its not funny but i do think about it a lot
This made me think about this panel from Calvin and Hobbes:
But unlike the adult in this strip, Calvin’s dad actually APOLOGIZED for yelling at him when he saw how guilty his kid was:
Example #1726473 why I will never stop telling people how important Calvin and Hobbes was to me growing up. Kids need this shit, they need to be shown that it’s normal to make mistakes sometimes and that adults should be able to recognize and apologize when they treat their kids unfairly in response.
This is actually really well handled. 👍👍👍👍
Parenthood makes one have to plan how these situations will be dealt with. We've never had cause to regret taking the path of
'We'll be much less cross if you tell us about it, than if we have to find out about it.'
It requires a lot of self discipline. Child admits to something, so you make the effort to react calmly, and focus on guiding them to put things right.
'Yes, it was was wrong to do it, but you did right by telling us. Now we can help you to learn from it.'
And I feel for Calvin's Dad here. We're just human, we don't always handle it right. There are times when we mess up and get more cross than necessary.
It's as important for a child to hear that we're sorry for that, as it is for them to be sorry for what they did.
Being the responsible adult can sometimes mean showing by example how to handle having done the wrong thing.


















