trans people do not have to tell a cis person their agab if they do not want to. they do not have to tell a cis person if they are transgender or not. trans people can live comfortably presenting as a cis person if they desire to, and there should never be some “big coming out talk” to all of their cis friends just bc their cis friends feel obligated to know about said trans person’s genitals. unless you’re looking to date, fuck, or become a doctor to that person, it’s none of your buisness. this does not mean a trans person has “lied to you” about their gender. this does not make them a “trap” or any other word related to that one. trans people are allowed to hide their identities if they choose to do so and we, as cis people, should respect that.






























