[sp success story] he's back, lmao
the reason why i got into the law of assumption in the first place was because of this man.
he initiated separation (but pretty sure i manifested it)
1 month later, he got a girlfriend
removed me from all social media
literally told me to back off when i asked how he was doing during no contact
11 months later, he's come back and parrotted to me all of the assumptions i had of him while we were in no contact.
"but dream4jk, why did it take so long?"
because i wasn't disciplined enough.
i know a lot of people think that all law of assumption bloggers have their shit together and can easily get what they want.
and they're right, but sometimes, having human reason and ego take effect before master manifestor does.
i buried my feelings about sp and our situation for months.
this resulted in me having breakdowns down the line, even half a year into the separation.
me disregarding what i felt about the situation made me more attached to his return and to him, because i literally did not let myself grieve before trying to accept the situation as it is.
getting rid of the old story involves accepting the situation for what it is (something you manifested) and forgiving it and yourself for letting it happen.
i also got stuck on "trying" to manifest him back when i literally could've just assumed that he was back.
i constantly felt inadequate just cause i saw no movement with him, and i made that my reality.
what helped me pull him in
i worked on myself for months to try and accept the situation as it is.
a month before he reached out, mutuals of ours started telling me about his life recently and it gave me a new perspective on who he is now - he's no longer someone i knew.
all of the previous story that i knew of him were thrown out the window. i was basically handed a silver platter of him becoming a blank canvas for me to grace my work on (my new assumptions of him)
finally, 3 days before he reached out, i promised to myself that i will get him back and will be really fucking disciplined about it.
every time i thought of him, i redirected the thoughts into a small action that he "already did" - follow me on social media.
i remained in this story and remained calm, just trusting that all of it already happened.
he then reached out by reconnecting on more than 1 social media platform, and ended up telling me im a dream partner. he is now single.
he has made amends and attempts to try to get on my good side, initiating long ass conversations. not to mention praising me so much, probably more than he did when we were initially together.
circumstances don't matter. the perception of time doesn't matter
your perception of what you experience is the only thing that matters.
don't make the same mistakes i did.
be compassionate to yourself while staying disciplined in what it is that you want.
you want it right? stop chasing after it. you wouldn't chase it if it was already yours.
We already have our dream life, babes!
Moving with love, dream4jk πΌ
