Is kindness really a virtue? I'm personally wasting myself away trying to be kind, I have nothing left for myself, and I just give and give and get nothing
And is rudeness a vice if the mere thought of it scares me into a deep fear, I live in fear of the idea of being rude, to my own detriment
Something about mediation is probably in order, but like all rudeness that isn't blunt sarcastic jokes feels wrong and like I am doing the moral equivalent of stabbing my dear friend with a knife
Are you actually being rude or are you just setting a boundary or expressing your wants and needs?
Being rude is ignoring the social contract, being uncompromisingly selfish, or actively being antagonistic. If you're expressing that someone is annoying or upsetting you with the goal of creating a better social experience you aren't being rude.



























