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[PT: Ectonormativity]

Ectonormativity is a subset of amatonormativity, centering around the social concept that every person must have attraction and/or relationships with a person outside of their physical self; the idea that autospec and in-system relationships/attraction are either problematic or not a "real" relationship. Common examples of ectonormativity include: -Referring to autospec or in-sys relationships/attraction as "selfcest", implicating that it is comparable to incestophilia, when they are not the same thing [link.] -Telling autospec people that they are "narcissistic" (also overlapping with saneism towards NPD) and "egotistical". -Telling autospec people that they "will never be satisfied with themselves." -Telling autospec people that its "just self-confidence/self-love, not a real orientation, and they're just trying to be special." -Making fun of autospecs for self-dates, self-marriages, etc, with no external partner to make it appear "normal." -Making fun of plurals for dates, marriages, etc, where only the shared body is present, with no external partner to make it appear "normal." -Diminishing the personhood of one or all of the sysmates involved in a relationship, claiming that all the sysmates are a singular being (which is both pluralphobic fakeclaiming and also anti-autospec.)

Aroace

Asexual

Aromantic

Demisexual

Demiromantic

Greyasexual

Greyaromantic

Aceflux

Aroflux

Cupiosexual

Cupioromantic

Lithosexual

Lithoromantic

Autosexual

Autoromantic