gray lithop

If you think the ban on the images and videos women and girls being brutally raped as a total ban on freedom of speech, says a lot on how society sees the female sex.

i haven’t weighed in on the oral sex ‘discourse’ only because i have somewhat of a maladjusted perspective on sex that would alienate everyone bc i find the idea of putting anything that people pee out of anywhere near my mouth to be unappealing. ive never given a man oral and im good. it sounds nasty to me. and like women dont pee out of our clits so for that reason doing oral on women feels more sanitary to me, but still,,, ive only ever been comfortable with touching & kissing & doing hand stuff. i do find many aspects of heterosexual sex to be embarrassing. sex in general to me is embarrassing. but like how much of that has been ingrained in me due to be raised in a religious environment and culture where women were called whore, slut, easy, loose, prostitute, etc for expressing any form of sexual desire? to me, the topic of ‘is sex [or x-type of sex] inherently degrading to women?’ can never be fully divorced from religious purity politics. i may catch heat for saying this, but i think the percentage of radfems & blackpillers whose attitudes towards female sexuality aren’t governed by some covert religious conditioning is actually pretty small. even if their families or communities weren’t particularly religious, virtually all women are raised in cultures & societies molded by patriarchal religion or philosophy (ie confucianism). i don’t it’s praxis or generally productive to participate in sex shaming of any kind. both men & women look silly having sex. whoever is being penetrated obviously takes on more risks (i.e. women who risk pregnancy & internally injuries, men who risk internal injuries), so that does necessitate certain conversations; for example, “what circumstances must a woman be in for heterosexual sex to be an activity she can safely engage in? and how far divorced are we from that reality?” is more productive to guide an action agenda and to encourage women to practice risk assessment in their sex lives than “why do women choose to ‘be degraded’ by engaging in sex with men?” the latter is a thought-terminating cliche that uncovers nothing, prompts nothing.

something that really ticks me off is males REFUSING to admit female comedians are funny like, ever. there isn't a single female comedian on any social media platform that doesn't have an army of men in her comments raving about how unfunny she is.

richard nixon is q*eer because he did watergate, subverting the societal expectation we all had for him to not do watergate