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Purrtector
A flag for protectors who feel a connection to felines.
Anti endos can use but don't start shit.
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shout out to alters who dont have a physical appearance
shout out to alters who dont have a name
shout out to alters who dont have much to differentiate them from others
shout out to fragments
shout out to alters without a role
shout out to alters who’s only identity IS their role
shout out to alters who feel like they just exist
syscord did serious damage to my perceival of things, discussions, and people's lives/identities. it forced me into condenscendingly correcting and brutally "educating" people who weren't aware of every little thing. it made me a much more abrasive and cold individual on the basis that i should always be correcting everyone on everything at all times and enforcing the same one-size-fits-all mold of "morality" onto them. it made me angry, aggressive, frustrated, isolated, scared, and it was absolutely not worth it.
with this post, i hope to help other people realize how a lot of syscord spaces manage to radicalize people into being aggressive, extremely demeaning and bitter people, by default. this doesn't apply to every system-based discord server, but the big ones where you get dogpiled and then shittalked for anything wrong you do — instead of, you know, being properly talked to like you're a person
it is a terrible place to be in for anyone, let alone people struggling with their mental health. do not force yourselves to stay in syscords for templates or decor, its genuinely not worth it. extremely harsh environment; namely the syscords where its filled with exclusionist 15 year olds who constantly pick at everything and anything to make you problematic. do not stay in these spaces, its not worth it. i promise you there are many resource servers where you won't feel like you're in a killing game with five hundred people at your neck
Do you know a collective term for ‘‘protectors’’ and ‘‘caretakers’’? I don't know of that makes sense.. but like 😭 a term to describe both of them at once (e.g., ‘‘yeah, sorry, you'll have to talk to a ____ about that!’’)
That makes sense! I've never heard a term for it so I'm just going to coin it!
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Guardian - An umbrella term for alters who are protectors, caretakers, both, or similar roles.
The light brown and shield is for protecting roles The pink is for the care and love that they have while fulfilling these roles The blue and medical cross are for the gentleness of caretaking roles
Hopefully this helps and if you're not a fan of the term, here are some words that could also work: Patron, chaperone, guide, shield, and advocate
a snapshot of the ways fronting occurs for us
first image: yj (drawn by him too)
2nd image: maple, clark, matt, vera (drawn respectively)
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the post that i am nervous about posting
i saw a post earlier today and i felt i needed to address it. i'm not going to be linking the actual post as i feel that would be insensitive, but the basic gist of it was "i'm not a system because i have an insane number of fictives and can control who's fronting. plus, my childhood trauma wasn't strong enough to cause a split."
this was really bothering to us in a lot of ways.
number of fictives has no basis on validity, and it's a common tactic of fakeclaimers to target fictive-heavy systems and tell them that their existence is not valid.
WE control who's fronting. if felix wants to stop fronting, he simply asks raven, "would you mind fronting for a minute?" and they will. sometimes felix will stick to front and it's difficult for anyone else to front, but most times, we have control over it. that doesn't mean we're not a system.
say it with me, guys: IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MUCH TRAUMA YOU HAD OR HOW STRONG YOU THINK IT WAS. everyone is different and different levels of stress can trigger splits in different people. plus, when you're a literal CHILD, things are much more intense than they would be if you were 5, 6 years older. DO NOT DIMINISH YOUR TRAUMA. it may not have been a family member dying, and it may not have been straight up abuse but when you're a kid, things hurt a LOT more than they would if you were older. PLUS THERE ARE DIFFERENT REASONS SYSTEMS FORM THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH TRAUMA.
quick disclaimer by the way: if someone thinks they're a system and it turns out they're not, that is absolutely fine, it takes time to figure yourself out and you might have some hiccups along the way. but also, if you think you're a system member, PLEASE don't diminish your existence just because someone tells you that the way you are plural isn't chill.
i don't usually post about sys stuff, but this felt important to address.
OH ALSO: if you're a system you're a system. it doesn't matter how old you are and it doesn't matter if people tell you you're not. there is no wrong way to be multiple. pls remember that
Fell off the face of the earth, whoops.. anyway, we actually have 3 new alters so that sucks, no offense to them of course, but really not fun it throws everything off course. We did get our first fictive, and its Miku like Hatsune Miku, which im not completely sure why or how, it could be because Amari was going through an intense Miku phase her sketchbook is literally COVERED in Miku doodles, she downloaded so many Miku songs and bought multiple miku plushies and figures which are on the way here, also she was fronting the most for awhile.. but yea. The others I won't say any details because I don't know if they are ok with it or not.
But yes we are back!!! Though we (well i) posted once, I still feel ba for disappearing. Thats it, bye. :)
-Maiako
that moment when the memory loss do be memory loss'ing
