A Positive Mind

This is a weird request. I know this amazing young girl, who has become like family to me almost. The thing is, she lives on the other side of the world, and she's going through a tough time.

She's a young trans woman. No matter how much a adore her, and want to be there for her, I cant fully understand or empathise with her experience. So all the advice I give her, comes from a place of love but not understanding.

What I feel like she really needs, is to find and talk to someone who has been through what she has, and come out the other side. Sort of like the buddy system, or a sponsor.

So that's why I'm making this post. I'm hoping to find someone/s with the kind of life experience that my friend needs to hear about.

So if you're Trans and 18 or older, and you have the time and emotional capacity (please don't push yourself if it's going to upset you, you matter as well) to talk to me, and maybe her, could you message me?

I promise this is nothing weird. And that nobody has to give any information they don't want to.

Also if anyone knows of any legit and safe discord groups for Trans people to talk, that could be helpful for her.

I'm really really worried about her right now, and this is sort of a desperate attempt to find her some hope.

because theyd rather someone stay terrible or just straight up die than become a better person 

from a compassionate point of view it’s deeply distressing and from a pragmatic point of view it’s outright frustrating