the uncertainty girl

terfs on tumblr don’t care if they’re in your dnis. they’ll reblog your posts anyway. it would, however, be very funny if everyone just went into terf tags to block them on mass, ensuring they will never harass you and they will also not be able to interact on this website in any way that matters

I have never, and will never, use "ofc" to mean "of fucking course". It literally stands for OF Course...

"you have a deep voice for a girl" thats my roar its what separates genus Panthera (true big cats) (me) from the rest of the cat family.

“Yeah, we can eat this twogirl style” my girlfriend, referring to a pizza we just ordered

Reblog if you want to get eaten twogirl style

I said this far my eloquently on my last blog but "transphobes see trans women as men, so trans women are victims of misandry" is such a transphobic way to talk about shit. 1) the transphobe is wrong, you don't need to play devil's advocate. All you do is signal to trans people that you don't think they're actually their gender. You're making the issue worse 2) trans women are women. always. Yes including if they don't pass or aren't taking hrt. 3) misandry isn't fucking real.

As I've always said, they dont see us as men, they see us as subhuman monsters.

T4T relationships are great everything comes so easy. Well. Except for the two girls involved.

a trans woman shaved nose to toes in a full face of makeup high heels and a dress will always be more transgressive than the genderfuckiest tme boydyke girlfag you can find

hashtag satire. riiiight?

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.

to this day "who is allowed to be angry" has been an incredible benchmark for teasing out who, in abusive situations with mutual accusations and DARVO happening, is being abusive and who is being abused. one of my favorite resources about this, the Creative Interventions Toolkit, phrases the question "who sets the weather?" in the relationship and I think about it so so often when I think about my own childhood. I was parentified in a way that set me up for future abusive relationships, because I had to soothe my parents' anger while not being allowed to feel angry myself. I am extremely grateful to everyone outside myself - friends, therapists, partners - who's gotten angry on my behalf about how I'm treated or let me know something I'd been excusing or blaming myself for was actually Not Okay. I guess the good news here is that it's possible to learn how to access anger again in a healthy way, it just takes support, like doing physical therapy for a muscle that didn't develop quite right.

actually pigs shouldn't be at pride even outside of uniform. fuck those guys

if you decide to become a police officer then that outweighs any other marginalised identity you can rustle up like. not sorry, who asked you to willingly become a pig

And if it were a trans woman of colour you wouldn't even fucking acknowledge it was happening to her to begin with. You barely acknowledged it when it was a cis woman of colour. I know for a fucking fact you'd let a trans woman of colour rot and blame her for having the nerve to die, you wretched hogs.

hang on. sequel to Eats, Shoots, and Leaves called Screws, Nuts, and Bolts

how can u even trust a cissie to marry & have kids with and trust them to not subconsciously push you into the role of your coercive assignments nuclear family role and subconsciously get angrier at you for failing to fulfill the tasks associated with that and expect them to offer to do that themselves instead. scary.

8. into biting?

I’m a trans woman and I’m biologically female