Still not over how last week my former datemate called me out during one of my “what if I’m not actually aroace” moments.
“You don’t experience romantic attraction. You don’t experience sexual attraction. But you DO experience very big emotions about the people and things you love. A lot of the time that seems to be because they hold a part of you. I think that you’re panicking over what it means to love yourself”
I have not recovered from this.






















