#alloarospec

flag id: four flags with 9 stripes. the top left flag’s stripes are dark green, faded cool green, pale teal, faded yellow-green, dull light yellow-green, faded yellow-green, pale teal, faded cool green, and dark green. the top right flag’s stripes are dark green, faded cool green, pale teal, faded yellow-green, light green-yellow, golden yellow, pale teal, faded cool green, and dark green.

the bottom left flag’s stripes are dark green, faded cool green, pale teal, dark warm purple, faded warm purple, dark warm purple, pale teal, faded cool green, and dark green. the bottom right flag’s stripes are dark green, faded cool green, pale teal, faded yellow-orange, light yellow, dark faded blue, pale teal, faded cool green, and dark green. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

noncaring aro | noncaring aroallo noncaring ace | noncaring aroace

noncaring aro(mantic/spec): a loveless aro(mantic/spec) person who does not care about others

noncaring aroallo/alloaro: a loveless aroallo/alloaro person who does not care about others

noncaring ace(spec)/asexual: a loveless ace(spec)/asexual person who does not care about others

noncaring aroace(spec): a loveless aroace(spec) person who does not care about others

[pt: noncaring aro(mantic/spec): a loveless aro(mantic/spec) person who does not care about others

noncaring aroallo/alloaro: a loveless aroallo/alloaro person who does not care about others

noncaring ace(spec)/asexual: a loveless ace(spec)/asexual person who does not care about others

noncaring aroace(spec): a loveless aroace(spec) person who does not care about others. end pt]

more noncaring flags! based on the caring aro, aroallo, ace, and aroace flags.

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @maggore, @dragonpride17, @orientation-archive

[IMAGE ID: two horizontal flags with seven evenly-sized stripes each. the first flag's colors, from top to bottom, are as follows: golden yellow, light yellow, medium green, white, warm purple, light red, and bright red. the second flag's colors, from top to bottom, are as follows: golden yellow, light yellow, medium green, dark teal, light purple, pink, and bright pink-red. END ID.]

alloaro4alloace/alloace4alloaro: a term for alloaro people/alloace people who are attracted to, or exclusively date, alloace people/alloaro people.

alloarospec4alloacespec/alloacespec4alloarospec: a term for alloarospec people/alloacespec people who are attracted to, or exclusively date, alloacespec people/alloarospec people.

colors based on the alloaro flag, the alloace flag, and these alloarospec + alloacespec flags.

icon id: 2 icons in a pair. both have the listed flags in order in the background and the left has an image of the listed character with a white outline and a black shadow.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

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Pride Patch Tutorial: Aromantic Alphabet, Part Five

Let’s continue Aro Week with another alphabet, again with wide letters great for larger objects, to accompany my seven-stripe block text patterns for making cross-stitched pride patches. Plus patterns for the words "aromantic", "asexual", "aplatonic" and other a-spectrum identities!

This block-style alphabet can be used to make your own custom text patches for horizontally-striped flags with seven or fourteen even stripes. I used this alphabet for my arovague patch (above) by reducing the width of the centre grey stripe. Other flags may need adjusting if you wish to use this alphabet!

Folks after patterns designed for three, four, five, six, ten and twelve-stripe pride flags should check out my Aro Alphabet posts and my complete pride patch gallery. I also have a patch tutorial master page covering a variety of aromantic and pride-themed designs, including arrows, aces of spades and hearts.

(The “aaa” patch uses my agender allo-aro pride flag but can of course be made using the many seven-stripe agender aro-ace flags.)

Image description beneath keep reading:

[image description: five sets of two lockscreens featuring a design of repeated arrows banded in the colours of various allosexual aromantic spectrum pride flags. The left lockscreen features the arrows set against a gradient background matching its respective flag colours; the right features the arrows set against a plain white background. Flags included are: allo-aro (green/light green/white/yellow/gold), allo-aro spectrum (green/aqua/bright pink/light blue/white/yellow/gold), loveless allo-aro (dark to light grey gradient/light green/yellow/gold/light to dark grey gradient), allo-aro agender (green/light green/white/light green/white/yellow/gold) and allo-aro aplatonic (gold/yellow/white/light green/blue).]

Allo-Aro Arrow Lockscreens, Part One

Flags: Allo-Aro, Allo-Aro Spectrum, Loveless Allo-Aro, Allo-Aro Agender, Allo-Aro Aplatonic.

I’m gathering my allo-aro lockscreens (mostly because I can never remember if I’ve reblogged them here!) for easy viewing in the one post.

Alloarophobia is a product of amatonormativity that means the hatred of aromantics who are not asexual. In society, alloaros tend to be treated as heartless players who don't have emotions and only care about sex.

This can be explained through Halsey's song Strangers. The chorus of the song goes:

We're not lovers

We're just strangers

With the same damn hunger

To be touched, to be loved, to feel anything at all

The song follows Rosa and Luna, a couple who've recently broken up because they stopped feeling romantically attracted to each other but now only feel sexual attraction. However, they still both evidently miss and care about their ex.

In an alloarophobic world, this would never have been what Halsey intended, but through an aspec lens, it tells the story of an alloaro couple who struggle with internalised alloarophobia. Society tells us that the only sexual relationship we can have is the one with our permanent romantic partner, so Rosa and Luna chose not to have a relationship at all, despite how much they still cared.

Sexual relationships without romance are just as purely healthy and valid as any other, no matter what society says.

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