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I've met a fair amount of transmasculine people who need to prove their oppression in relation to me as like... idk? an affirmation of their identities? it's weird and leads to a lot of very stilted and uncomfortable social interactions, or like I'll say something that's too feminist all of a sudden he's really intensely explaining some trauma out of nowhere. idk

TMRAs are always gesturing towards the women who are supposedly saying that trans men aren't oppressed, and then you look at what's actually being said and it's all, "people broadly treat trans men pretty terribly, which is awful. but it doesn't happen because they're men, it happens because they're trans." and this is seen as an unacceptable insult to manhood, for which these women must be hunted down and crushed.

Trans fems will see this and say hell yeah

she just like me fr

i think the whole trans women in sports thing is particularly insidious because it pretends to be about something trivial (note the casual misogyny of disregarding women's sports in a country that's obsessed with athletic spectacle) when it's really about what we are allowed to do with our bodies and what relationships we're allowed to have with other women. even if it all came down to leisure, it's deeply disturbing that so many people are ready to authoritatively say how I'm allowed to use and enjoy my body and with whom i can do so.

when people treat trans women's breasts as if they aren't real breasts and when they treat our vaginas as if they aren't real vaginas they are contributing to the idea that when we are raped it isn't really rape

they relentlessly speak of our bodies as fake and then we are treated as inhuman sex dolls who don't suffer, unlike real human women. these are not two disconnected phenomena

galaxy brain terfs have found this one and they're acting like I'M the one who invented the idea that rape is only rape if it's against a cis woman. I don't know how to tell you this my friends but this is one of your favorite talking points 😭

Another dyke moment I had recently was when I was talking about how I quit dating men because I don't like them & die girlies were all like laughing along with me about it but one of them felt the need to be like "not that there's anything *wrong* with men-" and all I could think was like. Yes there is?

This was in a group of queer women too but they're like pansexual and normal ykwim. I've kind of been adopted by Women like their weird dog (nonbinary butch lesbian) but I keep forgetting they don't think there's anything wrong with men

I know they agree with me they're just afraid to admit it. They agree and then flinch. Come with me. There IS something wrong with men

cis women really don't want to accept that the reason men treat them the way they do is because they are systemically and socially empowered to do so, because that means there is no real difference between them and a man when they treat trannies exactly how men treat them

we are NOT bringing 4chan incel terminology to this site, take that "foid" out of your post and go wash your blog out with soap

the memeification of fascism is a proven method of perpetuating and instilling it in other people. Layers of irony will not protect you once you adopt racist, sexist, ableist, transphobic terminology into your lexicon. you'll be acknowledging and nursing the mindsets and connotations borne of those words.

I've never seen anyone deny that trans men get periods. I've seen it happen all the time to trans women.

HELP they're coming for my right to tell random women that I find them unfuckable unprompted

perhaps some will disagree, but i think the world got worse when we changed the colour of the night

ALSO! red light doesn’t fuck up human night vision much so you can go in and out of lit areas without readjusting

i legit miss red lights in cars and appliances n stuff. red city lighting is goated

I FUCKING HATE WHITE LED LIGHTS!! I HATE THEM!!! THEY'RE RUINING EVERYTHING!!!!