"so i was thinking..." - the over-thinker

For something like computers, this looks like how pricey "gAmiNG" laptops look all fancy but fall apart in about the same timeframe as the lower end laptops for students. But if you've ever handled the sort of laptops for banks or businesses, you'd wonder why laptops can't all be like this. People swear by Lenovo Thinkpads for a reason. Dell's Latitude (general productivity) and Precision (has the power of a gaming laptop but far less bs) lines, HP's probooks, all feel really nice and last for-fucking-ever. But you can't buy them in a store even if you wanted one.

So the trick is to buy what big organizations are buying, but you likely gotta get 'em secondhand when the orgs are done with them. For basic clothes, mil surplus might be a good port of call, for technology see an e-waste recycler or sometimes government auction (you just gotta know what to ask for; ThinkPads, Dell Latitude/Precision, HP Probook/Zbook). Otherwise try to thrift old, pre-enshitification items. The blanket I had as a kid is still going strong and has lived to bury multiple sets of newer bedding (which have worn thin and torn). Kitchen items, see if you can shop at a restaurant supplier.

TMA = trans women, transfeminine nonbinary people.

Both categories include women and nonbinary people

Both categories include people with penises, and people with vaginas, and people with ambiguous genitals.

Both categories include intersex people.

TME includes cis and trans men.

No one is asking non-binary people to add these to their bios or do anything other than consider them in their interactions with others.

Apart from going, "oh that's an experience I don't have and I'm likely to have the gut reflex to deny and downplay it because acknowledging it would force me to address privilege I've been taught to see as natural and unquestioned" you literally don't have do much.

No one is saying you have to declare yourself a man-flavored and enby and castigate yourself for being part of the evil gender. Pretending that you are being asked to do so is a tired reactionary argument on par with straight pride and all lives matter.

No parts of it extended beyond the lines, and the paper ticket was clearly displayed, impaled on a horn.