The Showtime System

You’re essentially navigating multiple relationships at once with identities your brain spilt to protect you. That can become emotionally exhausting and harmful to both systems if you and your partner system are emotionally dependent on each other.

What is a partner system?

After a doctor's visit, she (my mother) knew for the longest time that I met the criteria for clinical depression and denied it and told me to suck it the fuck up and now I'm worse and want to kill myself due to the knowledge that she truly doesn't care after I also brought up medical concerns regarding my lungs and right ankle. What makes you think, in my circumstances, that she's going to get me a diagnosis when I say I may have some form of DID or OSDD. And all the other complications that may come with even trying to get one. What about the fear as well? Hell, some parents won't even support their child having something tamer that a dissociative disorder.

We want a diagnosis

We aren't safe to get one

we want a diagnosis

GETTING ONE OR EVEN ATTEMPTING TO GET ONE COULD PUT US IN ACTUAL PHYSICAL DANGER

You never know. Someone could be in danger from trying to get a diagnosis. Someone might not have the money. Someone might live in an area where there's no option for it.

Don't make assumptions.

i once had someone fakeclaim me because I don't have a diagnosis yet.

Don't be an elitist piece of shit

you never know for sure what their life is like

-Error and Azul

Now imagine that someone who is colourblind because of his genetics but has no diagnose for it (let's imagine there is no scientifical recognition for colourblind people) talks about his experience as a colourblind. He doesn't pretend like he has your headaches or your dizziness, he doesn't claim your diagnosis, he doesn't claim to be disabled, he just says he sees colours differently. Maybe not the way you do, but pretty close to it comparing to other people. He doesn't come straight to you and take your medicine, he doesn't invade your space, he doesn't say you're not valid. He just exists as a colourblind.

Would you start a bullying campaign against him and all the other colorblinds ? Real question. Would you consider feeling like he's stealing your disorder and say he's faking, he can perfectly see colours, he's doing it for attention, he doesn't exist, ...

I think posts like this are really fucking stupid and annoying. Like bro. Come the fuck on. If your goal is to say "you are valid no matter what" you kinda fail at that by then explicitly saying "actually i dont think you're valid if you're this thing tho fuck you"

"You're valid unless I decide you aren't"

We saw this post earlier and reblogged it only to delete the reblogs once we saw the tags... we made a post about it too

......this is amazing...

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Omg this is amazing!

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Tagged by the lovely @purplesigebert

...I strangely feel both called out and seen.

The Quiz

...I can kind of see this.

I uh.. I don’t know how to feel about this…

*....glances at all the bad end aus i've created over the years*

Are we sure about that...? I think mine is busted, guys

Me too 😔

My result: honored enough 🥴😅

Bonus: "I just do some tries and experiences."

Tagging:

Well screw you too

...yeah that checks out

EXCUSE ME??? MY LIFE ISNT EVEN THAT BAD AND LIKE WHAT IM SO FUCKING CONFUSED WHAT??? DID MY VARIAN RPING AND VAUNG MANUFEST INTO GETTING TS TOO??? I WANT TO BE COMFORTED GUYS WHAT ON EARTH

I didnt get tagged but this was too funny not to share

...yeah okay. i guess. that's probably right maybe. < has ten million AUs where the whole point is to put J through the worst situations possible solely so i can have her be comforted and loved through it

(i think this is inaccurate..?)

I win i got fluff

Uhhhh go tags:

I'd say this is pretty accurate-

Idk what dead dove is but sure :3

Taggies :3

...huh...

giggles

-Ink

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