Writer’s block doesn’t announce itself. It creeps in quietly — missed writing days, half-finished chapters, constant self-doubt.

Most writers assume they’re stuck because they’ve “run out of ideas.” In reality, writer’s block is often emotional: fear of getting it wrong, fear of finishing, fear of being judged.

This article takes an honest look at why writer’s block happens and how to work through it without burning out or losing your connection to the work. It’s not about hacks or rigid routines — it’s about understanding the creative process as it really is.

I’ve been working on a scene from Still, I Chose Her, and it’s one of those quiet ones that lingers. Lexa is back in her routine, teaching international students, sipping tea in the teachers’ lounge, and sharing gentle conversations with her family.

But something’s shifted. A month ago, she attended LUCERA’s comeback showcase, and a week later, a mall show. Since then, a melody from that day keeps slipping into her thoughts. So does a glance—a moment she can’t quite explain.

Same goes for Camille. She’s seen and interacted with fans before, but this time… something’s different. This fan, Lexa, has somehow taken up space in her heart... I’m dramatic, I know!

Small topic I’ve been reflecting on:

How do we write the emotional residue of a moment that shouldn’t matter, but somehow does?

That strange ache when someone you don’t know lingers in your thoughts longer than they should. When admiration quietly edges into something more personal, more vulnerable.

It’s not a romance yet. It’s just a feeling.

And sometimes, you know, that’s the most fragile part to write.

I have a weekly update on my Substack, X and Bluesky as well, if you would like to follow the story progress! Thank you for reading! next time again... bye bye! 😊

I disagree.

The biggest tragedy is being a writer and living and working with the (mostly unrealistic) hope that someone will romance you as perfectly as you write your characters's romances.