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For Ace(spec)s, are you...
Sex-Favorable
Sex-Indifferent
Sex-Averse
Sex-Repulsed
Sex-Ambivalent
Not Sure/Don't Know/Questioning
Not Ace(spec)/See Results
This is asked purely out of curiosity; no matter where you fall, you are valid as an ace(spec) and awesome! (Aro poll here; aroace(spec) folks, feel free to answer both.)
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Sexual Attraction: Feeling sexual desire or having sexual thoughts for someone or something. Libido: Having a physical desire for sexual release. Sexual Arousal: The physical response of a body when it is preparing for sex or is sexually stimulated.
These three things often overlap, but can occur separately. Sexual attraction often causes a libido spike, and a libido spike often causes sexual arousal, but "often" =/= "always"/"for every person."
An asexual can have a libido. A non-libidoist can be allosexual. A person can become sexually aroused even if they are unattracted to someone, or are not experiencing a libido spike.
You can have sexual desires/thoughts for someone (sexual attraction) but no physical desire for sex (libido) - or vice versa. You can become sexually aroused from random stimulation (ie; rubbing genitals against something on accident) or from random hormone spikes.
This separation is necessary when explaining the asexual spectrum and allosexual spectrum to people.
"Asexuals do not want to have sex"
WRONG
Asexuals do not feel sexual attraction.
It's a completely different feeling to 'want' to have sex or not.
I've had sex with guys I'm not sexually attracted to.
I've not wanted to have sex with guys I am sexually attracted to.
Wanting to have sex with someone is not the same as being sexually attracted to them.
(I'm greyace, I do feel sexual attraction on occasion so I do know what I'm talking about.)
aro & ace books: grey-ace & acespec
either specifically grey-ace, or where they're clearly some sort of ambiguously acespec (but not specifically demi). Ambiguity either from the setting/writing/context, or the character is questioning/unsure.
find grey-aroace/aroacespec books here, and demisexual here
A Letter to the Luminous Deep - sff duology, ace or acespec coded MCs (2/4), m/f
The Hands of the Emperor/At The Feet of the Sun - high fantasy series, greyace/acespec man MC, m/m qpr
After the Dragons - scifi novella, maybe greyace MC (1/2), m/m
Nophek Gloss - scifi trilogy, acespec (maybe arospec) man MC, maybe acespec woman MC
She Who Became The Sun - historical fantasy duology, nonbinary acespec MC (1/2*),
The Unbalancing - high fantasy novella, demi/greyace nonbinary MC (1/2)
Bloody Spade - YA urban fantasy, greyace/acespec girl MC (1/4), m/f
The Many Half-Lived Lives of Sam Sylvester - YA contemporary/paranormal - nonbinary MC 'on the ace spectrum'
Kiss Me Maybe - contemporary romance, explicitly grey-ace lesbian MC, f/f
#aspec books / aspec database / tumblr masterpost
info included here is brief! please see my database for full details of the books
mini flags #06 f2u with or without credit!
flags in order demisexual | grayace | cupiosexual demiromantic | grayromantic | cupioromantic fraysexual | lithosexual | autosexual
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Shout out to the romance/sex averse aroaces and greyroses. The ones that can only tolerate sex and romance in fiction if we try to force ourselves to believe it's not romantic/sexual in nature. The ones who only that feel aesthetic/sensory attraction for only like. 5 minutes max. Then never feel Again. The aroaces that dont want to "marry platonically". The ones that would rather live in a friendly community with their own space than Start a family. This is mostly for me but... Please, is there anyone else like me? The first few posts in the Aroace search is about.. Yearning. And shipping and attraction... I feel so alone. :(
LGBTQ+ Pokemon: Asexual Spectrum pt 1
Asexual Noibat | Demisexual Noibat
Asexual Espurr | Demisexual Espurr | Graysexual Espurr
Acespec Espurr | Fraysexual Dratini
Cupiosexual Espurr | Alloace Skitty | Akoisexual Scorbunny
In which espurr is an ace icon
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yes someone saying to my face that they didn't want to fuck me made me swoon. I'm doing love on levels you couldn't begin to understand
