Cloudmistdweller

A SAFE PLACE TO BE ONLY IN MY SKIN . . . . I found this while viewing a post attributed to @irishangeleyes2d

The "why" behind women finding their way to sites like tumblr where we are able to anonymously explore, discover, indulge and enjoy finding our "real me"? Yes, but the caption says more: " be only in my skin".

Why am I here? One can read my opening article where I try to explain my reasons. Yet, this caption sums it up. So . . . it stands out, at least for me.

I am able to be open with myself in a way I can't be even with those closest to me. I can share a side of me which might scare even me when it comes to my thoughts. I am able to learn about myself because I can react to and interact with my thoughts, etc, and with others if I wish (here, I call it wandering and wondering) without having to worry about others' opinions or their "good opinion" of me.

Sometimes, in simple captions like these, one can see the oft not acknowledged reason we are "online"? All of us can list the reasons we are "here". Isn't the true reason because we are able to feel safe in our own skin as we enjoy being able to engage here as we do?

How often do we realize in places like these our real selves, discover other interests and indulge in things unexplored which we haven't for any number of reasons?

I share this as I do because I felt this needed to be said because the illustration and the caption led me to

MORE ABOUT 'MORESOMES' . . . the reality is women don't just wonder about it . . .

The old adage "the more the merrier" definitely applies when it comes to today's women who more openly share they don't just enjoy casual sex with random others, they are engaging in moresomes (or admitting they do so) so much so women not just want to do so but actually do so as a rite of passage . . . something most women won't admit but do engage in, often in college and before marriage . . .

A follower forwarded me the following online information because reading it, she felt affirmed rather than ashamed. Her journey into moresomes began when she was in high school and involved two brothers who lived nearby. She wasn't the only girl who did so.

She was (and I admit I am) impressed with what she discovered during her "research" because of the article's lack of negativity . . . . one reads straightforward conclusions without it being judgmental. More than once I've listened as women, especially those who one would never believe or think would ponder much less fantasize about the topic, shared their "interest" and I have encouraged women- wives especially -to indulge, an admission I freely make because they were finally doing what they wanted and not what they should do . . . "and it felt good" . . . for all involved. The article:

"Many women today find threesomes and foursomes appealing, with research showing nearly 90% of women fantasize about group sex. While roughly one-in-five people have participated in a threesome, enjoyment often depends on emotional security, respect, and clear communication rather than just the act itself.

Prevalence of Fantasies: Threesomes are ranked among the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women.Threesome Experiences (MFF and MMF): While MFF (Male-Female-Female) is common, research shows women are increasingly open to or engaged in MMF (Male-Male-Female) scenarios. Women in MMF scenarios often find it more desirable if the men interact with each other, enhancing pleasure and providing a less objectifying, safer environment.Foursomes and Group Sex: Discussions on platforms like Quora and Reddit suggest that some women prefer foursomes to threesomes, sometimes finding them more balanced when two couples interact, according to user discussions.Key Factors for Enjoyment: Women tend to enjoy these experiences more when they are consensual, respectful, and not coerced, notes this article on Medium.Challenges: The same WebMD article and Good Clean Love blog note that such encounters can be complex to arrange and may be emotionally challenging."

What I truly appreciate and acknowledge by sharing this is this outwardly xian spouse is, showing me and not just telling me she spent some quality time where she sat down to

Think about it.

@cloudmistdweller shares the following in his response to a previous query on the topic.

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