I'd love more recognition that Ahsoka very much did not grow up as a soldier, did not grow up with Anakin, did not grow up with the clones or in a war or on a venator. She grew up with the JEDI, at the Temple, in a time of relative peace. She spent, at MOST, around two years total as Anakin's padawan and going into battles during the war (and more likely it was probably closer to a year and a half). Ahsoka is fourteen when she is assigned to Anakin and sent out to the war, and she looks like she's probably around 2-3 years old when she meets Plo in that single image from TCW and she's 1 year old when she shows her first signs of Force sensitivity in TOTJ. She spends probably at minimum OVER A DECADE growing up at the Jedi Temple, surrounded by other Jedi, happy and at peace.
Yes, obviously her relationship with Anakin is important to her and her time in the war does change her, but it so often seems to be considered the ONLY thing in her life that matters when I read stories about her, like her ENTIRE childhood was spent at war or with Anakin rather than it being one of the smallest chapters in her life (depending on how old you think she is when Plo finds her, her time with Anakin might actually be the shortest period of her life).
Ahsoka did spend time in a war at a very young age and invests a good amount of emotion into her relationship with Anakin, but it is by far not the entirety of her childhood. She grew up in a place of peace and love and kindness and friendship and wisdom, and THAT is what gave her the foundation she needed to get through the war and the resulting years of her life, but somehow her strength is only ever attributed to the two years she spent with a fascist genocidal maniac.
Ahsoka's childhood with the Jedi should be equally as impactful if not arguably MORE impactful on who she becomes as anything with Anakin or Rex or the war.
