i follow radqueers too because the fleur community is only so big, but it's really kind of scary and stressful because i have to check for all these things to make sure they aren't genuinely harmful, and when i do check, 90% of the time it's too vague to be useful, so it's like do i go through their entire blog to see if they clarified it once upon a time, or do i just follow them anyways and hope i didn't miss something super obvious, and then sometimes they follow my main blog back, and now i CAN'T unfollow or block them now that would be rude, and before you know it i have a stress headache and need to get off of tumblr before i explode :<