I have seen a few men their age going to therapy but maybe they're not many. I get your point anyway. It's still seen as something to be ashamed of by the older generations.

I remember that story!

Maybe I’m the one reading too much into it, but after all these years it comes across as a bit stuck in the past. It’s been around 25 years. Hasn’t that chapter ended by now?

I’m genuinely curious what Noel thinks when he sees it, if he sees it at all. 🤔

Well, that's the million dollars question, or not.

I think she is over him, in the sense she knows there's no way back for them. I am not even sure she would like to get back wit him. After all, he was horrible to her after the breakup.

But she most likely misses the lifestyle and that time. Also, she gets views and people talking because she posts about him. I think that's all PR after all.

Does Noel just have terrible judgment in the people he chooses to be friends with and surround himself with?

We know he and Liam can be controversial sometimes. And I think it's good there's at least part of the fans who call it out.

It's disgraceful 😔 and Noel can be an idiot. But he is not for cancel culture, so he doesn't care.

This opens to other thoughts.

I am still wondering who in hell wrote that article about him distancing from Russell Brand because looking to him with McGregor, he doesn't seem to care at all.

I have a son, and a part of me has already made peace that my son will probably want to spend a significant amount of time with his Dad (my ex) once puberty hits all the way through to A Levels. (And honestly, I love my son, but I have done the heavy lifting when he was young, I am happy to finally get more time to myself. I would not be surprised if Sara feels the same way.)

All I am saying is that this alone cannot say anything deeper of what the family dynamic was like.

Yeah, I get your point and it's not uncommon what you said.

Happy waking up day! 😀

That's the image he sold to press and the fans. I also think that all the songs you expect he wrote for Sara, probably are not hers.

If you go back to some interviews from the past, or read between the lines of some other, you can pick it was not the "happily after ever" case.

Something I’ve been wondering…

We’ve seen Noel on his own over the past few weeks. So what happened to Nina? Is she still around, or was it just another relationship that lasted about as long as a magazine cover?

He said he’ll be travelling to America for the World Cup final. If he really was as deeply in love as we were led to believe, you’d expect them to be travelling together, wouldn’t you?

Or maybe there’s already someone else. With Noel, you never really know.

That said, one thing is undeniable: he looks fantastic. I genuinely think he’s looking better than ever. Absolutely gorgeous. 😜

I am not surprised she's not been seen around. She could be already past or he asked her to stay behind the curtains, with whatever excuse he has. I wouldn't be surprised about any options.

Not really. I still believe she was there just to be seen as the perfect new gf. Age appropriate, including. Hiding the reality of things.

Sorry if I answer with a question, but do you remember how Noel was with Meg after their divorce? 😅 the morher of his first born?

That right there is cold hard proof that this type of hatred and violence towards women in rock is still alive and well. I find Sara unlikeable most of the time and even unreliable. I see her flaws, wrongdoings and faults hell i understand sometimes why people believe she played a significant role in the breakup years of the band while at the same time i understand why at some point she tried to keep Noel away from the toxicity of his dynamic with Liam specially with the passport incident, hate on her all y'all want for this one but if you have a boyfriend cheating on you with his brother and you find that as the only way y'all would have done worse so its funny how biased you get on her ass for that right there. Yet i am capable to see that she's not this...demonic villain that 99% of the fandom still tries to paint her as till these days. Is she bitchy, unstable, erratic, impulsive, shady, shallow, vindictive? sure.

However, these people keep forgetting that neither Noel and Liam are these...fragile innocent little things either on this situation they so believe they are and that they can also be as insane, narcissistic, manipulative and erratic as Sara, specially Noel. Frankly i can't feel sorry for whatever the way Sara treated Noel because if anything, Sara on those sides was the closest Noel got to karma for how awful and much worse he treated Liam and yes, even Meg.

The three acussations circulating around here and twt this summer of her forcing Noel "to have an ED", "that she never loved him" (idk if thats cause there has been many new fans joining since the reunion but in the old days i still clearly remember them from 2003 till at least 2016 looking happy with eachother till thing slowly went downhill after 2017 or her "abusing him" just because she criticized his songs are beyond ridiculous. If she was out there blindly worshipping the ground of Noel and whatever he did at his arrogant peak they'd also call her "stupid" for it. Its like they all expected her to be his mental health or rehab recovery center which is anothet typical sexist narrative too. Literally god forbid her existing lol.

The most tyring part is that if you debate this properly with this people, yes from normies to gcesters (not you tho you seem to be one of the few people who has treated Sara with the deserved nuance and i appreciate it), they quickly get mad and start shit. Again, i definitely am not fond of her and i certainly do not condone her following the TERF, anti-vaxx and really unacceptable agendas. I accept that towards the drama between those two she acted in unpalatable even nasty ways that make it difficult, sometimes impossible to stand with her.

However, for all these fans to act like she was this monstrous entity that "tore Noel appart, put him through so much" who "ruined Liam's life" when there's severeal proof of them acting and doing so much worse than her, is a sign that we haven't progressed at all from the false Yoko Ono curse in the name of infantilizing white old men on this ideology that they are uncapable of doing wrong which is really sad if you ask me.

Even sadder considering that Sara stopped being part of the picture after the divorce yet her name keeps being this dragged in such degrading and unjust ways but praising Liam for those things he does to the point he gets deffended quickly.

I am not sure why people think Noel (and Liam) are such innocent and victims of evil women. Perhaps it's because I remember those times, I am a fan since the 90s, how Patsy and Meg were treated. It was horrible. So I do not have that image of the 2 poor men, who found themselves in the spiders webs. Not a chance. And while I was happy Noel found a "good" girl in Sara (at the time), I then realise how bad he was with Meg. That's probably why I don't like how she is treated by the fandom to these days.

I think the romance of Noel's words, Liam's "cheeky" banters on twt, and other things make people see a distorted reality. Those 2 have said and done things that none of us would easily forgive to our partners, or even friends.

Yet, I cannot step away from the music. I still love Oasis and some of their solos (love Noel's but less Liam's solos). But I am not blind. And I am glad it's not just me.

I appreciate your words. I often say I don't like Sara much (the image we saw and have been given, because we truly do not know her), but I think being Noel's gf and wife was not that easy. People get stuck to the golden part of it. Money, fame, good life, celebrities parties etc, but there's a bit more. Being alone, cheated, not having emotional support raising the kids. These are just tiny bits I have seen in comments and posts. And with a brother in law hating you publically. She is probably not a saint, but I cannot justify that hate. It's sickening.

True and I don't think this is an age where a custody battle would be beneficial. Assuming she wants Sonny back and he wants to stay with his dad, what she would gain from fighting into court?

Mothers are often very easily judged. A father takes care of the kids for a day, and he is glorified. A mother takes care constantly, she made a few mistakes, and she's the bad mother. I see this rethoric very often when Noel and Sara are discussed. This is why I tend to slow down when people jump to her throat in regards to motherhood. And we do not really know what is going on.