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The rule could have heavy impacts towards trans people across society.
Last week, the Trump administration quietly released a sweeping new federal rule that would use funding threats to force institutions across the country to reject transgender people. The 400-page proposed regulation would codify the administration's anti-trans executive orders into binding federal policy, imposing a blanket prohibition on federal funds going toward "gender ideology"
The proposed rule, formally titled "Regulation for Federal Financial Assistance," rewrites the government-wide framework governing all federal grants across every agency. Among its most consequential provisions, it requires that before a federal grant recipient can receive money, the award must pass a "pre-issuance review" conducted by a political appointeeānot a career expert or peer reviewerāto ensure it is "consistent with applicable law, Federal agency priorities, and the national interest." The regulation explicitly instructs these appointees to screen for "denial by the recipient of the sex binary in humans or the notion that sex is a chosen or mutable characteristic." [...] An institution that acknowledges transgender people existāthrough its policies, its training, its healthcare, its bathroom access, its HR procedures, its name-change processesācould be deemed to "deny the sex binary" or to āsupport the notion that sex is mutableā and have its federal funding blocked.
Importantly, the gender ideology prohibition has no age limitationāhospitals could be targeted not just for providing care to minors but for providing gender-affirming care to adults, because prescribing hormone therapy to a transgender patient of any age could be deemed promoting the belief that "sex is a chosen or mutable characteristic."
THIS IS OPEN TO COMMENT UNTIL JULY 13, 2026
This is all very bad and horrible, but I want to be clear that itās worse and more sweeping than just eliminating trans research.
This torches everything. And I do mean everything.
A very abbreviated list of its ramifications include (but are not limited to):
ending funding for ALL DEI related initiatives
allowing the government to terminate grants at any point for any reason
preventing researchers from publishing, going to conferences, and being part of academic societies
requiring that topics must support the presidentās agenda.
What this means, and if anything Iām under selling it, is the death of science and research in America. It allows the government to restrict any topic they please at a whims notice, putting officials who have no background in the topic in charge of deciding funding continuity. It controls what gets researched and if/how researchers are allowed to share their discoveries. There are no books to burn if the government never allows them to be written. This is fascism plain and simple.
Please, if you only ever write one public comment, this is the one to do.
Bringing back this guide to writing an effective public comment. This gives you the basics you need to know, what you need to include, a basic outline you can follow, etc.
Public comments are not a vote, it is a chance for you to say "here is an issue with this law I think you need to address" and provide justification for legal challenges if it goes forward:
"Comments raise the bar that agencies have to meet when making a rule; āif an agency fails to adequately respond to significant, relevant comments in a final rule, members of the public may seek to challenge the rule in court on that basis and claim it could be struck down.Ė®"
But also, if possible, don't stop at writing a comment. Don't stop at calling your representatives. You should ideally be talking to people in your community about this and organizing resistance on-the-ground; there is a good chance people are already doing that even if you aren't hearing about it.
Some added 101-level context from someone (me) whoās worked in federal grantmaking for 20 years and is literally certified on this document - this is a document that governs all federal grantmaking. Itās been around for over a decade and is a mega-document that combine multiple previous smaller documents that have been around for ages. It is updated every few years and generally the updates are minor - a notable change in the previous update was raising the small procurement threshold from $10,000 to $15,000 for example. Deeply dry boring minutiae that no one outside of federal grantmakers need concern themselves with. It was also federal GUIDELINES, which means there was flexibility.
This yearās is different. They are now federal REQUIREMENTS, which means thereās no flexibility. As was said previously, the 400 pages are not singularly devoted to being absolute shitheads to trans people. Theres a lot of stuff in there, some of which is the standard dry boring grants stuff, some of which is the horrible ideological warfare outlined above.
This document is issued by the OMB, the Office of Management and Budget, which is currently lead by fucking Russell Vought, the principal architect of Project 2025. This is how theyāre going to implement all the horrible shit in there that wasnāt covered by Executive Order. Russell Vought is actively coming for my job, my marriage, and my kid, and most of my friends lost their jobs last year because of him. He is the fucking arch villain behind the heinous shit the current regime is doing.
So yes, please comment. You donāt have to read all 400 pages before doing so, itās dry and dense as fuck, but I thought this information might be helpful. Also, while there is a public comment period, this isnāt voted on by Congress. The OMB just fucking issues it. Pressuring your elected officials into publicly saying āhey what the fuck are you doing hereā is good, though.
Please note the comment period is open through JULY 13th, not JUNE 13th. I saw a lot of relogs yesterday saying "last day!" and I just want to say it is very much not too late.
