Some chronic pain memes for extra hurty times
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Some chronic pain memes for extra hurty times

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Gentle reminder that your disability and/or chronic illness struggles are valid, even if others have it worse. ļæ¼Itās not like thereās one definitive Most Disabled Person In The World and theyāre the only one entitled to accommodations or reactive emotions. Thatās not how it works <3
comic for autism awareness month about how being a person with autism affects us as a system personally. this isnāt exhaustive and idk if the info is useful, but Iāve been working on this for days so here lol
note: these are OUR experiences. nothing else.
(PRO)ENDOS DNI
an irritating thing about having multiple health conditions (especially if itās a combo of mental & physical ones) is that people seem to have this desire for one of ur conditions to be the One True Malady thatās causing all ur other issues. and while sometimes that can be the case itās also very common for conditions to have complex interactions with one another where thereās no single root, just a constant interplay where the effects of one condition compound the symptoms of the other and vice versa.
a psychiatrist once told me that my physical disability is the root of all my mental problems including my autism, and i just need to āget that sortedā (as in, cure my physical disability) and as soon as im not bedbound/in a wheelchair anymore I wonāt need mental health support anymore. meanwhile some people who are validating of my personality disorder diagnosis seem to think my PD is somehow the cause of all of my physical issues including like, my 55 degree scoliosis curve, and i donāt even know where to start with that one. my beloved grandmother keeps telling me that my reversed sleep schedule is the root of all my ails and if i just get prescribed the right sleeping pills then i will recover completely. one time i saw a rheumatologist who told me that if i healed my mental trauma with something called the butterfly methodš then all my joint n muscle issues would leave š yay butterflies. anyway letās all fall in love with the reality that often there isnt one single answer, thereās often a hundred answers which are all dependent on each other. the end
I mean, even if you're unsure you have a disorder or not, if something helps, let it help-
Dumb exemple is like "Idk if I have auditory disfunction" bro if the subtitles make it easier, put them on
"Idk if I have autism" if the construction work level of soundproofing headphones help, then wear them bro
The point of accessibility is that it's accessible for anyone- not just the very specific people it was designed for (if the thing is in very limited access, then it's more of a case by case thing, but a lot of things aren't). Most popular example is how ramps/lower curbs were meant for wheelchair users but they're also used by strollers and shopping carts
(I understand the fear of taking something from someone, but a lot of the time, you aren't, you deserve accessibility too)
Or ask for help, "but I don't have [disorder] I shouldn't need help for this" well what if you do ? Everyone's needs are different
U can struggle with something even if you don't meet all the criterias for a disorder. Like, idk, you could struggle with eye contact even if you don't have autism since that's the only symptom you have. Doesn't mean you're not struggling with it
Or equally, "I'm not sure if I'm trans but I feel better about myself with a binder on" then do it even if you're a cis woman
Or it's fine to try out things- just whatever floats your boat bro

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Another part of being disabled/chronically ill that isn't talked about that much is how you just stop mentally aging, especially if you got sick in your teen years. You're stuck at the age you were during the year before you got sick because you get held back from the things that make you feel older.
Like I don't think I've mentally gotten past being 18. I turn 21 in less than a year. Like some of my friends are employed full time, some of my friends are in the army and navy, some of my friends are engaged, some of my friends are having babies, some of my friends have moved out and away from their parents, some of my friends are driving now, some of my friends party at clubs, they travel states, they go on big vacations, and I just never got to get to that point. All of the things that I should be doing for my age, I can't do, and it makes me feel like a fucking baby, dude.
what do I say when it will never get better