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I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

#kayla speakin

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kayla-denker

"Nooooo, bro! You cant take away my emotional support misgendering of trans women! 'Dude' is totally gender neutral, dude! I promise, my guy! C'mon, man, just lemme call every single trans woman 'dude!' I promise it's gender neutral and not a very obvious way for me to misgender them with thinly veiled plausible deniability, brother!"

kayla-denker

No, it doesn't "depend on the person."

"Dude" is fucking masculine. This is very easily demonstrated.

Go ask a straight guy about all the "dudes" he's fucked. Ask him who the "dude" is that he's dating.

People claim "dude" is gender neutral because in most everyone's mind men are the default human beings.

And stop forcing women to make themselves vulnerable by asking you stop misgendering them. Just stop misgendering them in the first place!

legalityoftheraccoons

i dont think you read what I said

kayla-denker

"I think it depends on the person. I use dude as a filler word g3nder neutrally. But in the past of someone has asked me not to then I adjusted."

I read exactly what you wrote, and that's why I responded with what I said. Are you fucking kidding?

#transmisogyny

sexualencountersatwalmart

Stephen King released a novel last year with just a straight up uncomplicated uncritical rendition of the plural tranny psycho killer antagonist and in the afterword was like "i wanted to do something like Psycho :)"

these things have not been reckoned with

sexualencountersatwalmart

this isn't directly related to the ongoing discussion of this trope in horror and the transmisogynistic legacy of seminal horror films like Psycho, but i think it's worth talking about as a larger illustration of the narrative roles afforded to transfeminized characters:

there is exactly one other explicitly transfeminized character in this series by King (the Bill Hodges/Holly Gibney series of detective novels). she appears in the climax of End of Watch (2016) as one victim in a montage of victims coerced into suicide by the antagonist. she is described very clearly as a trans girl, but is directly referred to by the text as a gay boy. i won't go into detail, but her on-page suicide (unlike the others in the montage) is a dark comedy beat, played for laughs

sexualencountersatwalmart

yes! nail on the head right here. like yes, it's worth it to be like "fuck stephen king" and criticize the particulars of his transmisogynistic writing, but the broader point is that this is what transfemininity looks like in pop culture and it's what it looks like right now!

this isn't history or a settled issue, it's our current reality

#trans #transgender #trans women #transfeminine #feminism #transfeminism #misogyny #transmisogyny

kitshomeforwaywardsouls

Ok why does Caine get to be everyones sweet little baby but every time someone says something sympathizing with Jax’s actions and mental state folks come out of the woodwork to remind you that “oh she’s still a horrible abuser.”

The answer of course is transmisogyny.

"I call everyone 'dude' unless they ask me not to." How about you just stop misgendering women by default and forcing us to place ourselves in a very vulnerable position of having to ask you to stop?

Like, are you fucking so oblivious to the massive social stigma we are under in regards to asking people not to misgender us? How are you not aware of the extremely common caricature of the angry tranny yelling "Did you just assume my gender?!?!" It's a whole ass meme!

Do you not see horde of people who get angry at us specifically for asking them to not call us 'dude?' And you have the gall put the onus on us to ask you to stop calling us that in real fucking flesh-and-blood life where we could be physically assaulted, lose lose our jobs, or any number of a myriad of very serious negative consequences on our lives?!

"All my trans women friends are fine with it!"

I'm very confident in saying that I don't think they are at all. I'm sure that they either just keep quiet and silently endure you constantly misgendering them, or outright lie to you and say it's fine when it's not, because they don't want to take the risk of you ruining their lives. I know this, because I have to make that decision literally every single day of my life over the exact same thing.

Stop regarding men as the default, and stop misgendering women as the default. What the actual fuck is wrong with you? That's a rhetorical question. I know that the answer is (trans)misogyny.

#'dude' is not gender neutral you fucking douchbag #dude is not gender neutral #trans #transgender #trans women #transfeminine #transfeminism #feminism #misogyny #transmisogyny

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kayla-denker

I eill never stop reminding y'all that you can actually use shinigami eyes on mobile.