āNo one remembered my birthday-ā Well, but did YOU tell anyone it was coming up and you wanted to celebrate it with them?
āI wish someone would see through it when I tell people Iām fine-ā Well, but have YOU considered not lying when people ask you how youāre doing?
āI am so resentful of my friend because they keep doing this thing that really bothers me-ā Well, but have YOU directly communicated that the thing is bothering you?
āI am burning out because my friend keeps expecting me to help them with serious struggles-ā Well, but have YOU tried to establish the boundaries you need to feel okay?
āNo one ever asks me about this thing I really care about-ā Well, but have YOU brought it up yourself?
āI miss my friend but they havenāt texted me-ā Well, but have YOU been reaching out to them?
Sometimes people are mean, uncaring assholes, in which case you get to be mad. But sometimes you just need to communicate better. Try communication before you assume someone doesnāt care!
Having someone who knows you on such a deep level that they see past your mask, or sense you need a check in is such a deep satisfying fantasy. Itās up there with living in a cottagecore farm, or buying all your friends houses when you win the lottery. But you have to make peace with the fact that this is also a fantasy. It is unfair to expect people to ājust knowā when to respect your boundaries or to push them.
Being cared for is not a fantasy. But you have to let people know you need it. And you have to understand that sometimes they will let you down. Just like you totally could live in a cute farm, but you still have to shovel shit, and the crops sometimes die anyway. Or maybe you win the lottery, but you still have to manage your money and learn real estate law.
The fantasy isnāt the caring, the fantasy is not having to do the work. And it sucks. Itās embarrassing. But like the meme says, itās not rotten if itās YOU. So do it for yourself.
āThe fantasy isnāt the caring, the fantasy is not having to do the workā! Thank you for that addition. Because itās not a naive expectation to want someone to care to treat you right. But it requires communication and mutual effort to actually get there
Oh yes. This is spot on.
How often do we find ourselves wishing that other people would just āknowā what we want, without us needing to tell them.
And yes, itās true. Not only is this just not how the world works, but itās also us not wanting to make the effort to communicate our needs.
watched a clip on instagram of a german comic claiming the us has no culture. I translated it for my parents and said I thought it was rude. my mom said "no, she's right." I said "of course the us has a culture." she said "just racism and misogyny."
it's not correct and it isn't edgy or funny either. I'm annoyed at people from other countries saying this shit, but at least they have the excuse of ignorance. I can't stand these boomerlibs and blue-haired fake pronoun college kids acting like they're too cool and enlightened to acknowledge their own culture. it makes them sound like entitled snot nosed morons who think whatever facebook or tiktok tells them to think.
my parents live in the south, I live on the west coast, I'm visiting them. we spent the day visiting a city in a nearby state because I haven't been here before. we looked at the historic buildings and squares and commented on the unique styles of local architecture compared to the west coast. we ate at a fusion restaurant. we read plaques about the history of the riverboats and about the famous people who have lived here going back 300 years. we passed bars playing blues music. we talked about the last time we had bananas foster and pointed out how many sweets shops advertised pralines. how are you going to say the us has no culture? literally what the fuck are you talking about?
it's also racist as fuck. A., when you say "the us has no culture," you're actively erasing the cultures of regional and ethnic groups. you're telling me cajun culture in louisiana, the culture of italian americans in new york, native american culture in montana, surfer culture in southern california, lutheran church culture in the midwest etc just don't exist and everyone here is exactly the same? B., what you really mean is "white americans have no culture," which is not only untrue, it is fundamentally both racist against white people and simultaneously white supremacist, because you're saying that your own culture is so much the default it doesn't even count as culture and every "real" culture is only a culture because it's an aberration from that which you know. use your goddamn brain for thirty fucking seconds. no other group is stupid and self-absorbed enough to say that about themselves because they can see it perfectly clearly. you think you sound progressive but you actually sound like your entire head is so far up your own ass you can't see three feet in front of you.
there is nothing cool about hating your country. it doesn't make you sound more intelligent or more enlightened. you're just as bad as the people who think that the us is infallible. if you hate the country then leave. you have no right to sit there are say that your opinion should have any weight whatsoever if you hate your country. I love my country. I can acknowledge its flaws and the areas in which it could improve, because I want my country to be the best that it can be, that is a part of loving something. but if you go to another country you will quickly learn that the us DOES have a culture by the very fact that you'll have to get used to a different one.
