Hues, Surrendered

free use? *smirks snartly* so naive. you know nothing in this damned society is really free...

wilbur soot is attempting to claw his way back to relevancy for the umpteenth time so i figured nows a good time as any to remind yall that he admitted to abusing shelby under zero pressure. when shelby was talking about her abuser she named zero names, gave no identifying information... and wilbur admitted to it. with a shitty self-centered "im sorry you felt that way non apology". and he can try to brush it off all he wants but he did that shit and he doesn't get to have a platform when he has shown zero signs of meaningfully addressing his behavior and changing. fuck him and fuck all the misogynist clowns who still stand by him. it's not 2020 anymore. grow up.

Working at a sex shop has ruined me because I was checking out a booth at a public market selling bone-shaped collar tags that said shit like “I’m lost” and “pet me” and “spoiled” and it wasn’t until I saw “I pee when I’m excited” and thought damn okay kind of hardcore that it even occurred to me that they could be for like. ACTUAL dog collars 😭😭😭

Wednesday the 15th. What an excellent day. Middle of the week, middle of the month. Truly, we are in the middle of things.

often you will see things online where you just have to be like "what a strange thing to say" or "i don't think that's true :)" to yourself and try to move on or you will lose your mind

“don’t be silly” no i think i will be, thanks

i have a secret third opinion about self dx discourse which is “why are you guys treating the DSM like it’s the fucking bible”

the amount of leftists who uncritically support the DSM-5—wielding it online in battles against random individuals who might be “faking” a disorder—boggles my fucking mind. you guys realize that the DSM-5 isn’t the only diagnostic manual on the planet, right? you realize that we place it at the top of the global hierarchy because it’s american, right? has it occurred to you that the APA shouldn’t have so much authority over what counts as a “real” mental illness? has it occurred to you that perhaps there are other diagnostic manuals? in fact, there are dimensional models that don’t rely on sorting individuals into “disorder/no disorder” boxes in the first place. food for thought, lmao

you have to consciously unlearn racism and continue to watch for it because it will come out without realizing. because so much of society is structured around it. shrugging and going "i dont care" or "i dont know how else to say it" means you are okay with being racist and hurting other people with how much you dont give a shit about them.