I’m just tired

“As a nonbinary” is mildly infuriating. Like do you think no woman has ever felt this way and women are women because just enjoy performing femininity and trying to meet a beauty standard that much?

Men masturbate to shit that would be considered an actual fucking crime in literally any other context outside of porn and then act like that has no influence whatsoever on how they view and interact with women.

people hate women for real lol it crazy. you'll say that and then people will be like "I don't hate women. I just hate it when they're always whining about things that only affect women? it's fine that they're here on earth and I like it when they're quiet but when they try to talk about stuff it's so annoying?? like why are you complaining all the time and why do you think you're special and why don't you ever want to talk about men?? like they really are so awful and horrible to be around but I don't hate them" and then they want you to go "oh okay! totally"

RMA - real misogyny affected 💔💔

if only these people realized that this is why so many men identify as trans. so that they cannot be held accountable. so that they can always twist the narrative to be about something else. trans theory is the most cruel and cunning gaslighting tool patriarchy has used since the witch hunts.

i actually do think it’s anti-feminist to be fatphobic and yes i do mean that

a deeply beloved professor of mine in college was a fat woman who had built her body of academic work on the intersection of misogyny and weight bias as a variable in women's mental health treatment outcomes. she had found some truly harrowing shit in her research that leaves me in no doubt that men's treatment of fat women is largely if not entirely driven by misogyny, and the general societal treatment of fatness emboldens them, as fat women feel like an "acceptable" target of that violence in the public sphere. this professor also shared with me and other students how, even when presenting her work to a group of supposedly enlightened colleagues at conferences, she had been the subject of misogynistic jokes based on her weight. (ie, "you know why she picked this to research, just look at her," "anything but going to the gym, huh," "no surprise she's single like this," etc.)

always remember that the “genius serial killer” narrative is a blatant cover for the fact that the police will always look the other way when it comes to white cis men exhibiting blatantly violent and hateful behavior

Important to remember that people like Jeffrey dahmer targeted minorities because cops did not care about violence against them. It’s not just cops being incompetent, it’s the systematic violence, racism, classism, transphobia, and homophobia in the police system

It's only gender wars when a woman brings up something about men

If you aren’t interested in masc women exactly the way they are and would rather be with a dude, then do that!! Masc women are not for you. What is considered masculine is subjective and women are not obligated to be gender conforming anyway. Actually I would say all women are gnc to various degrees because femininity is a prison and no one can meet all the standards imposed on women. Either you are attracted to women or you aren’t. If you consider masc women “lacking” in some way because they don’t have a male body or penis, then you don’t deserve them. The cereal analogy is false. It’s actually like coming into a ramen place and getting mad that they don’t sell hamburgers and hot dogs because your only idea of good food is hamburgers and hot dogs

“I wasn’t gender socialized because I was bullied for being gnc as a child” it’s almost as if that’s one of the most direct examples of gendered socialization