded under their head, the lower arm bent forward, and the higher leg bent, like this:
their mouth should be open and facing downward. that way, if they vomit, the vomit can drain out of their mouth and they won't choke on it.
you can place soft but heavy objects, like pillows weighted down with something, around the person to keep them from accidentally turning over.
this information can save a life. please share!
What is Allodynia?
"Allodynia is feeling pain from things that don’t usually cause pain. For example, a feather could touch your skin and it hurts instead of feeling soft. You might also feel pain from: Wearing clothing. Someone gently tapping your shoulder. Temperature changes. Allodynia is a type of nerve pain (neuropathic pain). This is usually a symptom of conditions like diabetes, shingles, fibromyalgia [and six more]..."
Do things that shouldn’t feel painful cause pain like brushing your hair or feeling a light touch? It could be allodynia. Learn more here.
04/06/2026 Doctor Beverly Crusher @SpaceDocMom Incoming Transmission…
I know I say it a lot, but I really want you to know it in your heart: you deserve good health care. Just because you're not getting it doesn't mean you don't deserve it. emojis: black heart, blue heart, masked, spoon
listen...spray some of that nice perfume...use the good hand cream...wear that outfit even if you are just staying home...light those special candles you have been saving...enjoy those little things even if there is no occasion

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just keep showing up for yourself, cycle by cycle, until things feel a little fresher, a little lighter, a little more like you again 🧺🫧💕
not everyone enters a new year with clarity in their minds. some of us arrive carrying questions instead. some of us arrive tired. some of us arrive still healing, still learning, still trying to understand what we even want. and that's okay. that's a very human place to be 💌🫶🏻🌱