#fleuraison

Idk if i'll post today cus i have no ideas or motivation 😭 requests still very open 🙏

- @oakims (sideblog bleugh)

As a former anti, we used to use alternatives to transIDs, but we genuinely wanted to understand why others would use them. Eventually, we got comfortable using transIDs ourselves but we didn't exactly fit into many communities; we weren't comfortable with radqueer communities due to the amount of negativity and discourse from both sides.

I'M GONNA POST MORE FLAGS TODAY I PROMISE!! i have just been a little busy but THEY ARE COMING i pinkie promise 🙏

💥💥💥 Wild Berry Cookie is FLEUR 💥💥💥

PrivacyQueer ☁️🕶️

a blankqueer based around keeping things about yourself private, either from public or from everyone, for whatever reason. such as;

your real name, real prns, real IDs, etc - so you might make an entirely different persona to hide your identity

your beliefs irt shipping discourse, all or specific paras, all or specific transIDs, and stances (contact or otherwise)

what you look like, the area/timezone/country you live in, your irls, pets, etc (don't disclose your area anyway tbf!! not safe)

your nat/cisIDs, chronoage, even transIDs - you might either lie and say your transIDs are nat/cisIDs, or not disclose either of them

basically anything else about you that you want to keep private

privacyqueer is about INTERNET SAFETY- it's not about lying to people for no reason. this community has a habit of oversharing to a dangerous degree & as someone who grew up as the internet was really taking off, i was taught internet safety at a young age and it seems like people these days Aren't??? eek

basics of Internet safety:

lie about who you are to people you don't trust or know very well. chrono18yo asian? you are now chrono34yo mexican. btw knowing someone for even a few months, unless you are Certain they are who they say they are and are safe, does not mean knowing them well. people can lie just like you

if you're a chronominor, do not disclose your chrono age EVER. tell people you're a minor only if it becomes relevant, such as when exposed to nsfw interaction or when entering a relationship as it can be illegal

do not share your face. do not share your location. don't do it. don't associate yourself with your irls online as they can doxx you too, if they decide to or even accidentally

don't share your triggers!!! people can use that to hurt you!!

don't say or do anything incriminating in front of people, flat out, but especially if you don't trust absolutely everyone that might see it

use a vpn if you can but i understand if u can't