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Anti-city people are just plain fascinating to me

I'm all for walkable cities / public transport / using a personal cart, but some of the comments are silly. This is what 8 bags of groceries looks like...

Bullshit you're walking that home or stuffing it in a backpack.

rannulfr

@aimofdestiny

Bag to average backpack comparison...

You're getting 1 maybe 2 full bags in there.

Also I don't think anything is 5 minutes from anything else on this entire damn continent, lol.

rannulfr

Oh, no, What I was calling silly was the idea that one could get 8 (of those) bags worth of groceries into a single backpack. Or walk home with 8 of our flimsy bags and expect to get everything home intact. It can be a challenge to get them out the door intact. I wasn't really pointing it specifically at people in the EU and I didn't mean it in a contested way.

Of course adding better bags or a shorter distance makes it possible.

#I have a 60l weekender style rolltop backpack. if I'm just shopping for myself that fits all my groceries for the week #if I gotta feed my partner over the weekend I'll add the tote bag and still have one hand free #also. if I'm shopping for two people the other person can carry a few things as well #and before you say the backpack must be expensive... it was 40 euros a couple years ago #which illustrates the point doesn't it #if you live in a walkable city with mixed-use zoning it is extremely possible to not have a car and live well

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Anti-city people are just plain fascinating to me

rannulfr

I'm all for walkable cities / public transport / using a personal cart, but some of the comments are silly. This is what 8 bags of groceries looks like...

Bullshit you're walking that home or stuffing it in a backpack.

rannulfr

@aimofdestiny

Bag to average backpack comparison...

You're getting 1 maybe 2 full bags in there.

Also I don't think anything is 5 minutes from anything else on this entire damn continent, lol.

#I'll take a picture of today's grocery run for you later how's that #nobody is saying doing groceries by car is silly when it's a half hour drive. but I can in fact get to 3 stores on foot in 10 minutes max #so calling my weekly routine with the backpack and the shopper bag silly is a bit... odd

luckykittycolor

#greebo behaviour

queer-as-city-folk

Anti-city people are just plain fascinating to me

rannulfr

I'm all for walkable cities / public transport / using a personal cart, but some of the comments are silly. This is what 8 bags of groceries looks like...

Bullshit you're walking that home or stuffing it in a backpack.

#...I am absolutely walking that home with a backpack and a big shopper type bag over one shoulder #it's a 5 minute walk. also we don't do those flimsy plastic bags in the EU #I bet some people walk their groceries from the store to their parked car and make the same distance #do you not have good backpacks in the states?

wordfather

idk if this is an usamerican thing or not but it always blows my mind as a small european country resident that yall have many names and types of apples???? what do you mean its not just red yellow or green??? why is it so complicated??? who is granny smith????

wordfather

'whats your favorite apple' 'red' 'no i mean like what type' '??????' actual conversatiom i've had with a mutual from usa

wordfather

THIRTY TWO??????

phillyphillyphilly

Listen that doesn’t even account for all the weird shit local farmers are getting up to.

May I present the best apple:

wordfather

the world is so big and beautiful

#my local supermarkets carry a couple of different types of apple despite being in a European country #not a small one admittedly #I've seen boskop; granny smith; jonagold; golden delicious; pink lady; elstar; gala; honey crisp; ambrosia; red jonaprince #and that's just the ones I remember #you do have to turn the package over to find the type most of the time #but still. they are different apples! they taste very different!#nobody with taste buds will confuse a boskop with a gala

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queer-as-city-folk

Anti-city people are just plain fascinating to me

#there are three regular supermarkets and a couple of specialty grocery stores within walking distance of my flat #once a week I pick one and fil my backpack and one bag with a week's worth of groceries #Even if i pick the furthest one that's done in under an hour #like. how is that worse than whatever the guy in these screenshots is doing

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rabbitindisguise

Me, before I saw this: old timey dancing in cartoons has to be over-exaggerated for effect

Me, now: old timey dancing in cartoons had to be toned down to promote a sense of realism because they were too good at it

