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Ashe Ubert from Fire Emblem Three Houses is Caedfamilial and Greyfamilial
Ashe Ubert from Fire Emblem Three Houses is Caedfamilial and Grayfamilial!
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Ashe Ubert from Fire Emblem Three Houses is Caedfamilial and Greyfamilial
Ashe Ubert from Fire Emblem Three Houses is Caedfamilial and Grayfamilial!
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hey waiter can we get characters on the afamilial spectrum screaming that something would be so much easier if they just didnt love their sibling/parent/cousin/whatever the same way they dont love anyone else in the family, can we get that, waiter
Realizing that I might be grayfamilial or something similar (very little familial attraction that flucates) and a lot of things are starting to make sense
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Wondering if I might even be afamspec. Like, I know I love my close family (my sister and my parents, all with which I live), but when it comes to other people in my family… sure, I’d be sad if they were to pass, and I would certainly cry at their funeral/memorial, but that’s more because I’m thinking about death and how a person’s life was lost—how their presence was important to so many people around them—not as much because I’m thinking about how much I miss them. And I don’t consider my friends to be family, so there’s no room for familial attraction there. I mean, anyone who is in my family—blood-related or adopted—I consider family. But I don’t feel too particularly attached, I guess? Maybe it’s because I don’t see them much anymore? However, when I read posts about being afamspec, I feel this slight sense of excitement, but idk if that means I’m excited to learn something new in general about the overall aspec or that I’m excited to learn something new about myself. It’s difficult to distinguish between those two things. Maybe I’m grayfamilial? Demifamilial? Some other label under the afamspec umbrella? Hell, maybe I’m on the aspec for most—or even every—type of attraction or something. I might as well be, bc shit’s confusing, lol.
ETA: Forgot to mention that the only people I feel comfortable saying “I love you” to are my parents and kind of my sister (I don’t say it to her often so I’m not as used to it).
Afamilial Spectrum (Afaspec)
Top Row: Afamilial Spectrum (Afaspec)
Middle Row: Afamilial (left), Demifamilial (right)
Bottom Row: Grayfamilial (left), Caedfamilial (right)
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Afamilial Spectrum: An umbrella terms for all familial identities that are not strictly Allofamilial, while feeling connected to the Afamilial label. Can be shortened to Afaspec or Afamspec. (“Ay-Fah(m)-Spec”) Examples include Demifamilial, Grayfamilial, Caedfamilial, etc.
Afamilial: The absence or near absence of familial attraction, where one may lack the feeling to be close to one considers family, or may not consider anyone family in the first place. Could be shortened to Afa or Afam.
Demifamilial: An afaspec identity where one doesn’t experience familial attraction until forming a deep emotional connection with someone. (or otherwise conditional attachment before experiencing attraction) Could be shortened to Demiafa, or Demiafam.
Grayfamilial/Greyfamilial: An afaspec identity where one feels connected to the afamilial term, however may not describe their familial attraction as strictly afamilial or allofamilial. Could be considered an umbrella term for any afaspec terms that are either between allofamilial and afamilial, or terms that feel simply like they aren’t strictly those two terms. Could be shortened to Grayafa/Greyafa, or Grayafam/Greyafam.
Caedfamilial: A afaspec identity where one feels like their allofamilial disappeared or changed to either strictly afamilial or afaspec due to trauma. Should only be used by those with trauma and/or PTSD. Can be shortened to Caedafa or Caedafam.
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These flags/terms were originally posted on June 16th, 2022. A few of the flags have been slightly color adjusted.
Anyways Hi welcome to the bottom of the post. I made these flags to fill a gap in my hoard since I feel like I’m Afamilial in some ways, and therefore coined Afaspec to fill the gap since I don’t think anyone’s officially coined a term (shorthand term) for Afamilial attraction yet.
That being said I also decided to make some flags since I couldn’t find any and ig “official” (as in idk if anyone else has done it yet) descriptions for Afamilial, Demifamilial, Grayfamilial, and Caedfamilial.
So yeah I made flags for these terms and stuff, I'll likely make Afaflux at some point. Feel free to use these flags and make your own. I’d love to see more familial terms in use. Let me know if any of these flags are significantly bad when it comes to color-blindness or eye strain, I'd be willing to take notes and post an alternative flag(s) if needed.
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Alcryst from Fire Emblem Engage is Greyfamilial
Alcryst from Fire Emblem Engage is Grayfamilial!
Grayfamilial culture is not wanting to be anyone's family except my hypothetical future child. I'll be a dad for them
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Realising I'm grayfamilial and fictofamilial has helped me with coming to terms with my want to break contact or at least heavily limit my contact with my biological family in the future
It's something I've felt guilty over for years and I was so sure that it meant I have to secretly hate my biology family deep down, I know I care about them, but I don't love them, I like some of them but not to the point I want to get any closer to them than I already am
It probably also connects to my distaste for my biological father, the few siblings I have contact with also speak to him, and he's such a big part of my trauma that I feel it would do me better to eventually cut ties with anyone who speaks to him
I still feel somewhat guilty since I'm living with a biological sibling right now, but in a few years I hope I'll be at the point where I feel comfortable keeping my distance from them without guilt