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i cannot stress enough that "femboy" is a transmisogynistic slur and a transmisogynistic caricature, and it is one that is employed overwhelmingly by tme people disrespecting and degendering transfems in the name of coopting our aesthetics and wearing our marginalization like a costume. yes some girls reclaim the slur, largely out of necessity to make a living doing sex work that covets their bodies but refuses to gender them correctly while doing it, but that does not save the term. in fact it is all the more damning.

I think that the tendency for so many "fans" of various media to insist that explicitly transfem characters are "actually femboys" is a testament to this. Bridget, Ralsei, Jax, etc, etc ,etc. They keep doing it over and over and over for literally the exact same reason they tell us "why can't you just be a femboy?"

The need to be skinny, pretty, or light-skinned is a symptom of oppression. It's racist, colonial, sexist standards of beauty that colonize your mind and drive you to change what isn't broken. Dysphoria is in-built. It is your brain recognizing something fundamentally wrong that can and should be treated medically. You can tell the difference by how fucking hard the powerful are working to stop transition while doing fuck-all to stop harmful beauty standards.

parents will rlly be like sorry for ruining ur childhood but you were a child so it doesnt matter anymore right

So fucking hyped for this

Tme people will see a post about how white trans women can be really fucking racist and instead of coming away from that with the conclusion that they should help uplift trans women of color, they instead conclude that all trans women (especially those pesky transfeminists) must be white and racist

They also seem to think that white transmascs aren't racist, or at least are less likely to be racist.

Tme people will see a post about how white trans women can be really fucking racist and instead of coming away from that with the conclusion that they should help uplift trans women of color, they instead conclude that all trans women (especially those pesky transfeminists) must be white and racist

for the last time, transmasc and transfem dont describe gender but a relationship to the gender heirarchy imposed by patriarchy! every nb in the world is either transmasc or transfem regardless of their own personal gender! you can be the most transneutral genderless nb ever but you will still be described as either transmasc or transfem depending on how your transition relates to your agab! and you need to acknowledge this before you join transfeminist discussions becuase otherwise you look like a bad feminist!

what the fuck are they putting in the water that makes these people think trans women don't face misogyny 😭

There needs to be Chinese style land reform but for housing. I'm not even joking. The deeds to houses should be taken from the landlords and the banks and given to people paying rent and mortgages. People with too much housing should have their housing given to those with too little housing.

sorry sir you've got it all wrong. your misogyny is misdirected! you see, I've actually been a transsexual woman this whole time, not a real target of misogyny!