if you think that intersex people existing within your spaces is 'co-opting' and 'appropriating' your language, you should probably evaluate why you feel that way about intersex people and why you think you're different than your average peri-cis intersexist (hint: you're not).
it's just irritating as an intersex person to be forced into peri-centric standards of what is 'valid' when it comes to my own gender identity. I feel similarly as somebody who's also nonbinary and multigender, since these things have a huge hand in why I identify the way I do, as well. it's honestly pretty exhausting to be seemingly exempt from the average peri-binary person's trans 'activism' when they are part of the reason why more people should include those like me in the first place.