my mom said if she ever goes to another country she'd deny that she's american. they say this like this makes them better than other americans, and like people in other countries wouldn't be able to immediately tell. the reality is they would go to another country and find that people move at a faster or slower pace, have different customs about ordering in restaurants, different mannerisms when it comes to interacting with strangers, different things that are considered rude or polite. my dad likes to cross streets when the lights are red, that isn't that unusual here, but go do that in germany and see what the locals say. my mom smiles and says hello to strangers when they pass on the street, that is also normal here (at least outside of big cities, where it is less common) and you will be seen as rude if you don't reciprocate, try doing that in france and seeing how people react. going to a restaurant and immediately being served ice water. leaving a tip. going on road trips and travelling everywhere by car, expecting everyone to have a car, and the cars that you have being large. seeing national flags everywhere and displays of patriotism being seen as commonplace and generally positive. speaking only english and with an american accent. you think that saying your country has no culture makes you sound worldly, but it's actually completely the opposite.
I also can't stand when europeans say this shit because they will turn around and with the same breath say that white americans have no claim to feel connected to their european ancestry (the relative obsession with ancestry being itself a part of american culture, by the way). there is literally no winning for white americans. if you're curious about other cultures or say you understand a little about them, you're told you're an ignorant american who doesn't know anything. if you don't show interest in other cultures or say that you don't know about them, you're told you're an ignorant american who's a product of american cultural imperialism. if you're proud to be american you're a dangerous redneck (derogatory) nationalist. if you're proud of your ancestry you're a fool who doesn't understand that you're just an american and not a european (which is so patronizing and incorrect because actually most of the people saying shit like "proud irish american" do in fact understand perfectly well that they are not irish-irish and so on, but eurotards on their high horses will literally tell you to your face what they assume you think and not believe you when you say you know that). and then these same people who so condescendingly give you no way to not lose will turn around and make the wildest unnuanced assumptions about the us and you're not even allowed to correct them or stand up for your own culture. you're just supposed to take it.
stop this bullshit. stop taking it. stop tolerating it. right wing, left wing, whatever, just stop allowing this to go unchallenged and stop saying it about yourself. the people you are trying to impress will always hate you. you will never be "one of the good ones." you are not helping anyone. stop throwing yourself and your own people under the bus. you're allowed to criticize and dislike the government or facets of your culture but you are an idiot if you hate your country and deny your people and your culture. just fucking stop it. it makes me sick.
Sick list of symptoms bro. Now try humanizing your behavior instead of pathologizing it.
Pathologizing: Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive.
Humanizing: Hey, Iām sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didnāt mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me.
Because I just saw a post bitching about this one, I want to add: this post is saying that you need to take accountability for the way you hurt other people, even if it happens because of a symptom of your disability/illness. It's also saying that using terms (especially acronyms) that aren't common knowledge isn't a helpful way to explain yourself. It is NOT saying that you need to let people walk all over you because "your disability isn't an excuse."
If you're diabetic, you don't have to eat the honey glazed ham that will send you into a coma (their example). But you also can't yell at the person offering it and accuse them of trying to kill you. You can just say "thanks, but my body can't handle that kind of sugar intake, so I'll pass"
If you run over someone's foot with your wheelchair you still apologise

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Hate the way the word racist has lost all of its weight in the last decade because I would really like some of y'all to take it completely seriously when I say you have lost your damn minds and become really nasty and hateful and for your own good you need to log off to go touch some grass and reconnect with the decency you once had
Bringing this back because seriously some of you guys have gotten way too comfortable saying the most out of pocket shit. I get that you don't want to play the lefty censorship game but there's a lot of room to call it like it is without resorting to outright racism or misogyny. You're right, the hypersensitivity on the left is ridiculous but that doesn't mean you need to run as far in the opposite direction as possible to prove it. Until a couple years ago, you were perfectly capable of finding a happy medium there. Please find it again because I don't really want to be around some of you these days.
we've got a life to love living.
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Okay okay we all know Johnny cash did his cover of Hurt and we were all like āok he owns that nowā but I watched the music video he made and Iām like āoh he OWNS it owns itā
Itās totally wild to me because most people agree that Trent Reznor is a master of his craft and Hurt is considered one of NINās best songs. Imagine having this great hit and 8 years later a musical legend who hasnāt done anything great in a long time and is ostensibly dying takes your song and fucking. Just fucking obliterates you
Taken from the Wikipedia page. Even Trent Reznor said it's not his song anymore.
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in my notifications again. good for the soul to watch.
Also. Why are we suddenly taking cancel culture to trauma research?
