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Happy pride especially towards EVERY a-spec person
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Golf Ball from Battle for Dream Island is apothiaroace, aroace, a lesbian, transfemme, bigender, agender, a paragirl, intersex (hypoestrogenism), caedsensual, demifamilial, disabled, autistic, a quoigenic system, an empty system and lovequeer!
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There's a moment from when I was in tenth grade that I remember so clearly.
It was P.E. class, and I was sitting somewhere near the basketball court, a place I liked sitting at because it was quiet and covered in the shadows of the trees around.
I was thinking, as we all do sometimes, and had this one specific sentence cross my mind.
"Am I supposed to feel something when I tell my mom I love her?"
It made me pause.
I wasn't sure how to answer it.
I wasn't sure how to even approach it.
For a few years after that moment, I always refused to think too much about it. I told myself I was mistaken. Because of course I loved her. She was family. I had to love my family, right?
Then I learned the term afamilial.
It wasn't an immediate "That's me!" kind of feeling.
More of a... "Oh, this exists. Nice."
It took me some time to realize I related to it. Took me even longer to accept it.
But I did, and here I am a few months later.
I'm demifamilial.
It feels right to say that.
It feels good to have a name for my experience.
It feels comforting to know there's more people like me out there.
Even if I can never come out to most people. Even if many would think I'm some kind of horrible person for it.
It still feels nice. Because I'm not lying to myself about this anymore.
So... to any afamilials reading this, and to anyone who may have resonated with this post, afamilial or not.
I just want you to know that you're not alone.
We're together in this. We always will be.
Happy Pride Month.
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*gives Cyan a pride flag of the mod's choice for pride month*
-- Anonymous Spirit 🩷👻
ooc: its demifamilial, one of my flags!
We talk a lot about how hard Valentines Day can be for aromantics and arospecs. And that’s good. We should talk about that. But I don’t see much discussion of how it can be hard for afamilials.
My parents gave me a Valentines Day card. Proclaiming that they love me. It came with a cookie. I should feel happy. All I feel is guilt. So you love me. Alright. So why can’t I reciprocate? What can I say in response to this card that wouldn’t be a bald-faced lie?
“I love you.” -Lie
“I feel happy when I’m around you.” -Lie
”My ideal future is one where I still talk to you” -Lie Lie Lie
Why do I lack the basic emotion of familial love that everyone else, including my own sisters, seems to possess? It’s not like my parents are bad people either. There are real bad parents out there. Mine aren’t terrible. I’m glad they went on a lunch date together and they weren’t here when I opened the card. Because I couldn’t have feigned happiness.
Let’s pour one out for the afamspecs today. All of them. The afamilials and the greyfamilials and the demifamilials and the quoifamilials and all the other microlabels. Those who are familial-favorable, familial-indifferent, or familial-repulsed. The loveless afamilials and those who do love, just not their family. Do something you enjoy today. For me.
Wondering if I might even be afamspec. Like, I know I love my close family (my sister and my parents, all with which I live), but when it comes to other people in my family… sure, I’d be sad if they were to pass, and I would certainly cry at their funeral/memorial, but that’s more because I’m thinking about death and how a person’s life was lost—how their presence was important to so many people around them—not as much because I’m thinking about how much I miss them. And I don’t consider my friends to be family, so there’s no room for familial attraction there. I mean, anyone who is in my family—blood-related or adopted—I consider family. But I don’t feel too particularly attached, I guess? Maybe it’s because I don’t see them much anymore? However, when I read posts about being afamspec, I feel this slight sense of excitement, but idk if that means I’m excited to learn something new in general about the overall aspec or that I’m excited to learn something new about myself. It’s difficult to distinguish between those two things. Maybe I’m grayfamilial? Demifamilial? Some other label under the afamspec umbrella? Hell, maybe I’m on the aspec for most—or even every—type of attraction or something. I might as well be, bc shit’s confusing, lol.
ETA: Forgot to mention that the only people I feel comfortable saying “I love you” to are my parents and kind of my sister (I don’t say it to her often so I’m not as used to it).