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my names are nix or felix, i use xe/xem/xyr pronouns
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greetings and welcome to my blog . i post things sometimes
my names are nix or felix, i use xe/xem/xyr pronouns

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Early in covid I was working at a coffee shop and due to masking, it was difficult for people to get a read on my gender. I had long hair, a high or low voice depending on the day. I wasn't tall. I've got long eyelashes without needing to do anything to them. And so one customer from the next would gender me differently. At that job we had no employee bathroom so I would ask a friend in the morning how I read to settle on which bathroom to use to keep myself safer, but that day I really ought to have brought out two tip jars like "Am I A BOY or a GIRL?"
Sometimes I had facial hair and sometimes I didn't, and because of the mask, it didn't seem to be a factor in how I was read, because I guess not enough beard poked out.
A woman told her kid "tell the nice lady which snack you want" and the man behind her said "thank you, sir" when he paid. Had a woman call me bro and then a very straight older man hit on me and called me sweetheart. Not all gendered interactions were ideal but there was such whiplash having gay men talk to me like a gay man, dykes give me the nod, and then straight people of both assumed genders either thought I was one of them or their opposite.
I had never had such a fluid experience happening in real time, and it was SO unclear to most people that two of my coworkers were convinced I was trans, and I said that I was, but both were certain I was trans in "opposite" directions, so when one would call me "she" the other would defensively call me "he" and vice versa. It took me a while to realize that they didn't think some fluidity was involved but that the other was actually misgendering me and I was FIRMLY trans in one direction or another.
What a cool and bizarre but affirming experience! I wish this for so many people.
Me, two glasses of wine in: "yeah so here's an in depth conversation about my identity as a nonbinary person, and my struggles with transphobia in 2023"
Median Center-Right American Dude at the party, also two drinks in: "Damn that's crazy, I never thought of it like that. Man, I'm sorry you gotta deal with this shit."
Me: "Ahh it's alright. I deal."
Random Guy: "People should just chill tf out."
Me: "Damn right"
Random Guy: "So if you're non binary, and, sorry if this is offensive but I don't know the right words here. Like, is it cross dressing for you if you wear a skirt?"
Me: "Its- hm. Huh. I have no idea."
Guy: "It must have been nice to go to school with other trans people. Like, you must've felt safe."
Me: "No actually it was the opposite. It just made me even more upset and confused. I didn't know what being non-binary was. I saw people that transitioned from one gender to the other and knew I wasn't that. It took me a long time to figure this shit out."
Guy: "man that sounds rough. No wonder you guys are upset all this time this sounds painful."
Me: "Well, it sucks until it suddenly doesn't. It sucks and then it rules hard."
Guy: "so It's like working out."
Me: [both of us are now nodding wisely] "it's like working out."
to the people on my revenge list I may have forgotten (MEME STOLEN FROM THIS BLUESKY POST)
Longing

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Tump dies tonight while giving his speech in the hot hot sun. Like to charge, reblog to cast
guys im feeling quite vulnerable now and i need u to be honest with me. If an evil palette swapped clone of myself started wreaking general mayhem with villainous intent you'd be able to differentiate him from me right. You wouldnt get us totally mixed up and accuse me of committing all the evil deeds he did
Sometimes you'll see a character that's not canonically aromantic but when you see them shipped with another character you think "ok this feels like aro erasure"
I want more aromantic characters who are not also asexual !!! I want more characters who 100 percent want to get it on but just don’t feel any romantic feelings for anyone. I want more aromantic characters with “friends with benefits” except it’s literally just that. That’s their best friend and sometimes they let them fuck. More aromantic characters please !!!!
i do think we should normalise being like. platonically enamoured with someone. perhaps i love and admire you dearly and there's nothing romantic about it

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There is no actual, tangible reason why we allow people to starve, to be homeless, to suffer and die needlessly. Food is plentiful. Empty homes are plentiful. Medicine is plentiful. It’s hidden away behind constructs and we pretend those constructs mean something. There is an empty home and a homeless family, give them it. There is a sick child and common medicine to treat it, give it to them. There is a starving person and so much food wasted by corporations or hidden behind a dollar sign, feed them.
— Reyna N.A., from All Summer Longing
one of my favourite bird for sure!! i would love to animate it someday…
big fan of the meek one ngl
2025 wrap up: odd news edition
it's that most wonderful time of the year again - time for a 2025 headline wrap-up!

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In 2026, the chicest thing a gay actor can do is never explicitly come out as gay but also make it abundantly clear that he is. Coming out is too modern. Staying closeted is too old fashioned. But this method merges contemporary freedom with Old Hollywood glamour and allure, and it weeds out the dumbest people who truly don’t get it. I call it the Pascal Method.
Taylor Swift does this
no she doesn’t
You clearly don't go here or to queer history and signaling, or both, enough to have this conversation and I'm not going to explain it to you. You could have asked questions, you could have done even a modicum of research. You didn't and you made yourself look ignorant. Goodbye.
Grace explaining sheepishly to Eridian linguists that the reason he uses different pronouns for Rocky than for the rest of the population is that he reflexively defaulted to assigning Rocky the same grammatical and social gender that he himself uses, in a way that has historical precedent but in modern English is considered somewhat chauvinistic and backward, and he's not proud of it but also the habit is pretty deeply ingrained now and unless Rocky objects it's probably easier to just keep on as he has been...
and immediately being informed lol. lmao. do not even worry about it. you have no idea what kind of buck wild grammatical constructs Rocky has invented for you. everyone else addresses you as foreigner/scholar. they're somehow managing to refer to you as their sibling, ward, and semidivine culture hero at the same time every time they talk about you.