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First off, there is a difference in understanding where a person is coming from (the og video and how she explains aang’s point) and saying what a person did was right. 

Secondly, this context of the scene is that aang is leading them through the tornados and stuff along with tagah. During the storm, aang realizes that they have to go back but tagah convinces him to keep moving on and to “trust in [his] friends”

But after quite literally almost dying, katara decides to talk to aang, asking him what he was thinking (rightfully so). Tagah then once again interferes, telling them that they need to keep going. 

Here is where the heat of the moment comes into play.

Aang gives an excuse that is true, BUT not really his main motive, and says that the Denied are after it. (bringing their responsibility into this.)

Katara reasons sense with him and then the core reason of it all is revealed  

This is the true point of the entire movie: Aang’s grief and loneliness and how he desperately yearns for community, for his tribe, people who can understand him, people who he lost and feels that he failed.

And then Katara tries to reason by saying she “understands how much [he] wants that” and then we get the infamous line where aang says

“You don’t understand. None of you understand,”

This is a perfect example of a very commonly used trope in media where a person saying something hurtful or what they didn't really mean in the heat of an argument.

Sometimes what is said is said to “win” an argument:

But sometimes what is said is objectively true, despite how hurtful it is:

In this scenario, aang’s words are objectively true. BUT that doesnt mean what he said was fair or kind.

This is a parallel to the Southern Raiders episode where Katara, in the heat of the moment, and in her grief/anger/frustration tells Sokka this:

This moment too falls under this trope and would also be objectively true, because yeah, Katara was closer to her mother.

But notice this, in both the movie and this ep, neither the narrative nor the characters say that what aang/katara said was right instead they paint it was something ill-spoken and uncalled for as we can see the reactions:

Both aang and Katara immediately regrets their words bc they both knows they took it too far

While yes objectively, what both they said is true to an extent (katara being closer to their mom // no one fully understanding aang) what they said is painted as uncalled for and rude by the narrative/writing.

This is a common trope used in multiple forms of media to create tension between characters. Typically it happens in the third arc, but thats not always the case as we can see in the movie/ep.

So yes, if you were watching both scenes and went "wtf aang/katara" when they said their statements, then the writers did their job because youre meant to be saying "wtf". you're meant to question them at this moment because this a moment of moral grayness. (also pay attention the the background when aang says this?? that sickly green color?? its meant to make you feel uncomfortable. its meant to show the moral grayness at play)

no one, not even this video, is defending what aang said. the video is only giving a reasoning, an explanation, a deep dive into aang's thoughts and why he said what he said. similarly, no one is defending what katara said. but we do understand why she said it.

(a) her parents incentivized her to be quiet

(b) she grew up with a scheming sneaky politician father and sees the way he uses people

(c) she grew up watching Azula take any information about someone and find a way to use it against them

And so you actually realize that she’s not apathetic but is severely repressed as a form of self-preservation

THEN once she finally has a relationship where she’s not being used, she learns that this survival method of repression is negatively affecting the one relationship that she’s chosen for herself…

All of this culminates in her being willing to shed this long held means of survival to in order save Zuko all while knowing she’s opening herself up to destruction…

This panel represents so much to me. This precise and edgy baddie here nearly had an escalating one-on-one against THE Fire Nation princess and firebending prodigy Azula. Skilled enough as a non-bender to team up with her to hunt THE Avatar and his Gang and be a real pain in their butt.

But when it comes to these brats she needs a moment to motivate herself 😂 I feel her so much. Sometimes you are very good in a specific field and then you get out of this bubble and try something new. Something totally different. It feels so uncomfortable that you literally question yourself in the most fundamental way. But hey, Mai is ready to leave her comfort zone and try her best for the sake of a better future, knowing the system failed her and all the other girls she spent her childhood with. Fighting isn’t what is expected from her anymore. Instead, she’s asked to guide, teach and support these girls. So how about leaving the blades at home and dedicating yourself to different aspects of life?

Trying to grow into a role you never thought you could fill. Sometimes discovering who you are means trying things that don’t immediately fit your old identity. That can feel awkward or even embarrassing. But it doesn’t mean you’ve become someone else. It means you’re learning that you’re capable of more than you thought you could do or be. I read here and there that it’s OOC, but tbh a post-war young adult will always be very different from their teenager version. Especially when they didn’t even like the situation they were in due to political or cultural norms. Breaking out of a repressed state isn’t OOC. It’s maybe unusual since the character discovers herself, does stuff that doesn’t align with her old self, but that’s okay. She already chose her own convictions over blind loyalty, even when it meant standing against Azula. That alone shows she was always capable of change. Ashes simply explores another side of her character. It would actually feel less believable if she stayed exactly the same forever after the war ended.

Mai is getting more depth and being fleshed out in a way we never knew her before and I love it. 😊

The Blue Spirit destined with A Kyoshi Warrior

(Maiko AU)

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“Korra is a Mary Sue.”

This is probably the weakest criticism to me. A Mary Sue is a character who’s unrealistically perfect so rarely fails and faces no meaningful consequences to their actions.

Korra is impulsive, stubborn, hot headed, spiritually disconnected, and often lets her emotions cloud her judgment. She loses her bending, loses her connection to the past Avatars, gets poisoned, develops PTSD, and spends years recovering from her trauma. She loses more major fights than almost any Avatar we’ve seen due to the strength of her villains.