Normalize saying āI donāt know enough to have an opinion.ā

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THINKING ABOUT HIM AGAIN
If you can't picture your Batman comforting a frightened child, you have not written Batman; you have written the Punisher in a funny hat.
i saw this post earlier about therapists and it reminded me of my old therapist paul, who in my opinion is one of the greatest men alive and who did not put up with my bullshit for even one second
anyway i go in to see paul one week in the summer of 2016, and iām doing my usual bullshit which consists of me talking shit about myself, and paul is staring at me, and then he cuts me off and says that heās got a new tool for helping people recognize when theyāre using negative language, and gets up and goes over to his desk
and iām like alright hit me with that sweet sweet self-help article my man, because iām a linguistic learner and whenever paulās like here i have a tool for you to use itās pretty much always an article or a book or something
paul opens a drawer, takes something out, and turns back around.Ā i stare.
i say, paul.
is that a nerf gun.
yeah, says paul.
i say, are you gonna shoot me with a nerf gun in this professional setting.
he happily informs me that thatās really up to me, isnāt it. and sits back down. and gestures, like, go ahead, what were you saying?
and i squint suspiciously and start back up about how iām having too much anxiety to leave the house to run errands, like it was a miracle to even get here, like iāve forgone getting groceries for the past week and thatās so stupid, what a stupid issue, iām an idiot, how could iā
a foam dart hits me in the leg.
i go, hey! because my therapist just shot me in the leg. paul blinks at me placidly and raises an eyebrow. i squint again.
i say, slowly, itāsā not a stupid issue, iām not stupid, but itās frustrating me and i donāt want it to be a problem iām having.
no dart this time. okay. sweet.
so the rest of the hour passes with me intermittently getting nailed with tiny foam darts and then swearing and then fixing my language and, wouldnāt you know it, i start liking myself a little more by the end of the session, which is mildly infuriating because paul can tell and heās very smug about itĀ
anyway i leave his office and the lady having the next appointment walks in and i hear whatās all over the floor? and paul very seriously says cognitive behavioral therapy tools.
unironically this is how therapy is supposed to go. if you donāt like your therapist get a new one!!! thereās all sorts!
Mine, in addition to being the reason my idiolect has the word āhomieā in it, clocked my shit immediately and insisted on discussing emotions instead of logic and not being too formal about it. We also talk about star wars and sometimes itās bigger picture themes and sometimes itās just āholy shit star wars is cool!ā Also last appt i mentioned i was going shoe shopping and he was like ājust warning you this is one of those topics i might be neurodivergent aboutā and i was like āalright betā so i got to hear a brief infodump which was epic. I mean, Iāve had three therapists and this one is simultaneously the most informal yet leaps and bounds the most effective for me. I donāt even go to him for autism treatment but I have a sneaking suspicion heās coaching me on how to deal with social situations anyway. And I donāt even care if im being tricked into practicing socialising because guess who used to have a laundry list of ptsd triggers and now only has a normal amount?
I mean if you think about it from a broader perspective, everyone is different and mental healthcare cannot be one size fits all. On a smaller scale, admitting to embarrassing thoughts is a lot easier with someone you can trust and if whimsy helps you build trust that works!
Fun fact, California is one of relatively few states in the Union that allows first-cousin marriage. New York is another. Largely, in both cases, because of the Orthodox Jewish lobbyāOrthodox Jews having historically married not only first cousins, but nieces, the thinking being that keeping your sibling from worrying about their daughter finding a husband was being a good brother.
Nah but those Southern Evangelicals are backward and inbred, right?
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Breaking News: Number of Notes ā Verification!
See, they say ātax the richā but then they tax fuel, and fast food, and gym memberships, and pet grooming, and delivery services, and soda, and the miles you drive in your car, your income, your inheritance.
They donāt raise the threshold of the tax brackets, they donāt cut taxes that eat up a larger portion of low income budgets, they donāt want to cut the fraud.
They just want to make your life more expensive, and then blame it on the rich, and then tell you the tax hikes are going to affect rich people (they wonāt).
Fucking gym memberships??? Where???
Virginia Democrats have introduced more than 50 new tax proposals this legislative session.Despite campaigning on making life more affordabl
Stark list of industries that donāt have a strong lobby/forgot to pay their political bribes.
Democrats hate the working class.
Democrats are basically villains with good PR. The real life version of the twist villain who everyone in the movie thinks is great but is later revealed to be the source of the entire problem.
For "tax the rich" specifically, the government puts out high-bracket taxes, and then just keeps most of that money, giving back crumbs.
And the business taxes? Consider that protection money. New and small businesses need to put more of their profit to work in order to grow and get a foothold to survive, while bigger more established businesses have better economies of scale and large consumer bases. (And that's just getting started with all the ways the government protects already-made-it's against up-and-comers in the business world.)