#arospec post

a general psa that “reminding” loveless aromantics that love doesn’t have to be romantic is just rude and borderline disrespectful. trust me, they know. they probably understand the connotations of love better than you too. loveless aros are the ones who know their identity and comfort levels best so how about y’all stop getting up in arms whenever they challenge how you think people are supposed to interpret love.

Happy Valentine’s Day to all of the aromantics and arospecs who have a hard time with this holiday! I hope your day is pleasant and the constant reminders of amatonormativity doesn’t make you too uncomfortable. Please take care of yourselves!

your daily reminder that if your partner makes you feel bad for being aromantic then they aren’t a good partner and you can do so much better. you shouldn’t feel like you can’t be yourself around someone who claims to care for you. you deserve to be with someone who cares for you as you are and not as they want you to be!

support polyamorous aromantics! being in a relationship doesn’t equal being in a romantic relationship! stop equating dating with romance when there are tons of other factors that play a part in relationships!