#viabinary

Viawoman/Viagirl | Viaman/Viaboy

Viawoman/Viagirl: relating to having an experience similar to a binary womanhood, while not being 100% a binary woman. Ex: Juxera, Xirl, Paragirl, etc.

Viaman/Viaboy: relating to having an experience similar to a binary manhood, while not being 100% a binary man. Ex: Proxvir, Xoy, Paraboy, etc.

See Viabinary.

I don't know if there are already flags for these identities, but I wanted to make some for myself. The symbolism of the circles is to represent this relationship of proximity to binary genders, while being their own thing.

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The alibinary system - viabinary, mesobinary, ideobinary and exobinary - is meant to be a set of self-applied labels describing one's relationship with the woman/man binary in a more specific way than the word nonbinary does.

These words, therefore, should not be extrapolated to mean:

Relationships to any genders (for instance, viabinary isn't meant to be used to describe being close to maverique or neuangi; there are words such as paragender available for that instead)

Someone's gender identity, presentation or alignment (for instance, someone can be an exobinary juxera or a viabinary agender person)

Any specific subset of nonbinary gender identities (for instance, nonvir isn't inherently an ideobinary identity, because the reasons one may identify as nonvir may differ from person to person and some might identify with exobinary or viabinary rather than ideobinary)

I know about fiagender/miagender/niagender/etc. being based on the word viabinary. That's fine! Because, as I said on another post, those can be separated from the idea of trying to claim these experiences as inherently viabinary.

I also understand the impulse of trying to categorize every label in accurate ways and thus conclude there are certain gender identities that always correspond to any specific label under the alibinary system, but a lot of nonbinary people don't go for the most accurate labels they can. A lot of people use "demigirl" to mean "feminine nonbinary person" or "masc agender" to mean "genderless person who doesn't like being gendered but who doesn't want to call out being constantly misgendered as a man and who prefers that over being misgendered as a woman".

For those of us who live in exorsexist societies, there's value in being able to tell "I'm nonbinary and I relate to a binary gender", "I'm nonbinary and I relate to both binary genders more or less equally", "I'm nonbinary and I don't relate to binary genders, but my identity is dependent on the idea of binary genders somehow" and/or "I'm nonbinary and I'm completely outside of the binary". All of those terms were conceived because of intracommunity discussions leaving folks feel erased.

Cfiaspec/cfia (cfiagender spectrum)/cfiaty/cfia or cisfiaspec/cisfiaty (cisfiagender/fiacis/fiacisgender): umbrella term for anyone on the "cis female" side of the viabinary-to-aptobinary spectrum.

Mal from Total Drama is a bi gay alloarospec allorospec tulipian veldarcian biologievilgender viabinary mesobinary evilic proxvir pixelgirl duo-binary boy who uses he/him, they/them, and it/its pronouns!

It's in an unlabeled relationship with his co-host Mike, a bisexual genderqueer cistrans girlspike linproche boy who presents fluidly and uses he/him pronouns!

They're both in a queerplatonic relationship with Svetlana, a bi straight lesbian transfeminine girl who uses she/her pronouns!

sorry it took so long to answer this. demifeminine is a fingender, while demigirl is a fiaspec/fein identity. femininity is a gender quality and girl is a gender identity. so demifem can be used as a qualifier of gender expression/presentation. therefore, not all demigirls are demifeminine. and not all demifems are demigirl, just as not all transfems are trans women. gender femininity and femaleness/womanhood not always go together. but of course, if you see your partial girlhood as a partial feminine gender, you can be both or just use one.

(Hopefully these don’t look too much like any other flags.)

These are flags for nonbinary men and nonbinary women respectively.

There are plenty of flags for nonbinary girls, but not many that are specific to women (as some people are, like me, comfortable with one term, but not the other). There was one that I could find, but it’s creator was anti-MOGAI, so I decided to take a crack at it myself.

HQ Downloads: (1) (2)

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That model definitely has a lot of issues that may overlap. For instance, insisting that nonbinary people can only be respected as such if they are completely “androgynous” and don’t identify with femininity, masculinity, being a man or being a woman at all may affect both ideobinary people and viabinary people, and also affect exobinary people in a different way when they don’t want to be seen as “in-between”.

Maverique could easily be classified as an exobinary gender, imho; even if it is defined by “bouncing off” the binary, most issues faced by someone whose experience is independent of maleness or femaleness or masculinity or femininity at all, I would guess (I’m not maverique so feel free to correct me) the maverique experience would include:

People doubting maveriques exist or “not understanding how they can exist” because maverique is not defined as similar or as a parallel to a binary gender;

People not wanting to classify a maverique’s gender expression as maverique or maverique-like, because they only accept feminine/masculine/androgynous as gender expressions;

People not understanding how can a maverique have dysphoria, or how a maverique’s dysphoria can work, because they can only think of bodies as “male or close to male”, “female or close to female” or maybe in-between;

A bunch of stuff related to gender trinarism and hatred of newer/less common/harder to understand identities, which doesn’t fit the system because exobinary also includes agender or gender neutral people.

These are mostly exobinary, although some of these could also be applied to ideobinary people.

Viaboy (viamale, viaman/viamen, viadude, viaguy): male viabinary identity; miagender (miaspec gender); relating to having an experience similar to a binary manhood, while not being 100% that aptobinary male gender (aptoma/aptomagender).

Ideomasculine (ideomasc): ideobinary masculine identity; relating to having an experience that rely on masculinity or other “projections” of MIN (masculine in nature) ideas, without being (necessarily) close to aptobinary masculinity (aptomin/aptomingender).