#toddlertantrum

Tantrums suck am I right? You can feel like the worst mum in the world when one hits. It can feel like there is no real reason for the outburst. But there is normally a reason behind it. Think of the reasons you get anxious, those times when you’ve snapped at someone. Because you were in pain? You were hangry? Maybe you were feeling lonely and needed a hug? Well it’s the same for your little ones. Those tantrums are usually due to a frustration. A need for something. Next time it happens take a moment. Have a think. What do they need. In that moment? How can you help them out next time? Remember this is not a bad life. Only a bad moment. You’ve got this. You are a great mum. Nina. X Save this post as a reminder for when you need it. Tag a mum friend who also needs it. #toddlertantrum. #mumlife #mumsofinstagram #mumsupportingmums #mumlifebalance #itsnotabadlife #momentsofmine #motherhoodunplugged #mumhoodmoments #mumsofinsta #channelmumvillage https://www.instagram.com/p/CSHfK_eM7qB/?utm_medium=tumblr

Daily Question “Oh no! My 2 year old keeps hitting the baby. I’m always calm, I model gentle hands. He knows what “no” means. I just don’t understand! Why won’t he stop?” This is such a common parenting challenge! I’m going to tell you, what you are doing, although gentle, is ineffective because it does not take into consideration typical child development. In our workshop session on “When Toddlers Hurt People” I discuss -Why toddlers repeat actions like this, after being reminded repeatedly not to -What to do about it in a variety of different situations. -How to cope with your own big emotions during these tense times. Get the workshop session through the link in my bio or click on the little purse icon in the post. #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #toddlers #toddlerlife #toddlertantrum #toddlertantrums #parentingworkshop #childdevelopment #childdevelopmentspecialist #parentingsupport https://www.instagram.com/p/CR337uJHGbw/?utm_medium=tumblr

I have reached the part of parenthood now where am having to start disciplining my child. Instilling boundaries, making and enforcing rules, all that good stuff. I read. I'm a psych major, I have always thought I would find a way to do those things without spanking. I don't want to spank, I didn't like getting spanked. But when Push comes to shove my@little dude pushes the buttons. I say no -he starts screaming. I say don't jump on me- starts flailing and kicks me in the beans. I say let pick up our toys - he melts my nerves with creaming or just starts throwing things. I don't think spanking is necessarily effective but it's what I know. I was spanked, my parents were spanked, I'm sure their parents were spanked and so on. But it's 2019, I'm grown. i read. We know it's not great. But what baffles me is that just about every resource says don't spank. And yet none of these sources have any information on what to do instead it's a whole lot of why not to and don't. Surely with all the child research and advancements in the fields of psychology there has to be some testing that's kid and parent approved. I mean I'm a human being. I have limits and last nerves. I have blood pressure and eardrums. When your in the shit it's hard not to take a tantrum personally or lose your mind and revert to ways you know don't work but I gotta get something outta this deal too. So here we are. I am learning that perspective is the mother of change. Perhaps if we know how our kids are feeling then we might understand why they are acting the way they do and we might not take it so personally and maybe it won't break us so easily. -posted@some@good stuff with this. Hopefully this helps. But also Good luck. Your gonna need it. . . . #dadgoals #tantrums #toddlertantrums #toddlertantrum #terrible2 #3yearsold #threeyearsold #terrible2s #newfathers #stayathomedads #parentingtoddlers #parentingtools #parentingboys #boytoddler #sahd #sahmlife #sahm #sahp #momsoftoddlers #dadsoftoddlers #toddlersarehard #toddlers #stayathomeparent #stayathomeparents #newparents #newparent #beabetterfather #newgeneration #newparentslife #parentsoftoddlers https://www.instagram.com/p/BzmoCJWg-KU/?igshid=9j9fkxqtpb5s

Allah SWT berfirman, “Sesungguhnya hartamu dan anak-anakmu hanyalah cubaan (bagimu), dan di sisi Allah-lah pahala yang besar” (At-Taghabun, 15). Today he crushed my heart when he slapped my face in front of everybody in the clinic. He was angry because I refused to open the door. He cried & screamed for 40minutes. Motherhood can be challenging when your son is always at the verge of throwing tantrum every minute of the day. I am a normal human being. I yelled, I cried and I got frustrated too. Sometimes when I got back from work supertired, mu back was so painful because of the slipdisc, my patience could be very thin. I miss Dwan even more at times like this. When the kids are sick & Hassan throwing fit at me. Hassan behaves better when he is around. Luckily my family is here to help me look after HH. I am so grateful. Some people expect me to live on my own. Try handling a tantrum toddler & a breastfeeding baby at the same time - and see for yourself. He started to behave this way since he was still a newborn. He got easily triggered & cranky. Hassan will change & be better. He’s growing up, my prayers are with him & he will be okay. Again, Allah is testing me & people around me. To show compassion & love, to guide & protect him, to continue nurture him until he is big enough to understand his surrounding. Everyday I pray for Allah to give me patience, tolerance & strength to handle my kids especially Hassan. #dearHassan I love you son, no matter what. #HassanR #terribletwos #toddlertantrum

The storm has broken ... #ToddlerTantrum (at Sandy Uk)

As she says, "The key to discipline is consistency. Regardless of how busy you are, make the time for a time out when necessary".