Pinned, I Guess
I'm Rat. This blog is mostly aroace stuff, with secondary focus on transness, broader queer topics, and autism/general neurodiversity. My pronouns are strictly it/its. I do not discuss my gender identity, assigned sex, physical characteristics, or transition beyond what is relevant to individual posts. I am a calico cat therian and prefer not to be regarded as human. I am a gay-oriented aroace and experience only exceedingly rare romantic attraction. I am in a long-term monoamorous romantic relationship with an allo partner; I will not go into detail about it, but that is the context I am speaking from. I care very much about deconstructing allonormativity, amatonormativity, and compulsory sexuality. I am sex-indifferent, with occasional fluctuations, and the defense of the nonsexual is important to me. I am not sex-positive. I believe very strongly in sex neutrality- that sex is an action which holds no inherent moral weight. I feel similarly about kink and generally consider both worthy of careful consideration rather than blind positivity. I engage by assuming good faith until proven otherwise. I will answer questions and explain things as long as I am met with courtesy and civility. I also block quite liberally - not necessarily always for personal reasons, but simply to curate my online space for the sake of my own sanity. I do not use content warnings beyond tagging. I do my best to tag appropriately, and am always open to suggestions if there are tags that ought be added to a post; I may not always agree, but in general I appreciate feedback. That's all for now; thanks for stopping by!