#rock'n'roll is just like that #still I mean. you can join a group that teaches you to dance like that today if you want

babyanimalgifs

Little fish eats his foods

(Source)

bunigojade

aflo

this is so sad he doesn’t even know there’s a double barreled shotgun pointed at him

identifying-fish-in-posts

Pacific spiny lumpsucker (Eumicrotremus orbis)

#very beautiful. very powerful

draconym

i would rather see the information for an event handwritten in sharpie on a paper towel than see another AI generated flyer

aj-living-life

Saving this post to show my boss who I told the AI flier makes us look lazy and ignorant, and offered to hand draw one. She still printed tons of ai fliers and I'm tempted to make a better one just because it annoys me so much.

aj-living-life

Fun update: event was canceled because literally nobody rsvp'd to the AI flier.

#remember that willy wonka event with the exhausted oompa loompa girl? THAT'S the quality of event I expect from an AI flyer #so: no budget and almost no staff; shitty event not even worth going to to laugh at

doyoulikethissong-poll

Do you like this song? #824

Yes I like it, I already know it

Yes I like it, first time listening

No I don't like it, I already know it

No I don't like it, first time listening

Remaining time: 5 days 1 hour

✨ Please reblog the polls to make them reach out to as many people as possible, but KEEP IT SPOILER-FREE to make people listen to the music with an open mind 💖

✨ Artists and titles will be revealed with the full song after the poll's conclusion, check the original post for an update!

⚠️➡️ Yes, spoilers includes posting the lyrics. Please don't spoil. There are other ways to have fun with the post if you reblog it, maybe be sneaky/witty about it with obscure references. Have fun while following the rules! 😄💖 Fandom blogs/communities are welcome to reblog, but please keep that as far as it goes with spoilers!

#it's the Trope Namer! a true classic

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odyver

alright I've got to do some quick math to explain attitudes towards AI to my boss.

we're looking to create an AI policy, and when we were talking about this, my boss (older millennial) was genuinely shocked to hear that younger people do not (seem) to view AI positively (a la the recent commencement speakers being booed)

please rb for larger sample size!

Question 1/3

What is your age, and do you feel AI is a net positive or net negative in our lives today?

under 18, AI is a net positive

under 18, AI is a net negative

18-29, AI is a net positive

18-29, AI is a net negative

30-45, AI is a net positive

30-45, AI is a net negative

46-60, AI is a net positive

46-60, AI is a net negative

over 60, AI is a net postive

over 60, AI is a net negative

Remaining time: 4 days 8 hours

odyver

Question 2/3

How often do you visit or interact with museums/archives (whether in person or online)?

Frequently (multiple times per month)

Often (multiple times per year)

Occasionally (a couple times per year)

Rarely (once every couple of years)

Never :(

Remaining time: 4 days 8 hours

odyver

Question 3/3

If you saw a museum was using AI in exhibits, marketing, research, etc., would you be more or less inclined to visit that museum?

under 18, more inclined

under 18, less inclined

18-29, more inclined

18-29, less inclined

30-45, more inclined

30-45, less inclined

46-60, more inclined

46-60, less inclined

over 60, more inclined

over 60, less inclined

Remaining time: 4 days 8 hours

Thank you for helping with this data collection. Please rb for as big a sample as possible!

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#the problem with AI in research is that it hallucinates. so you fundamentally can't get reliable data out of it #AI marketing tells me the consumer that you couldn't be arsed to get a graphic designer and you have no budget #and I don't know what kind of organisation op works for so I don't have a useful opinion about AI for exhibits #but like. if it's graphics see AI marketing and if it's text see AI research #there are legitimate uses for AI as analytical tools but genAI is not fit for purpose the vast majority of the time

apolladay

When you listen to a song for the first time, what do you focus on first?

The lyrics

The melody

The beat

Something else/I listen to music with my brain turned off/See results

When you listen to a song for the first time, what do you focus on first?