You just gotta use tumblr through the firefox mobile app instead of using the tumblr app. Which has the added bonuses of having a better UI than the tumblr app, and allowing you to use ublock origin so you never see another ad again.

oldmanontumbler

The following screenshot is cropped poorly on purpose. I want to show that this is a screenshot, and that it has Shinigami Eyes.

IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kayla, thank you so much!! I had no clue that SE had a mobile version available for Firefox. But it does!!!

kayla-denker

"Nooooo, bro! You cant take away my emotional support misgendering of trans women! 'Dude' is totally gender neutral, dude! I promise, my guy! C'mon, man, just lemme call every single trans woman 'dude!' I promise it's gender neutral and not a very obvious way for me to misgender them with thinly veiled plausible deniability, brother!"

kayla-denker

No, it doesn't "depend on the person."

"Dude" is fucking masculine. This is very easily demonstrated.

Go ask a straight guy about all the "dudes" he's fucked. Ask him who the "dude" is that he's dating.

People claim "dude" is gender neutral because in most everyone's mind men are the default human beings.

And stop forcing women to make themselves vulnerable by asking you stop misgendering them. Just stop misgendering them in the first place!

#dude is not gender neutral #feminism #transfeminism #misogyny #transmisogyny

daughter-of-sapph0

agab isn't a thing you are, its a thing you were

'assigned' is past tense. it was an event, coercive, forced without your approval because you were only minutes old. its not a label, its not an identity

"i am afab" no, you WERE afab. you ARE whatever gender you currently are. stop identifying with an event forced upon you at birth, even if you are cis.

Chat, Im feeling very doomed by the narrative again

#kayla havin a bad time

minicountessisme

Originally I wanted to have an animatic ready in time for the finale, but as you can tell that didn't happen.

Hopefully, I will finish it soon, but in the meantime, have a sneak peak of my trans Jax design.

Isn't she lovely??

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glyphieee

It seems like every fight the paladin gets that big red icon above her head and the boss singles her out to do this massive attack to. But it's never once happened to me. I am going to call this phenomenon tank hypervisability.

grubstrate

And then she gets all the heals? Why don’t I get any heals? This is DPS invisibility

glyphieee

It seems like every fight the paladin gets that big red icon above her head and the boss singles her out to do this massive attack to. But it's never once happened to me. I am going to call this phenomenon tank hypervisability.

If someone accuses you of having "fake boobs" and your response is "nope, these are 100% real!" How are you functionally different from a cis woman responding with "I'm a real woman!" after being accused of being trans?

I got breast implants because I wasn't privileged enough to transition in my teens, or lucky enough to have whatever gene gives you nice boobs even when you transition at 35. Do I deserve to be riddiculed for them? What are you doing to fight back against this particular kind of transmisogyny? Cause your go-to response isn't doing it.

#transfeminism #transmisogyny #trans #transgender #trans women #transfeminine

deadinsalem

Everyone wants “toxic yuri” so much until one of the characters is transfem. And don’t act like this is a new phenomenon some of you are actually just internally transmisogynistic and completely superficial and you don’t want to even try to imagine it as a possibility even though the little voice in the back of your head that you shut out is telling you that it’s true because you want to tell yourself you’re progressive because you’re just trying to get an A+ gold star grade in your make-believe charade of Super Savior Special Woke and for real it’s such a big fucking tell on your character and your emotional maturity

#the amazing digital circus #Jax TADC

godly-girlfailure

is there an infighting problem or are you just tme

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pavilarg0

Annoyed with a video essay about misogyny in fandom spaces because the person making the video was saying "men" when they meant men, but they were saying "AFAB people" when they meant women. Quickly. What Demographic Are You Excluding By Saying This. This stupid fucking video essay was supposed to be about misogyny whilst excluding an entire demographic of women that does very much experience a lot of misogyny in fandom spaces (and everywhere else for that matter).

pfeffaroo

Don't worry, no one in our family is [REDACTED]

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