#nonbinary tag

Nice slogan, but where in society is androgyny in nonbinary people widely celebrated and supported? Nonbinary people are expected to pick a side and if they are trying for androgyny, you can bet someone will nitpick it and claim it's not perfectly androgynous.

Nonbinary people are heavily binarized, because they live in a society that enforces binarity. They are punished by binarism, not androgyny.

are nonbinary

have dyed/cut your own hair over quarantine

love netflix cartoons

My recent purchases from thredUP & looks by Chris Fleming that inspired them.

From one showpig to another:

It’s not easy to like the way you look, especially when you’re both trans and physically disabled. Since beginning my medical transition, I’ve never been happier—and the addition of your wonderful non sequiturs to my vocabulary has reminded me not to take life too seriously in the meantime...as I go about my Floridian fruity business.

Your carefree attitude towards presentation has helped me slowly but surely learn to feel comfortable again in more feminine clothing following my top surgery (and years of significant dysphoria); your refusal to be anyone but yourself has inspired me. I’ve only been keeping up with your work for a short time, but it means the world to me.

Thank you, Chris.

— Kennedy (they/them)

@accessfashion

[Image description: seven photos of the original poster, Kennedy, a short, thin white nonbinary person with shoulder-length, wavy blonde hair and glasses, interspersed with four photos of comedian Chris Fleming, a tall, thin white nonbinary person with shoulder-length, curly light brown hair and glasses. Photos are described left to right, top to bottom.

Photos 1 and 3 show Kennedy sitting on a half wall in front of their apartment building, dressed in a full-length, white sleeveless jumpsuit with orange-and-black vertical stripes. In photo 1, they are straddling the wall; in photo 3, they have pulled their right knee to their chest to show their black dress shoes.

Photo 2 shows Chris dancing in a similar jumpsuit in the music video for “W.U.G.”

Photos 4, 5, and 6 show Kennedy outside the back of their apartment building, wearing dark-wash jeans, a partially unbuttoned long-sleeved dark purple shirt with a blue floral pattern, and a plain gray tee shirt underneath. In photo 4, they are sitting against a lamp post; in photo 5, they are sitting at a table, resting their face against their hand and smiling; in photo 6, they are leaning forward over the back of one of the chairs.

Photo 7 shows Chris guest-starring on the TV series Corporate as Todd in a similar outfit, spreading his arms and smiling at someone off-camera.

Photo 8 shows Kennedy in a full-length, sleeveless orange jumpsuit with a floral short-sleeve button up worn open over it, sitting sideways on an outdoor bench.

Photo 9 shows Chris in a short, light yellow jumpsuit with orange vertical stripes, in a similar pose to Kennedy in the previous photo.

Photo 10 shows Chris in a similar orange jumpsuit to Kennedy’s and short, heeled purple boots, kneeling on a stool while performing.

Photo 11 shows Kennedy in the same jumpsuit as in photo 8, sitting in their power wheelchair in front of a bathroom mirror.

Dipper: What does that mean?

Hello, I (Disabled, Autistic, and Mestizo. Recovering from Homelessness) and one other trans man (disabled and Jewish) need help with Necessities for the very small studio apartment we share.

We have an Amazon wishlist, with the things that we require: Such as; a vacuum, a toaster, curtains and rods to create privacy and separate space, power strips, and cooking wear.

December is often seen as a month of Charity, and we can certainly use yours this month.

You can also help out, by donating to my cash.app if that’s easier.

Amazon Wishlist Cash.App: $NicoBowie

Please make sure to sort the wishlist by priority. The sort and filer drop down menu is located on the right-hand side at the top of this list.

Hi anon!

The very first thing I did was bring it up with my therapist - she helped me figure out the steps of qualification I would need for the process. For my surgery, I needed a physical, recent bloodwork, a diagnosis of gender dysphoria, and a letter from a qualified gender therapist.

When I went in for my physical, I asked my primary doctor to refer me. I also called the Transgender Helpline for my insurance for advice in getting a gender therapist < that's the most important thing.

For my insurance, there were only two therapists available to talk to, and I basically had to prove that my life would get better if I got the procedure. After that, the gender therapist will refer you to the dept. so you can be qualified for surgery.

Then I called mult. times to get an appointment and pre-op with a surgeon. After that I had to wait until there was an opening for the surgery. I eventually got the call earlier than I was told bc someone dropped a surgery last minute.

Then I had to do a final blood test and go in for the procedure.

This whole process took about two years - this was with COVID delays and other personal things.