The lyrics

The melody

The beat

Something else/I listen to music with my brain turned off/See results

Remaining time: 4 days 12 hours

#melody. but also the lyrics at the same time so a stupid line will distract me from the melody #and then the beat. unless the beat IS the song #like the bird machine by DJ snake. the melody is Not the star in that one

rocketsaurus

Curious what is actually normal for bed time. Go for your normal/average time, not your most extreme or what you wish it was.

what time do you go to bed? (local time)

7pm or before

8pm

9pm

10pm

11pm

12am

1am

2am or after

it's never consistent

some other time entirely

Remaining time: 3 days 34 minutes

I just don't know what grownups do for bedtime and I want to know!!!

#if you're trying to build a routine for yourself you gotta figure out when you have to get up the next morning #then figure out how much sleep you need to be WELL RESTED not just basically functional with enough coffee #and THEN add on the time you need between going to bed and actually falling asleep #personally i have a timer on my phone that tells me to Go The Fuck To Sleep on work nights because i have What Is Time Disease aka ADHD #sleep deprivation is no joke #the baseline treatment for mood disorders is a regular sleep schedule

systlin

In 38 years of life I have learned 1 thing;

If anyone is ever training you to replace them in a position and tells you 'its an easy job I don't do much' what this means is that you are about to spend six months to a year catching up on all the stuff they didn't do and sorting out the stuff they did poorly.

In related news I finally managed to finish un fucking my predecessor's lack of a filing system.

#and god help you if you care about things being Done Properly rather than just Done

organicmatter

guys i just found out about this site that does a daily guessing game, it’s phylogenetic wordle- so fun!!!

#did this in 5 guesses today #🐡 Animal 1038 🐨I figured it out in 5 guesses!🟥🟧🟧🟨🟩🔥 1 | Avg. Guesses: 5 https://metazooa.commetazooa #it's a curated list of species so you can't guess Every Animal which is helpful for making it doable

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luwha

Am I a normal artist

Normal

Unhinged

I am ambivalent to what this question means

Voting ended onJun 5

#normal for artist values of normal

batmanisagatewaydrug

hi sexwitch, i'm sorry if this isn't your wheelhouse but i'm struggling with a vaginal situation. i recently went to have a copper coil put in but they basically couldn't because they couldn't get the speculum opened up me because it hurt my vagina and cervix way too much. they basically shoved things up me without lube and only some anaesthetic gel that did nothing to soothe the pain. i talked to a friend who also has a coil and she's pretty insistent that none of the procedure is supposed to hurt at all and it's left me feeling really confused. was it bad care? is there something wrong with me physically that made it worse?? i know you obviously can't diagnose me or my vagina but i feel like i can't get any good information on what's supposed to be "normal" during a procedure like this. i've never had penetrative sex or penetrative masturbation and i know part of it is just not using the muscles but neither has my friend with the coil so I'm just really lost. is there any kind of condition that might make getting it put in that painful?

hi anon,

I'm glad your friend has a painless experience, but it's extremely common for IUD insertion to be very painful, especially if that's someone's first ever experience with vaginal penetration.

that doesn't mean that you care team didn't do anything wrong; it's definitely possible to make a rough procedure worse if the people involved don't act with care. I can't weigh in on whether or not that's the case here, as I don't have enough information about the situation. I can tell you that there's probably not anything uniquely "wrong" with your body for feeling pain during a procedure that many people find painful, though.

darkersolstice

Nuh-uh, let's not go ignoring that there is actually a condition that does just what the asker is asking about: vaginismus. It's more common than people tend to realize, and there are treatments for it.

Like, is it possible that this was just poor practice on behalf of the doctors? Sure. Or first time issues? Sure. But don't fail to answer the question about conditions that can cause this problem. We don't talk enough about vaginal health, and people can go for years or decades in shame because they don't know there are words that exist for things like vaginismus or lichen sclerosus/planus or other things that actually happen down there.

#also getting an iud inserted without a nerve block is cucoo-bananapants imo #in the united states i'm told they still do that but jesus christ why would you

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