I'm bi and no longer single

It wasn't even my packages I'm at my parents house...

I don't want many people there, litterally my maid of honor, and my parents and grandparents and the same on my bfs side...

My bf and I agree and we don't want our wedding, if we choose to get married, to be a spectacle, especially since I am pregnant. I don't need people gossiping at my wedding that I had to invite because people told me to.

This is how I want my wedding.

But I'm selfish.

I was originally thinking about litterally going to the courthouse but I wanted my grandparents to be able to be at my wedding so we changed our plans. But when I walked in to our Christmas party early today that's not what my mother had told my father. And then my father and I got into a small yelling match that ended with him telling me I was selfish while I insisted it was my business what my wedding is like.

I want to propose to my boyfriend and he said he wanted something Lord of the rings themed if I got him anything. The only themed ring is the obvious, THE ring. But I want his to be special. I was essentially thinking about either:

1. A metal ring (he likes a copper color) with the sillouette of the fellowship engraved on it.

Or 2. A resin landscape style ring, like the mountain ones, but add the eye of sauron and make it a volcano.

My questions are:

A) are these good ideas

B) are they even possible

I will be getting rid of a lot of things including giving stuff away and selling things so that I have less when I move in June! Most of it is craft supplies and clothing! Please check out my blog for it and I promise I won't clog up this blog with posts about moving lol

I'm a christian who has had an interest in christian witchcraft for a while and could use some tips for beginners. I was hesitant but after waking up with sleep paralysis after a night terror this morning I felt like I needed to do something. All I have done so far is make a charm after that night terror which was just lavendar in a bag which I prayed over to hopefully help with nightmares.

I also have native american in my ancestry and my family has passed down the tradition of using dreamcatchers. I stopped using them for a while when I was a kid but picked them up again when I had nightmares in highschool and they have worked until recently.

I recently moved in with my grandma so I do not know what there is in this new space or maybe I'm just vunerable because I've been moving so much lately and have been lacking in an anchor.

I also noticed that my pet gecko has been slightly less energetic lately. I have switched out his toys and fed him a little extra to try to see what's wrong and he's mostly fine but for some reason he just seems a little off. Nothing major and I've had him checked out by a vet she says he's fine his mood is just off.

Does anyone have any advice? I also don't know anything about prepping a new home and I will be moving again sometime between next month and June so I could really use some help!

I had my suspicions, a few little things like how he got super defensive whenever someone commented on how he was slightly more feminine than some guys, of course that was even before we started dating.

After we started dating I still had my suspicions so I asked him and he said he didn't know so I left it alone, I figured I would be there if and when he needed me but I wouldn't push him to try and come up with an answer.

He was at my house for dinner recently and we were hanging out with my brother and his friends and someone curiously asked if any of us were straight. Someone called out "raise your hands if youre gay!" And of course I jokingly put mine up halfway because I'm bi and my boyfriend did too.

I got all excited and he said he thought he had told me already that he had figured it out.

I don't mind that he didn't need me to hold his hands as he figured it out, and I'm glad he came to his conclusion without outside interference and took his own time.

Peeps are mad at me cause I am voting third party. Atleast I'm voting honestly. I am refusing to pick the lesser of two evils. I am voting for a candidate I actually would like to see in office.

VOTE LIBERTARIAN

#JoJorgensen2020