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"Why would this character be jealous of their friend's romantic relationships? Clearly they're in love with them" I don't know if you guys have ever Had Friends but it's actually pretty common for people to feel jealous if their best friend suddenly has less time for them and is prioritising someone they just met over them. That's not inherently romantic, that's the general human desire to be valued by the people you value.
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I’m so tired of the “why do people hate aspecs, they aren’t doing anything?” argument. I know that it is an attempt to support us, but it fails so spectacularly to understand aromanticism, asexuality, and any other aspec identity that it’s actively frustrating.
We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.
There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:
A single income isn't enough to get by anymore
Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system
Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly
Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.
So, no, aces and aros and other aspecs aren't "doing nothing." We're doing quite a lot.
One thing that really sucks about getting more confident in yourself and your identity is that a lot of things you used to be able to just ignore are suddenly a way bigger deal. Small dick jokes aren't funny. Virgin/sexless jokes aren't funny. Jokes hinging on "incorrect" gender presentation or sex characteristics aren't funny! Offhanded blanket comments about men or women or sex or romance are so much more infuriating now. People use AFAB/AMAB to imply things about bodies and I want to lose my shit. Being more of myself is fucking awesome but man, it really reveals how little of myself is truly acceptable to anyone.
anytime someone writes a post about aromantic people in a relationship and specifically aroallo people there will be some asshole in the notes going "as long as you don't lead the other person on it's fine ❤️" and it pisses me off because I *know* they mean "explain everything about your attraction to the other party or you're a selfish bitch" and it's so fucking infuriating. how about YOU explain yourself for a change. how about YOU explain how important romance and/or sex is to you. how about you stop thinking of yourself as someone who doesn't have to be vulnerable and tell the other person what you want. how about that
Can we please normalize and be normal about people going their entire life without sex, kissing, marriage, romance, a partner, dating and anything adjecent. Thank you for your participation.
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Forever feeling like there's implicit stuff that I somehow never know
aroace culture is getting irritated when people say "what if it's a phase?"
of course there's the aphobia of that statement, but also. So what if I choose to identify with another label at some point? Doesn't diminish what i feel now.. Our lives are inherently ephemeral, it's not like something has to last forever and ever to be significant
I've said this before and I'll say it again. The history of labels you use can be really important and meaningful, too. It is ok for your labels to change as your understanding of yourself changes.
alloromantics are WRONG best friendship is BEAUTIFUL as its OWN THING and does NOT need to "develop" into ROMANTIC FEELINGS! BEST FRIENDS ARE AWESOME!!! you are SHACKLED to your own BELIEFS that ROMANCE TRUMPS ALL! YOU ARE WRONG !!!! not everything has to be sorted into either ROMANTIC or FAMILIAL relationships! BEST FRIENDS ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!