Calling her a Mary Sue is not only inaccurate, it’s also reductive. It’s a label that’s disproportionately thrown at capable female protagonists, while equally gifted male characters are simply called “talented.”

“She dated her whole friend group.”

Did she?

She dated Mako as a teenager. Years later, after she and Mako had long broken up and remained friends, she began a relationship with Asami.

That’s two relationships.

Her going on one date with Bolin, a guy she was shown she didn’t like in that way, is not a relationship.

Meanwhile Sokka dates Suki, Yue, openly flirts with multiple girls throughout the series, and nobody claims he “dated the whole group.” Funny how that criticism only seems to stick to Korra. And people go as far as to label Sokka a “back bender”.

“She uses the Avatar State too much.”

People ignore context.

Korra’s villains aren’t random Fire Nation soldiers. They’re Amon, Unalaq, Zaheer, and Kuvira…arguably some of the strongest opponents in the franchise. Of course she uses the Avatar State. That’s literally what it’s for.

And the infamous race against Tenzin’s kids? It was an obvious joke. People act like she was using godlike power to win an Olympic event when it was a playful family moment. You can also see it as Aang pushing through for a moment with his grandkids.

“She’s immature.”

Yes.

She’s 17.

So are Toph, Sokka and Aang. Kids being immature isn’t bad writing…it’s called being young.

On top of that, Korra was raised in isolation in a secure compound, surrounded almost exclusively by adults and teachers. She never had a normal childhood or friends her own age. It would actually be unrealistic if she weren’t socially awkward and emotionally immature at the start.

The entire point of her story is watching her grow beyond that but I think that’s asking too much media analysis for these people.

“She loses too much.”

Isn’t that the exact opposite of being a Mary Sue?

You can’t argue she’s an overpowered and flawless character while also criticizing her for losing.

Her enemies are also far stronger and more complex than those Aang faced. Every season pits her against a villain who challenges what it means to be the Avatar in a changing world. The fights are supposed to be difficult.

“Aang is stronger.”

This debate is mostly subjective.

Aang and Korra were written for different stories.

Aang’s greatest strength was his spirituality, wisdom and ability to avoid conflict.

Korra’s greatest strength is her raw physical power, resilience and determination.

If we’re talking pure combat, Korra has a very strong case for being the stronger fighter. If we’re talking spirituality, Aang clearly has the edge.

Neither answer is objectively correct because they excel in different areas.

“She lost the past lives.”

This is another criticism that gets directed at Korra for something that wasn’t actually her choice.

The past lives weren’t lost because Korra was careless or incompetent. They were destroyed by Unalaq and Vaatu during Harmonic Convergence while Raava was literally ripped out of her. Korra fought to stop it and even managed to restore Raava, but the connection to the previous Avatars was already gone.

That’s a tragedy of the story, not a personal failure. Blaming Korra for it is like blaming Aang for the Air Nomad genocide. Sometimes terrible things happen to the Avatar that are beyond their control.

“Team Avatar was weaker.”

This criticism ignores the difference in what each series was trying to do.

Aang’s Team Avatar was made up of once in a generation prodigies. Toph invented metalbending. Katara became one of the greatest waterbenders alive. Zuko was a firebending master trained by dragons and her sister was a lighting bending prodigy. Sokka was a military strategist who was seen as outsmarting entire armies. (Idk how realistic that is but it is a kids show).

Korra’s team isn’t built around being legendary prodigies. Mako is a skilled lighting bender, Bolin grows into an accomplished lavabender, and Asami is a non bender whose strengths are engineering and intelligence. They’re capable, but they’re intentionally more realistic.

That also puts more emphasis on Korra herself. Unlike Aang, who often had teammates capable of matching elite opponents on their own, Korra frequently has to shoulder the burden of fighting the biggest threats herself. This puts more emphasis on the strength of the avatar. Her villains are also so dangerous that even her team can’t realistically take them on without her.

Rather than making Korra look weaker, it actually highlights how much responsibility falls on her as the Avatar also. Her team supports her, but they aren’t written to solve the conflict for her the way Aang’s exceptionally gifted companions often could.

“She is humanity’s destroyer”.

One thing people often forget is that every Avatar inherits the consequences of the previous one’s decisions.

Aang spent years cleaning up the aftermath of the Hundred Year War. Korra inherited a rapidly industrialising world where the role of the Avatar itself was being questioned. Every generation faces problems created by the last.

Now, with Seven Havens, we’re already seeing the cycle continue. Before the series has even begun, people are blaming Korra for the state of the world as if the entire point of Avatar isn’t that history is messy and every Avatar leaves behind both achievements and unresolved problems.

Avatar has never been a story where one Avatar “fixes everything.” It’s a story about an endless cycle of responsibility. Roku’s failures became Aang’s burden. Aang’s decisions became Korra’s challenges. Korra’s era will shape the next Avatar’s world.

If people only remember an Avatar for the mistakes they couldn’t prevent, then every Avatar has failed. But that’s never been what these stories are about. They’re about imperfect people doing the best they can in impossible circumstances, knowing the next Avatar will have to continue the work.

At the end of the day preferences exist and you don’t have to like Korra.

But calling her a Mary Sue, pretending she dated everyone she knew, ignoring the context of the Avatar State, criticizing her for acting like the teenager she literally is, and then complaining that she loses too much while also claiming she’s overpowered just isn’t consistent criticism.

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